In today's society, too many people have too many routines, so that's why the phrase "the city has too many routines, so I want to go back to the countryside".

The life of modern people is getting better and better. We lack that kind of sincerity, and we always suspect each other and calculate each other. Always take others' kindness to themselves as a matter of course, which makes the distance between people farther and farther, and never return to the happy time before.

The faster the society develops, the more lonely we are. When we were young, an old popsicle, a glass ball, or a black-and-white TV set and a playmate who played together satisfied all the happiness of our childhood. The summer without air conditioning, the sound of cicadas, was a symbol of this summer. There were no so-called toys and dazzling snacks, but our childhood was full of laughter and we had fun with our playmates. At that time, we didn't try our best. We just wanted to have fun together. There was no routine, only sincerity.

But now in this materialistic society, people's routines are getting deeper and deeper. They just want to get their own interests, and they will do whatever it takes to hurt each other. In the end, they turn against each other, and there is no such deep friendship as when they were children. Therefore, they feel lost every night, as if they are missing something.

Although people's routines are deep nowadays, some routines are well-intentioned. For example, when eating out, when you are enjoying yourself, friends will pretend to go to the bathroom, and then buy the bill by the way. When you are ready to pay the bill after eating, you find that your friends have already bought it, and you feel particularly moved. The white lies make you feel that apart from your sincere feelings as a child, there is still real friendship in the society now.

Sometimes when you come home early, you get a call from your wife, and she says she will be back late to work overtime. You finished your meal alone, then watched TV and waited for her to come back. At the moment when you opened the door, she was holding a cake in her hand and bought a gift for you. You suddenly remembered that today is your birthday. In an instant, you were so moved that you forgot your birthday, but she still remembered it. Moreover, she lied to herself that she had to work overtime, so that she could make herself a surprise and make her birthday even more. Therefore, I will also secretly prepare some small gifts for her every holiday. She was inexplicably moved to tears by those surprises. I think this routine has warmed up our feelings, loved each other more and more, and paid more and more attention to each other.

Sometimes my son will suddenly help me with housework, and then ask me for some remuneration through housework. I don't think this is a good idea, but I gave it reluctantly. One month passed, and suddenly one Sunday, he brought me a box. I opened it and saw that my father's socks were broken, so I wanted to earn some money to buy some pairs for my father by doing housework. Suddenly, I burst into tears and hugged my son. I felt that I was the happiest father in the world. From then on, I stopped going to those so-called social parties. As long as I had time, I would come back and play games with my son. I think family is the most important thing.

Although the urban routine is deep, there will still be many people who are really sincere.