Whether it is "silence" or "talking and laughing", it is the external performance of the individual. One of these external manifestations is due to personality; There is also a deliberate act. In the workplace, although this kind of performance is external, it also has an important impact on personal workplace image, interpersonal relationship and even career success or failure. These two manifestations are actually defects in the workplace. "Silence" gives people the feeling that it is dull, sophisticated and difficult to blend in. "Laughing and laughing" corresponds to "silence", which gives people the feeling that they are not solemn, deep and difficult to win. These two manifestations, there is no difference between good and bad, are negative factors. If it is due to personality, it needs to be improved step by step; If it is intentional, also known as "pretending", it is self-defeating.

Look at what kind of company it is, a company with a bad atmosphere and many unfair things. If you talk too much, it's gone. If you talk too little, the office will talk nonsense, and the villain may use it to make trouble. Companies with good business and high positive energy can take the initiative. The better the company, the more tolerant it is to its employees. On the contrary, he is stingy, pays attention to attendance and loses his temper.

Silence or joking, we can't generalize the so-called good. On certain occasions, playing chess is not a true gentleman. Knowing people without judging God and seeing through them without saying anything is the realm! Make friends, each has its own function, fight the world with you, don't ask others to be considerate, accompany you to drink draft beer, and don't ask others to have a big pattern! Between colleagues, it is lucky to be friends, but it is normal not to be friends. Helping you is an obligation, not helping you is an obligation! In a word, I know what I can say. I buried a Lei Zi for myself and I don't know when it will explode!

In fact, successful people know how to speak properly and when to speak and when to shut up. It's useless to talk more when you shouldn't, but it will confuse your interpersonal relationship and even your future development, which will directly affect all aspects of our work and life. It takes a lot of people a lifetime to understand the truth, but most of them are too late.