1, more communication, less questions.

2. Know more and make more friends.

3. Calm down and solve the problem.

Second, think from another angle:

Think from other people's point of view and feel their feelings, and you will know how to act without screwing things up. This is the advantage of thinking from another angle.

Third, two people get along:

When two people get along, apart from basic sincerity, it is more important to understand (understand each other's situation or difficulties or predicament or performance), and then adjust and improve themselves (that is, adjust their mentality and improve their behavior), followed by care and care (more care can shorten each other's distance and more care can deepen each other's understanding).

Now add: As Lotus Branch said, when there are contradictions:

1, always look for problems on yourself first, don't complain about others first, put the problems on others.

2. To change things, change yourself first; To make things better, make yourself better first!

If you want others to respect you, you must respect others first.

At the beginning of 2006, a senior surnamed Liang, who has worked in supply and marketing cooperatives for decades, gave this sentence to Lotus Branch when chatting: Be sensible and peaceful! It's really very philosophical, please understand it a lot, and I'm willing to leave it to you to think about.

Fourth, we must first pay:

Everyone wants to get the understanding, care and love of others, so how can we get it? Hee hee, just one sentence: if you want others to be good to you, you must be good to others first. In other words, pay your understanding, care and love first, and you will get better returns, believe it? !

Now add: Do you understand the concept of "willing"? Give up first, then get it. As long as you understand the phrase "giving is more enjoyable than receiving", you will understand. Lianzhi/Lianzhi has been doing this, giving up her knowledge, experience, experiences and cases, helping friends who are destined to learn relevant knowledge, including health knowledge, and helping them improve their health step by step, while Lianzhi gets opportunities for understanding, understanding, recognition and small business from others. Even if there is no business, helping others is happiness, which is not good! Accumulate virtue for this life, haha. . .

Five, be a man and do things:

The sage said to me: to learn to do things, you must first learn to be a man. Being a man is to improve interpersonal relationships (including family, relatives, friends, classmates, colleagues, neighbors, other organizations, etc. ), that is, interpersonal relationships, contacts. Good connections can help you develop and succeed; If you screw up your contacts, you will have nothing and bear it alone.