There is a saying on the Internet that a good relationship must occur between two mature and independent personalities. Keep a certain distance between people and do not touch each other's bottom line. An appropriate distance will make the relationship naturally close. Maybe once in our school days, we thought that a good relationship should stick together, be transparent to each other, and have no secrets. I once met someone who was quite controlling. In order to be with you all the time, he would deliberately prevent you from entering new circles and new environments. The reason was that our relationship was so good that everything should be shared by everyone. Such feelings are indeed pure. When I was a student, I once had a friend. Our relationship was as close as wearing a pair of pants. To prove our friendship, we imitated the Taoyuan Three Brothers in the Romance of the Three Kingdoms and became sisters.

Hao doesn’t hide his feelings. At first, you will feel that you have met your soulmate, quite like meeting your soulmate in the mountains and rivers. We study together and play together, and it seems that we will be together forever. This kind of relationship seems indestructible, but it cannot withstand the experience of reality. Once one party is superior, the other party will feel psychologically unbalanced, leading to various conflicts. That's because feelings are so good, so sometimes, you will feel that the people closest to you are the easiest to kidnap us morally. In my opinion, the best relationship lies in balance. Relationships that are too close often do not last long. As the old saying goes: the general trend of the world is that if we are separated for a long time, we will unite, and if we are united for a long time, we will be divided. The same applies to emotions. After all, society is changing, and everyone's growth environment and life experience are different. There are too many close relationships that you should have, and as a result, your relationship will be affected. If we can be independent of each other, appreciate each other, leave some space for feelings, dare to be opaque, and dare to be as gentle as water between gentlemen, I believe that such feelings will pass the test of time.

This suddenly reminded me of a time when I shared a house with a friend. At the beginning, the two of us had a good relationship and we had expectations for each other. As time goes by, our shortcomings begin to show up in close proximity. One of us cannot accept the other because we both think that we are all friends, so we should. . This should compress the other person's living space; so it should. . Become originally thought; therefore should. . Neither of us knows how to be grateful to each other; so we probably don’t feel like we know each other anymore. A good relationship is over like this. This is the result of not respecting the other party's bottom line.

I think a good relationship requires the courage to keep a distance. I can not contact you for a month or two, but no matter when we meet, we will still feel natural and comfortable.