I've been thinking about this problem recently. I first searched the Internet and posted the information: 1. Online voting: 1. Piano 61 votes 2. Violin 17 votes 3. Cello 1 votes 4. Guitar 18 votes 5. Saxophone 1 votes 6. Trombone 1 vote 7. Trumpet 1 vote 2. The influence of various musical instruments on personality and temperament (different opinions): Viewpoint 1. Viewpoint 2: Boys who play drums give people a cool feeling. So does guitar. Boys who play piano and violin give people a very elegant feeling. Viewpoint 3: Boys are better to be masculine. Guitar, piano and drum set are all ok, but the most important thing is personal interest. Like me, I like classical culture very much, so I study guzheng and erhu. Although boys seldom learn guzheng, I really love it. ! ! ! ! Give your child a free space, give him more suggestions, and let him decide his own point of view. 4. I am in favor of learning drum set or guitar, first because they are more popular, and second because they are good for the growth of boys. Learning drum set can cultivate a sense of music and develop the boy's left brain. Learning guitar can reflect the true colors of men (more specifically, boys) and have a sense of accomplishment. The speed of learning things will be faster. Viewpoint 5: If the finger condition is better ~ You can consider the piano and accordion ~ The piano is the king of musical instruments ~ It is elegant ~ Boys who play the piano well grow up to be princes ~ I believe parents are also very happy to see this. . . Accordion is the king of happy musical instruments ~ not limited by location ~ very casual. . . Viewpoint 6: If it is a boy, the suggestions are violin and piano to enhance self-cultivation. If it is a girl, the suggestion is to learn the violin, which is more temperament. Viewpoint 7: What musical instrument should children learn? It is good for girls to learn erhu and guzheng; It is good for a boy to learn the violin, mainly to cultivate his/her artistic cells, calm him/her down and improve his/her sentiment. Boys, in particular, are usually naughty, but when they play the piano, they are completely different. Girls play those ancient musical instruments with more temperament. Viewpoint 8: What musical instrument should children learn? Since you have learned the electronic piano, it is better to turn the piano. Whether the child can persist depends on the parents, but learning the piano is really a very boring thing. You should be mentally prepared, but since you plan to learn it, you should persist anyway. This is also a mental exercise for the child and can also develop the brain well. Viewpoint 9: How to choose an instrument course for the child? Choose an instrument class for a 7-year-old child. What should be the basis for choosing that instrument? Children know nothing about music. What will happen to the market and development after learning various musical instruments? Such a small child, he doesn't know what his interests are. Parents can think more about him. Basic ideas: 1. Choose an instrument that is helpful to his junior high school, junior high school and college. Such as flute, bamboo flute, oboe, trumpet, horn, etc., which are all necessary instruments for middle school and university orchestras. 2. Choose an instrument with relatively few students (mainly depending on your location). Such as percussion and bassoon. 3. All the above musical instruments can play a key role in further studies, for example, children can test special students. There are too many special preferential policies, and the chances of going to key middle schools are much greater than others. You can choose your majors in universities and so on. These musical instruments are good for children's brain exercise. Viewpoint 1: I read an article discussing musical instruments and personality edification, which makes sense: from the timbre, the violin is soothing and lingering, and the piano is crisp and loud, which will also have a subtle effect on children's personality. Piano affects children's rigidity, while violin affects softness. But I believe that this kind of influence is long-term slow and weak. And most musicians are proficient in piano and violin. Children's preferences are the main ones, so you can refer to the influence of personality appropriately. Third, the learning period 1. The best listening for children is 4 to 12 years old ~ It is best to learn some music at this age. If you are young, you can often play some classical songs to him from now on. It is of great significance to cultivate your temperament for your child's growth and development. 2, 3, 4-year-old boy learn some musical instruments? The electronic organ is the best musical instrument, because it needs to be played by hand, and it doesn't need too much strength. When the finger is gently put, it will make a beautiful sound. Generally, children are interested in it. It is best to wait until the age of 5, but it is too early to learn at the age of 3 or 4. Don't rush to let your children become talents, but also pay attention to their hobbies. 3, before the age of 7 is the age to learn music, all five years old, go to learn music, or else, it will fall to others. Art time is still early. Generally speaking, children over the age of 4 or 5 are more suitable for musical instruments, because their acceptance ability is relatively strong at this time. If they are too young, they are not good. 4. My son will be three years old in more than a month. What kind of musical instruments is suitable for learning now? Don't learn anything, listen to various types and styles of music, and guide him to choose his own musical instrument when he has the ability to choose independently. You can start to learn from teachers at the age of 5-7. 