The two of us have decided to hold a wedding ceremony at noon on the day of the year (the lunar calendar day). We will write each other's vows and abide by them for life. On the road to marriage, we will work together, no matter the disaster or illness, Support each other and never be separated. And on the following matters, we made a commitment: Even if the sea turns into mulberry fields, and the mulberry fields turn into seas again, we must join hands and move forward, loving each other until we grow old. 1. We swear that from the day we get married, we will not only become husband and wife, respect and love each other, and share each other's joys and sorrows, but also become friends and critical friends, encouraging each other, admonishing each other, and criticizing each other. 2. We understand that a happy life together depends entirely on spiritual communication. Therefore, we must use words well to not only express love and concern, but also to deepen our understanding of each other through communication and language and grow together. ?Never rebuke harshly, do not use body language instead of words, and never allow marital violence to occur. 3. We recognize that family and career are the fruits of husband and wife's joint management. The husband and wife's contributions to the family are equal and have exactly the same value within the family or in society. No matter how much the social work salary is, the housework salary is the same. . 4. We agree that when we have children in the future, if we have different opinions or even sharp confrontations about discipline, we will definitely restrain ourselves and consult experts. We will never use children as a tool to realize our own wishes, and we will never use children to show off. Own. 5. We believe that monogamy is the rock of social stability and the safest breeding ground for children to grow up. We like and respect this system and maintain its dignity with facts and actions. 6. We are wary that married life is not colorful. It is not only ordinary, but also trivial. If it is not nourished and cherished, it will easily lead to a haggard life and a vulgar mind. Therefore, we must maintain appropriate vacations in life and grow up with our children. . 7. We remember that we honor our own parents and the parents of each other. This is not only to repay the kindness of upbringing, but also to cultivate the integrity of our own personality and set an example for our next generation. 8. We understand that we will grow old in the future, so from the day we get married, we cultivate other artistic interests besides our majors, such as books, paintings, and music, so that our lives will always be enriched and splendid. To sum up the above eight points, although we cannot do it perfectly right away, we will pursue it patiently, never be frustrated, and never stop.