Some time ago, I was sorting out the photo album on my mobile phone and saw the screenshots of previous chats. I was suddenly stunned. If I could choose it again, would I still not look back?

There is always this paragraph in my mobile phone memo: My ideal love is not to make friends, not everyone can, if you can't wait for that person, then No matter what, we are lonely, and the loneliness of make do may be more terrifying. I still have time, so I will wait for you.

I have always felt that the first reaction to many questions is correct. It is like, when you are young, someone will ask you, when you grow up, you should find someone you like to be with. , or should you find someone who likes you? I think the first answer we give must be the person we like.

In our early 20s, we have no way of determining who we will be with in the end, so since we are not sure, why should we make do with it? We should try our best to be with the person we like. Maybe, he likes you too.

I particularly like Haruki Murakami’s words: There will be people who like loneliness, but they just don’t like disappointment. When I was single, I always advised myself that if I really dated someone because I was lonely, it was definitely not love. I couldn’t do it just because there was no one to chat with me, go shopping with me, or eat with me. , and compromise with yourself casually.

One person’s loneliness is not terrible. What is terrible is that two people are still lonely. Really, life is too long, and being with the wrong person is more terrifying than being alone.

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In love, you don’t have to like it, but you can’t give in.

Sometimes I feel that time is really unfair in relationships. It takes many, many months, days and nights to meet someone, understand someone, like someone, and get used to someone. But it only takes one second to leave someone and miss someone.

It’s as if you spent all your good luck to be with the person you like, and in just one second, the person will withdraw from your life unscrupulously. Click the Delete key and this person is no longer yours.

Fate is really something difficult to grasp. When I was young, I always felt that there would always be time to turn back in the future. Only when I matured did I understand that there is no time in this world. Looking back, we only meet each other for a period of time, and missing it means saying goodbye forever.

I saw a sentence before that said: "The person who turns around and leaves first will never know how painful it is for the person who stays." Yes, after all, leaving is just What happens in a moment may take a lifetime to forget. Sometimes I have to admit that in a relationship, missing it for a while means a lifetime.

It’s like when I like you, you don’t like me, and when you like me, there is someone else around me. You don't cherish me when I'm good to you, and by the time you look back and regret it, I've been treated like a little princess by someone else. You weren't there when I needed you, and someone else had already appeared in my life to replace you.

You said we might as well start over, but I said it was too late, it was really too late. Many times we don't understand how luxurious it is to be loved. When we understand it, we realize that some people will never miss it once they miss it. Only after missing the person you love the most do you realize that love and possession are two different things, and whether you are suitable for them is more important than whether you like them or not.

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When I used to miss you, I would always be extremely excited to write a long paragraph, but could not press send. Later, when I miss you, I always want to grab it. There are only a few words in my mind, but I am unable to express them and can no longer write a complete sentence; and now when I think of you, I no longer want to do anything for you, I just think of you, play a song I like, and then Go to sleep.

I also think I am too hot for you. I will not be your Yuan Xiangqin. I will plant trees myself.

Perhaps at the end of the story, the best arrangement is that we are not together. After all, life is not a TV series, and there is no such thing as a happy ending. But every time I think of that person, I still feel lucky. Fortunately, I have met him and I have owned him.

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I have missed you, and you have missed the best of me.