5. You'd better not learn piano before you are three years old. Every holiday, some piano, dance classes and other art classes are always crowded. Some eager parents want their children to learn piano before they are old enough to enter the park, and some children who are less than 2 years old even have the experience of learning piano. However, at what age should children learn what musical instruments, parents are still very confused. In this regard, we specially compiled the proposal of piano master and Kong Xiangdong, which may give you some inspiration in confusion. Children under 3 years old had better not learn piano and other musical instruments too early. In fact, parents don't need to be impatient. Children are about two and a half to three and a half years old, which is the best age to receive music enlightenment education. If the utilitarian teaching of musical instrument skills is too strong, it may not be worth the loss. "Children under the age of 3, it is best not to touch musical instruments first. In fact, like myself, I waited until I was five and a half years old to start learning piano." Mr. Kong Xiangdong, a world-famous pianist, specially reminds parents who are eager to achieve success: "When playing the piano, it is very helpful for children to cultivate their early coordination ability by seeing, hearing, pedaling and using their hands and brains. Scientific research also found that children with good coordination can recite texts and English words quickly in the future, and their memory ability is obviously better than other children. But I don't advocate that children under the age of 3 contact the piano prematurely! " According to a survey of Tchaikovsky Piano Competition, 6% ~ 7% of the winners of the piano competition are 6~8 years old for the first time, and only one of them is 3.5 years old, and a few of them are around 1 years old. Therefore, the masters believe that it is the best time to enlighten children in music at the age of 3 to 6. Through various interesting sports games, such as chicken singing and building a house, basic music theory knowledge such as staff can be infiltrated into children's daily game activities bit by bit. Children at the age of two and a half to three and a half are the best age for music enlightenment. During the period, it is completely possible to play all kinds of music games in a relaxed environment without learning musical instruments, so that they can feel the beat and melody of music. Infiltrate music in children's poetry, dance and painting, and wave your hands, stamp your feet and dance to the beat with the music; And wait until the children are three and a half years old before they begin to learn musical instruments and know the staff; When you are four and a half years old, gradually increase your musical instrument skills and music theory knowledge; When you get to the big class, you can directly take part in the examination of various musical instruments. Fourth, the investment cost, difficulty and persistence comparison 1. Under normal circumstances, strings are more difficult than keyboard instruments, and wind music such as flutes (not all) is easier. There is a folk saying: "One year's flute, two years' sheng, three years' two random grunts". But it is not absolute. The so-called easy is the time to get started. 2, the cost of the piano is very high ~ maintenance is very troublesome ~ piano tuning is also very complicated ~ but it requires a good surrounding environment: for example, a good musical instrument store ~ a good piano tuner and so on. . Accordions are relatively cheap ~ but this kind of investment is necessary to train children. If the fingers are not very slender ~ you can consider the violin ~ if the children are strong ~ you can consider the pipe instruments ~ you are angry ~ you are too thin ~ being strong is an advantage. Learning musical instruments is an easy thing to start with ~ it is good to have money and impulsive interest. . But it's hard to stick to it. Children and parents are required to work hard: money, time and others. Many children failed to persist in crying and making trouble ~ as a result, they were abandoned. Therefore, parents should strive for children's ideas and interests before making choices for their children. 3、 Violin is more difficult to learn ... usually it takes at least one year to play the piano in a good tune. I think it only takes three months at most to play the piano. If you have a good sense of music, you can play it well in one year. My friend has studied for one year. Now he is going to take the Grade 5 exam. This year, it is easier to play the guitar on drums. If you want to learn the piano or violin, the practice is quite boring at first ... But when you can play a beautiful tune, you will feel that all your initial efforts are made. As far as the cost is concerned, the piano is very expensive, and the tuition is also very expensive. The violin and guitar are just fine. The drums are not very clear. 4. Therefore, you can choose to start learning musical instruments at the age of 5 or 6, and both the piano and the violin will do. 5. The violin is more difficult than the erhu, and the learning achievement is also higher than the erhu. One is national and the other is foreign, depending on the envisaged development direction. It's easier to transfer to another after learning any one. I just learn erhu, erhu is simple, who said that? Simple, what level of people say. National is the world's, and erhu has a bright future. At home, your violin level is very high, and it is difficult to compare with foreign ones. SUOYI, erhu is good. 5. Some suggestions. 