Your feelings already tell you the answer.

He only pays attention to himself in dating and does not pay attention to details.

He may not have noticed the unhappiness you mentioned during the dating process at all. He just thought that he needed to find a partner as he got older. If someone introduced him, he would come out to meet him. From the beginning to the end, he just He pays attention to whether you meet his conditions and ignores other details. This can also be seen from his WeChat chat.

He lacks the communication awareness in love.

He may have always thought that love and marriage means that two people can match each other and get together immediately if they feel that the other person's conditions are suitable. This is an extremely simple and primitive way of thinking. Human society has entered civilization. The purpose of two people falling in love and marrying together is not only for basic food and clothing, but also for more spiritual needs. These needs are often It needs to be done through communication. If communication is not smooth, even if you have the best conditions, it will add many obstacles to the relationship between two people. What's more, his conditions are not perfect...

Women are actually inherently better at communication. With the improvement of women's status in modern society, women can support themselves in society and meet them in love relationships. Will pay more attention to the details of communication. Among peers, most women are actually better at communicating than men.

This is the difference between people. There are many such boys in China at present. They have no sense of etiquette and communication in dating and only use a simple purposeful thinking to communicate with women. This causes them to be hindered in the process of dating and making friends.

When encountering many setbacks, smart people will realize and adjust and improve themselves. This is a mature process. Why do many girls like mature boys? It's because they no longer only focus on themselves, but also take care of other people's moods, making communication with them smoother and more reassuring.