The world is like a pool of water. At first, we didn't know how deep it was. When I grow up, I find it unfathomable. Gradually, people learned to swim in this pool with wisdom and strength, but we lost more.
Family Instructions of Zhu Zi is not only a family instruction, but also a family instruction that China people and the world should learn. It is the continuation of China culture, which has stood the test of time and the precipitation of history. When more and more people stop being honest with each other, stop thinking that openness is the foundation and stop trusting each other. A book "Zhu Zi's Family Instructions" is guiding us how to walk the road of human character.
"People are happy, not jealous. People are in trouble, not happy." Envy is the poison of the soul. Jealousy will blind people's eyes of wisdom and never see the real meaning. I remember there was a child in "Education of Love", because he was too jealous, which aroused everyone's disgust. In the end, no one could surpass the jealous person. It is important to have a broad mind, which can accommodate not only hundreds of rivers, but also the world. This is the real strong. Misfortune never rains but it pours, just as "a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise" has been circulated among generations of Chinese descendants. Those who gloat over others' loss of a horse, and those who sigh because a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise, finally understand misfortune, the reliance of blessings, and happiness and misfortune. How can happy people see the final outcome? Things always change and develop. In addition, when others are suffering, you should help yourself more. This is a person's conscience.
Don't forget to have manners. In reality, there are always many people who hold their aloof hearts and often show off themselves in front of their benefactors. I don't know. It just makes people feel like they have no tolerance. What's more, because of my kindness, I always feel that others are sorry for myself and let others repay me. As a result, the reward far exceeded his kindness. Of course, I can't forget the kindness of others. Because of the poor family conditions, I got a lot of social assistance for school. One day, when I am developed, I will definitely repay them twice. After all, I got not only money, but also hope and motivation at this time. I don't have Han Xin's million-dollar ability to repay the old lady, but at least I will try my best.
"Reading is for sages, not for disciples" is basically useless in this society that only recognizes diplomas. But in my opinion, "book" is not learning. This book refers to a simple book that can be expanded into knowledge. "The book has its own golden house, the book has its own Yan Ruyu, and the book has its own thousand bells." Reading can increase people's self-restraint, expand their knowledge and even change their lives. In fact, the role of the first division should also be to select some people who are cultured and love reading, and who can realize many truths and methods from books. But later they all became utilitarian, and they all became studying for the first teacher and studying for the future. When can they study for the sake of studying?
Some real sages in ancient times studied for Cody. They all learned some truth from books and had their own ideals. Hundreds of scholars are great scholars, and so are the famous ministers of past dynasties. Most of the ancient "gifted scholars" were frustrated in officialdom. When immersed in their articles, they will experience different tastes.
At this time, "Zhu Zi Family Instructions" is not only a family instruction, but also a motto to spur personal behavior, so as to self-discipline and standardize themselves and shape more rigorous medical people.
In the new semester of studying Zhu Zi's family instructions 2, the teacher arranged for the students to read Zhu Zi's family instructions. At first, I regarded reading Family Instructions of Zhuzi as a task, but after reading Family Instructions of Zhuzi carefully, I found that "task" was our misunderstanding of it. Although it is only a few hundred words, it is easy to understand and has been valued by the world for hundreds of years.
Today, Family Instructions of Zhu Zi is a family education book, which cultivates children's perfect personality and accepts traditional culture.
"Get up at dawn, sweep the court, clean inside and outside, that is, faint and rest, close the door, have a porridge and a meal, and it is not easy to think about it; Half a silk and half a wisp, it is difficult to save material resources. " Get up at dawn every morning, sprinkle water on the ground inside and outside the court before sweeping the floor to make it clean and tidy; At dusk, you should have a rest and check for yourself whether the door is locked. For a porridge and a meal, it is hard to think about it; For half-silk or half-thread clothes, we should always remember that it is very difficult to produce these materials. Now our primary school students are everywhere, their clothes are stretched and their mouths are open. I never thought about cleaning my room and sorting out my books. Life and study are inseparable from the care of adults, let alone savings. I'm really ashamed to think about it now.
