China’s national conditions are different from those of the West, and so are its folk customs.
It is true that some customs in rural areas are not very good, but playing, playing, playing and singing has been passed down to this day. All the songs sung are mourning songs. Why can't they be sung? The music played by the flute is also sad music, so you can't carry a stereo, right? It seems so disrespectful to the deceased.
1. Ugly customs must be corrected
Some people in rural areas now have funerals at home. They invite trumpet troupes to play mourning music at home and sing Cui Zi at night. Let the people in the countryside gather together to keep vigil at night.
But some places actually provide teams that include striptease performances!
In some places, there are old hooligans who come on stage to hug female guests performing stripteases, causing chaos and chaos. It is extremely vulgar!
Relevant departments, including the village branch, must make rectifications when they find out about such a thing!
2. Playing, playing and singing is a folk custom that should be respected
Why do people play, play and sing when someone dies? I heard the elderly say that this is to clear the way for the deceased person to say goodbye. It also lets the surrounding neighbors know that he has passed away. Standing on the roadside and watching the farewell procession is equivalent to watching the person who has passed away.
In addition, it is also said that playing and singing is to let the deceased remember the way home.
In short, these are folk customs passed down from generation to generation by Chinese people and cannot be abandoned! It is also the last respect given to those who have passed away.
3. Don’t worship foreign things
Foreign countries generally go to the mourning hall to pay respects to the deceased, offer flowers, and then cremate and bury them. We have already begun to do this, but it can also be integrated with foreign customs.
Keep our own, learn other people's excellent methods, and don't blindly worship foreigners and despise our own country and our own folk customs.