A friend of the literary society, such as a teacher of Yizi, wrote a poem and an article. After being pointed out, it was more appropriate to change a word, so he was cited as a friend. ? In this way, learn to make friends, learn from each other's strengths, and help them cultivate their minds, encourage each other and grow together.
This is true friendship. Not only can you speak frankly about each other's problems, but you can also appreciate and praise each other sincerely. You can approach 100% respect and honesty, to your friends and to yourself.
In this process, it is full of physical and mental happiness.
True friendship is a luxury. There may be many people who love you, but people who know you are hard to find.
As mentioned in the last article, we often unconsciously persuade and hint at people we care about, such as friends. When the effect is not good, we comfort ourselves with "What's there to complain about?". But we also reflected on ourselves. Is this what we and each other want? Between friends, advice and persuasion are the needs of getting along comfortably and lasting friendship.
Qian Zhongshu? I once expressed a similar statement in the article "Talking about Making Friends".
He even wrote,
True friendship does not need to be deliberately wooed by both sides.
That's right. For example, if you make friends by writing letters, you will appreciate each other and put forward shortcomings. There is no need to guard against it, and there is no need to worry about being over-interpreted or even being advertised by screenshots.
When you meet a real friend and feel this kind of happiness, your inner meanness and cruelty will naturally disappear, and you don't need to preach and persuade.
Huang Li's "Tea Ci" is never tired of reading, and it is best said: "Just like an old friend under the lamp, Wan Li returns to the shadows; I can't talk, I am happy and introspective. "