"It is advisable to plan ahead and forget to dig a well when you are thirsty." It means: collect things before it rains, and don't wait until you are thirsty to dig wells. In other words, everything should be prepared early, and don't wait until it is too urgent to start work. After reading this passage, I also have an experience. I used to study, but I didn't remember to take out my book until the exam was coming. I never thought that I would review them with me at ordinary times. Therefore, every time I take an exam, I am always in a hurry. Either there is a problem here or there is a mistake, and the exam results are naturally not ideal.
After reading Zhu Xi's family instructions, it's really too much embarrassment, too much emotion and too much joy. For a primary school student, it is more important to cherish time and develop good behavior habits from an early age. Time slips away inadvertently. Maybe many people will think that there is still a lot of time, leaving things until tomorrow, tomorrow, tomorrow ... but the time has passed and will not come back anyway. So, study hard now, and don't wait until you are old to regret it.
Reading experience of Zhu Zi's family instructions 3 After reading Zhu Zi's family instructions, I felt a lot. It tells a truth, a person's attitude towards others and life. The whole article is connected by even sentences, which has a sense of rhythm. Repeated reading makes me feel rich and profound.
"Get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, be neat inside and outside, and shut the door when you are unconscious." An idyllic carefree life, with morning dew every morning, cleaning the courtyard inside and outside to welcome the arrival of a new day. When the sun finishes a day's journey and sheds the last ray of sunshine, it will close the door, unload the fatigue of the day and get ready to sleep. What kind of security and tranquility is this? I'm afraid only people who are not polluted by the secular can enjoy this kind of comfort.
"A porridge and a meal is hard to come by." Half a silk and half a wisp, persistent thinking and material resources are a little hard. "Look at today, the subprime mortgage crisis in the United States has caused strong fluctuations in the world economy. Aside from other factors, soaring food prices may be the economic gloom hanging over people in 2008. Former UN Secretary-General Kofi Annan also warned not long ago that there are 8. 500 million people sleep hungry. Perhaps eating delicious white rice for three meals a day has become a luxury in the eyes of many people. The feature of "hungry people" in the newspaper, why not sound the alarm for us again and again: put an end to waste, start with me.
Family is the cell and foundation of society. Whether society can achieve the so-called "peace and prosperity" depends on whether each family is happy. However, there are always too many families caught in misfortune, estrangement, quarrels and fights, restless days, children's hearts have no support, anxiety and timidity, and a quiet life is always so short. If we don't speculate for a while, a war may break out in an instant. In this regard, our predecessors have warned us for a long time, "Don't go to court at home, it will eventually kill us." Yes, from meeting, knowing each other, falling in love, and finally getting married, after all, we have paid and worked hard, so there is no need to use our kissed mouths to say things that denigrate each other! "Everything must be reserved, and complacency is not desirable." You can't do things too well, nor can you speak too well. As the saying goes, if you talk too much, the fate will end early.
The poor inherit the wind. It was our parents who brought us up and created basic living conditions for us. In a person's life, parents' care and love are the most sincere and selfless. "If you value wealth and ignore your parents, you can't be a man's son." Isn't it foolish to value money and treat your parents badly?
After reading the whole article, I have too much embarrassment, too much emotion and too much joy. Many excellent cultures and traditions of China are included in it. For a young man who has just left the campus and is still immature, it is a valuable asset in the exploration of the adult world.
Of course, times have changed, and some contents may not be suitable for this era. The feudal dross, such as some prejudice and complacency against women, were the historical limitations of that era, but most of them were reasonable. There are trade-offs in life, and so can the contents in the book.
Reading experience of Zhu Zi's Family Instructions 4 Although Zhu Zi's Family Instructions is only a few hundred words, it expresses a profound way of managing the family in an easy-to-understand style. It is a classic of Confucianism and has been valued by the world for hundreds of years.
Today, Family Instructions of Zhu Zi is a family education book, which cultivates children's perfect personality and accepts traditional culture. In the book, you can taste the etiquette and faithfulness of "being a teacher is more important than politeness, and making friends is more important than keeping promises". The wisdom of "preparing for a rainy day and digging a well is not thirsty" and the broad mind of "leaving room for everything, taking pride in it" ...
"Don't run a beautiful house, don't seek fertile land" and "Don't be complacent". There is no denying that desire gives us the motivation to move forward. People's desires are endless. It is like a grass full of vitality. As long as there are suitable conditions, it will grow wantonly. The world is so complicated and wonderful. So we hurried through the bustling streets, chasing fame and fortune, exhausted physically and mentally. Perhaps no one wants to stop, and not many people can understand what they are looking for. They just walked and got what they thought they wanted or deserved.
