In everyone's life, you will meet many people, different personalities and different people. How many of them are your bosom friends? How many people love themselves? How many people do you love deeply? It is better to cherish the person in front of you than to look for it a thousand times in the crowd. Love won't wait until you are free to cherish it. It was fate that we met. For this kind of fate, we may all be trying to adapt to each other and just want to let nature take its course.
It is not easy to find a person you like and really love, and it is also a great honor. Maybe everything is not what you think, not so perfect, not as good as you think, and not so bad. Life is not beautiful. All happiness should be cherished, and people need to understand each other. The same is true between couples.
I hope it works for you. I wish my friends happiness ~ ~ ~
How do inarticulate and emotional people communicate with others? I know you, but you still have to learn to change, try to communicate with others and feel what will happen.
Not good at words, unable to communicate with people? Age, gender, height and weight.
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How to communicate with colleagues without words? Miss Yang: Hello! I am very encouraged to see your help to others, and I have been worrying about how to communicate with my colleagues better. I am a girl who is not good at words. My colleagues are older and more experienced than me, but I seem to be ignorant. Sometimes they chat together, and I can't get a word in. I am very upset about this and don't know how to do it well. Please advise! Thank this friend: Hello! I received your letter, and I understand your mood and realistic experience at the moment. Of course, I am also very happy to discuss your problems with you. You said, "I am a girl who is not good at words. My colleagues are older and more experienced than me, but I seem to be ignorant. Sometimes they chat together, and I can't get a word in. I am very upset about this and don't know how to do it well. " The situation you mentioned happened to me when I first joined the work, but I did more, listened more, observed more, asked more and talked less. The so-called doing more, listening more, observing more, asking more, and talking less is actually being considerate and diligent to others, serving water and tea, sweeping everything, and walking in front of others (because we are young), so as to win the respect and love of colleagues and the joy of colleagues taking the initiative to talk to you; When communicating with others, you should pay attention to listening. Smile when you listen, and it is best not to do anything else, and give appropriate feedback in terms of expressions, gestures, nodding, etc. Especially when the other party has grievances and dissatisfaction to vent, it can better show a person's quality and cultivation level; Observe the colleagues around you, especially those who feel that their communication skills are particularly strong, and see how they get along with others. Through observation and imitation, you will gradually find that your interpersonal skills will be unexpectedly improved; Sincerely ask your colleagues or superiors for advice on how to do things and behave, which can show your respect for them. On the other hand, because you are a "layman", asking them shows your sincerity, and you can win their love for you and take the initiative to associate with you. Can stand in other people's position, see with other people's eyes, listen with other people's ears, and understand his world with other people's hearts. In this communication process, try to understand each other's feelings, feelings or emotions and behaviors, so that you can deeply understand the world and meaning in others' eyes, so that what you say can be accepted and paid attention to by others in time, and naturally you will join in. Regarding the harmonious relationship with colleagues, I think we should communicate with others first. As we know, interpersonal relationships occur, develop and become close in the "interaction" with others. Making friends with others undoubtedly requires contact with others. So in our daily work and life, we might as well have some activities, chat with colleagues, discuss some problems, exchange opinions and so on. And try our best to convey information to each other and deepen understanding and trust in others. Secondly, sincerely respecting, affirming and flattering others is everyone's psychological need, and it is also one of the ways to gain respect, closeness and appreciation from others. Therefore, according to everyone's characteristics and strengths, giving appropriate respect, affirmation and praise will inevitably gain the respect, closeness and appreciation of others. Third, be strict with yourself and be lenient with others. Contradictions are everywhere, all the time. In daily life, as long as we understand others with "everyone is unique" and "everyone has his own way of life", treat others with a generous, tolerant and less gain and loss attitude, examine our own shortcomings when problems arise and find reasons from ourselves, then we can make friends. Fourth, care and concern for others. We all have this experience in our daily life. When we are cared for and cared for by others, we will feel a warm and safe confidence and happiness in our hearts. By the same token, when others encounter difficulties and obstacles, take the initiative to lend a helping hand to care, help, greet and be considerate, and then others will treat you in the same way. In the long run, friendly, intimate and harmonious colleagues will be formed. If you deal with problems in the above ways, you will have a balanced mentality and a group of good friends. Finally, your friend Yang Yonglong wishes you success! Miss Yang: Hello! Thank you very much for your good advice, which benefited me a lot. I have a new question for you now. I live in a company now, and I have done all the chores as well as I can. The current situation is that a colleague came early in the morning, and I should take the initiative to talk to her, but I don't know what to say, so I always feel particularly embarrassed and worried. How can we know more and know more? Whenever my colleagues chat, the biggest reason why I can't get in a word is that I have no idea what they are talking about. Please enlighten