Host Zhu Dan once again called her by the wrong name, and many netizens said she should stop working after getting married and having children. For the host, calling the wrong name many times is indeed an embarrassing thing, but saying that women should not work after getting married and having children is a prejudice against women. Getting married and having children is something that most women have to go through, but after getting married and having children, a woman can only stay at home to support her husband and raise her children. This view is too narrow.

Women are independent individuals. Some women voluntarily quit their jobs after getting married and having children, and are willing to play the role of caring for their husbands and raising children; but as women in the new era, most women long to have their own careers and careers. planning. Family is important, but getting married and having children does not mean that women should give up their hobbies and careers to support their families. On the contrary, women who continue to work and pursue their careers after getting married and having children will gain more self-recognition.

I can only revolve around my husband and children every day, but I don’t have my own job or career. I have to rely on my husband for living expenses. I feel that I can’t stand upright in front of my husband. If women are not working for a long time, their social and cognitive horizons will only become narrower and narrower. How can they better play their roles as mothers and wives? It is indeed not easy for women to balance the relationship between work and family after marriage, but many women do it in life. Instead of doing trivial things at home every day and pushing yourself to the point of collapse, if you go out to work and change the environment and mood, women will become more confident and attractive, and it will be easier for them to be loved by their husbands and children.

Many women around me still choose to work after getting married and having children. When asked, the most common reason given is that it is too boring to take care of children at home, and it feels like they can only stay at home most of the time. They may not be able to make much money by working, but at least they have a place where they can leave their wives temporarily. Adjust yourself to the role of mother.

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