However, no one can really have everything.
Montague once said, "If we pursue happiness, there is no problem. In fact, what we are pursuing is to be happier than others. " Yes, a small word "ratio" makes countless scales unbalanced and makes countless hearts tired. You should learn to be content. Set aside some time in the hustle and bustle, spend time with parents who have worked hard for themselves for half a lifetime, be considerate and caring for relatives, and greet friends ... Sometimes, happiness is like this.
China has many excellent cultures and traditions. If a nation lacks its own culture, reading foreign culture is very terrible. The long-standing culture of the East has been misinterpreted and forgotten by us too much, but it has been well preserved in our neighboring countries. If China wants to have a place in the world, it must carry forward our local culture and let foreigners learn from us.
An American educator heard that 250 million students in China are learning English with sarcastic expressions. Why? Because the changes in English are too complicated, everyone is trying to keep the national things in their own language from being assimilated and influenced by others. Not to mention our primary school students, even our graduate students and doctoral students are spending a lot of time learning something that does not belong to our own culture.
I remember reading an article about chanting by Mr. Hu Shi, saying that when he was studying in a private school, he also recited four books and five classics every day, which was quite a headache for him at that time. Fortunately, people just need to memorize it and don't need to understand it. During the long walk of life, they found that those boring things have become the beacon of life!
Of course, times are changing, and some contents in ancient classics may not be suitable for this era, but most of them are reasonable. There are trade-offs in life, and so can the contents in the book. Avoid the hustle and bustle of the market, let's read Zhu Zi's Family Instructions to examine the bottom space of the soul!
The reading experience of Zhu Zi's family instructions 5 "Zhu Zi's family instructions" tells the reason why the hundred words have become Confucian classics and been valued by the world for hundreds of years, and only in this way can we understand the good intentions of school teachers asking us to learn.
Not to mention the richness and profundity of Zhu Xi's family instructions, we can see that the whole article is connected by antithetical sentences, which has a sense of rhythm and is catchy to read.
For example, "get up at dawn, sweep the courtyard, and be neat inside and outside." When you are unconscious, you will rest. If you close the door, you will check it yourself. "
From the beginning, it gives people a carefree mood. Many people yearn for a quiet life. It's actually quite simple. As the author said, get up early every morning, clean yourself up and greet the new day neatly. When the last ray of sunshine is taken away, they will fall asleep in the moonlight. A closed door will shut out troubles and precipitate yourself and other thoughts ... keep a calm mind and take every day seriously!
It teaches us to be frugal. "It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal; Half a silk and half a wisp, it is difficult to save material resources. " This sentence has been widely circulated. Diligence is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation, and it is a treasure that cannot be discarded in today's greatly improved material life. Any unremarkable object is a gift from nature and the crystallization of human labor, which has its unique value and cannot be wasted; Productive labor is different from animals and is necessary for human survival. Therefore, thrift and hard work are the most basic virtues of human beings.
It teaches us to think. "It is wise to prepare for a rainy day and dig a well when you are thirsty." Just like "being prepared for danger in times of peace", life is not always smooth. Learning to think and have foresight is a necessary condition for success.
It teaches us to make friends. "Intimacy is wicked, long and tireless; Qu Zhi is old and anxious, and can rely on each other. " If you associate with those bad boys and girls, you will get tired of them for a long time. If you associate with Mr. Chen Youde, you can rely on them in times of crisis. This is also what Confucius said about making friends. It can be seen that making friends carefully is very important to yourself and others.
It teaches us to listen. "Listen to the words lightly, understand their unreasonable grievances, be patient, and think twice before you leap; If we argue about something, we must think calmly, "Yes, we should be good at listening, especially to leaders, but listening doesn't mean trusting it, and it doesn't mean teaching us tolerance. "Leave room for everything and be proud of it." Learn to be tolerant and give others a chance. A tolerant person must have a broad mind like the sea. Such a person is a peaceful person, and her heart is always peaceful. People should not be jealous. People who are better than themselves will always live in the torment of jealousy, not only hurting others, but also hurting themselves. Therefore, "people's happiness should not be jealous; People should not be lucky if they have disasters. "