Everyone has two kinds of friends in his heart. One is to push you forward, and the other is to hold you back and let you slack off. Some children have the habit of procrastination and are not active at all. There are a lot of such problems, and it is conceivable that their academic performance is not very good. Some children have good study habits and good grades, but influenced by the external environment, they gradually develop some bad habits, and their grades have a downward trend. There is a famous saying: Those who are near Zhu Zhechi and near Mexico are black! This shows the importance of friends. How to guide junior high school children to make friends?

1. Don't make friends with bad habits

There is an old saying that "if you are near Zhu Zhechi, you will be black if you are near Mexico". If you make friends carelessly and get to know some friends with bad habits, it is likely that your children will be infected with such bad habits, which will be very unfavorable to their physical and mental development in the future. Tell children clearly not to make friends with bad conduct.

2. Make friends with similar interests

Tell children to make friends with similar interests. If your friends are not interested in you, it will be difficult to talk together. At this time, you will find it boring to get along with friends, and then isolate yourself from playing with more friends. Therefore, making friends might as well get to know more partners who share their interests. When parents make it clear, children will naturally understand.

3. Don't rely too much on friends

By the age of junior high school, children have their own temperament, but the shaping of personality is not completely perfect. At this time, parents should tell their children to learn to be independent and not to rely too much on friends. If we do things and study, we always expect the help of friends, which is also very unfavorable to our personal growth. Treat friends, in addition to mutual respect, but also equality and support each other, rather than always relying on each other.

4. Be more tolerant and tolerant of each other

Tell your children that everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. If you always haggle over your friends' shortcomings and can't tolerate them, they will become less and less fond of being with you after getting along for a long time. Besides, you should learn more from your friends' strengths and help them to correct their shortcomings, which is a better rule for making friends.

5. Make friends with positive people

This kind of friend will look at you negatively and get bored, and will often push you forward. Moreover, children who study well often have their own learning materials and methods. Make friends with them and you can share these good learning secrets with them. Students who study well not only have successful experiences, but also have failed lessons to make friends with them, and they can also make themselves take fewer detours, stumble less and step less on pits. On the road of learning, making a positive and enterprising good classmate and a good friend have a relatively high starting point, which can be said to be a shortcut to improve learning efficiency.