1. Children should not learn musical instruments too early, except for unique talents. 2. Respect children's choices and don't compare with other children. 3. Even if he chooses it himself, he may no longer be interested. There are many reasons, so parents should be psychologically prepared. 4. The process of children's learning is also a process of testing parents. The idea that finding a good teacher will do everything is simply not feasible, especially in the early days. 5. If you want to reach a certain level, no matter what instrument you play, you have to work hard and it is continuous. This is something that both children and parents should remember. 6. The music environment is very important. I tell you that although my child didn't learn piano since he was a child, I don't force him to learn anything. (He bought an electronic piano, piano and accordion from my family when he was 3 years old. I am a kindergarten teacher.) But I created a music environment for him, that is, I listened to world-famous songs every day. (Since birth-before the age of 5) My sensitivity to music followed. I didn't understand it. After learning Orff's music teaching method, I understood it. 6. Several differences: 1. Electronic organ and piano: As a musician engaged in electronic organ, the piano is a very formal instrument, which requires long-term practice and the guidance of famous teachers. However, there are very few achievements, including several Lang Lang and YUNDI. There are also a few people who give up after practicing for ten years, and it is difficult to rely on this professional life. This is what I value most. And electronic organ can not only exercise people's musical perception, but also help them to improve their musical perception. Piano is difficult by comparison. First of all, it's the best age to learn piano at 5 or 6 years old, and it can't be over 8 years old. If you are too old, it's difficult to make achievements. On the other hand, the electronic piano doesn't require too much age, and it's quick to make achievements, which depends mainly on personal diligence and talent. My suggestion is to learn the electronic piano, and then try the piano, so that you can decide which instrument is more suitable for you. Is there a difference between piano and electronic piano? They are all keyboard playing instruments, except for this, the others are very few. Piano is based on single tone and complex music, while electronic organ is based on multiple tone and multiple accompaniment forms. It is more appropriate to choose an electronic piano when you are older. 2. Guzheng and Guqin: Guzheng is more suitable for girls to play, with beautiful posture, and temperament boys are suitable for playing Guqin, which is elegant, free and easy, vigorous and powerful. The so-called guqin is not as good as other musical instruments in terms of onomatopoeia, such as the flowing water of Guzheng and the singing of bamboo flute, but it just shows that Guqin is more like a spirit than a shape. In fact, Guqin simulates the effect of poets singing, and the music of the piano. Guqin's string kneading is one of its major characteristics. After a sound pops up, you can change many sounds by sliding your finger on the string, which is really a thousand turns. Coupled with the rustle of fingers rubbing strings, is it like the slightly hoarse voice of the poet when he is emotional? Some people feel unaccustomed to it and think it is the noise during recording (I thought so at the beginning). In fact, Guqin expresses this aesthetic interest. It can be seen that guqin is called literati music, which is worthy of the name. It has always been favored by the literati class as a tool for their lyric expression. 7. Conclusion: 1. The purpose of learning musical instruments is to develop the brain, cultivate personality and edify temperament. It is not to cultivate him into a family, nor is it necessary for him to learn any level. Music is just an auxiliary skill. 2, music enlightenment at the age of 3 to 6. The way is a variety of interesting sports games. 3, 2 to 3 and a half years old, is the best age for music enlightenment. During the period, it is completely possible to play all kinds of music games in a relaxed environment without learning musical instruments, so that they can feel the beat and melody of music. Infiltrate music in children's poetry, dance and painting, and wave your hands, stamp your feet and dance to the beat with the music; Get the music of various musical instruments, and often show which one he likes to prepare for the later selection of musical instruments. The music environment is very important. Listen to more world famous songs. 4. After three and a half years old, I began to learn musical instruments and know the staff. 5. When you are four and a half years old, gradually increase your musical instrument skills and knowledge of music theory. 6. When you arrive at a large class, you can directly take part in the grading examination of various musical instruments. I started learning musical instruments at the age of 5. 7. Musical instruments are basically divided into three layers: 1) piano and violin; 2) Guzheng, Guqin and Erhu; 3) Guitar and drum set. And wind music, my son is small, forget it. Inclined to electronic organ, guzheng and erhu. The violin is finally considered, the strings are too soft. . The most important thing depends on the result of his own choice. If you learn electronic piano, you should at least take the exam level.