me! Teacher Yang asks you another naive question: When someone is chatting with you, how should you continue to talk about the other person's topic so that the other person will be very interested. Please give an example! This friend: Hello! Time in the morning is very precious. Under normal circumstances, colleagues meet every morning to say hello or say hello, and then immediately devote themselves to the preparation or work of the day. Few colleagues chat at work in the morning. To chat, in most cases, I just do my work almost, or I'm exhausted from work before chatting. You want to chat with others early in the morning, which obviously doesn't match your age, pursuit and status. It's easy to make people think that you are a master of muddling along. Over time, you will be rejected by others and be on the edge of the unit crowd, and it's too late to regret it. I suggest that you concentrate on your work from now on, be serious, careful, do well and strengthen your work, and then make a reading plan for yourself after work, because reading will make you "know more and know deeper" and can effectively improve the situation of "I don't know anything they say", so I think it is necessary for you to calm down and "read". Some people put forward three realms of life: "reading thousands of books", that is, reading books with words. The first realm-reading philosophical books can cultivate the atmosphere; Reading professional books can cultivate talents; Reading casual books can cultivate aura. "Take the Wan Li Road", that is, read the wordless gobbledygook, and the second realm is also the road to travel, which can broaden your horizons; The road to exploration can expand the world; Helping others can expand your chest. "Listening to people's words" means reading people's books, and so does the third realm-listening to the words of suffering can sharpen the will; Listening to humorous words can sharpen feelings; Listening to good and bad words can sharpen your mind. Through the study, practice and experience summary of the above books, you can also learn about astronomy and geography, and talk with Kan Kan with clear thinking. You said let me give you an example of "everyone talks about their own topics". For example, this Saturday, I gave a lecture to parents on "Good children are boasted". After the lecture, the mother of two children wants to talk to me about her children. When we arrived at the office, I said to the mothers of these two children, "Please tell me about your children". Then one of them gave me a comprehensive introduction from her children's study life. When she introduced how to get along with children and how to communicate with them, some of her practices are very worthy of our reference, so I will take the opportunity to praise and respond positively, so that she can talk more about education and guidance in all aspects, and she will also share her successful experience with another mother. When I think this conversation is over, I will lose no time to say, "Can you tell me about your relationship and communication with your family?" ..... In this process, I actually said very little, and sometimes I responded with body language such as nodding my head and stretching my thumb, which actually stimulated the enthusiasm of the other party to continue chatting. Although sometimes we are listening to people older than us, in fact, we are more interested in understanding their inner thoughts and ideas and their correct ways and methods of doing things. When necessary, you can also talk to them about life, social views, our times and their times, and so on. Because there is a big age gap between you and them, is there too much conflict of interest, so they can completely open their hearts and chat with you happily. Because they have things that we have always been curious about and unknown, and many things in their time are things that we don't know and can't figure out, and they are also things that we can take as a warning and live better in the future, so chatting with them in the form of consultation is also one of our very necessary means. I don't know if the above will help you. Your friend Yang Yonglong asks you to criticize for reference! Miss Yang: Hello! Thank you for your valuable advice! Very suitable for my present situation, thank you very much! There is another question I need to ask you: I don't know what to say when chatting with her now, whether it is familiar or unfamiliar, because colleagues are also talking about things within the scope of work, and I can finish it in a short language, and then I don't know what to say. I have never talked with others for hours. When others only listen to me, I speak faster and incoherent, and I don't know why I said that at that time. I just watched a movie at the weekend. When my colleague asked me at work on Monday, I finished in a few words, and I didn't think I understood it at the same time. I don't know why I can't say it. Excuse me, Miss Yang, what's going on? I'm so scared now that I wonder if my brain is "rusty". I'm depressed to death. Please ask Teacher Yang for advice! This friend: Hello! The key to chatting is "chatting", that is, chatting. Since it is small talk, there is no need to think about what to say and what not to say. As long as you grasp the length of others and make much ado about nothing, you can just meet or respond casually, which has nothing to do with brain damage. Sometimes making a long story short may be effective, and sometimes making a long story short is also effective. Everything is unintentional, hehe! But what I want to remind you is: pay attention to "four more and one less" in the process of work-see more and pay more attention to how others do it; Listen to what others say; Think about what you should do; Do more, instead of chatting and gossiping around. Only in this way can you do things well, establish your own prestige and win the respect of others! Where are you going? He Cunjing, please consider! Today is your friend Yang Yonglong.
I'm not good at words, and how to improve myself when attending some important occasions.
Exercise your expressive ability.
As long as you dare to say and do.
The most important thing: believe in yourself!
How do people who are not good at words communicate with the team? Although they are not good at words, they should first communicate their own personality characteristics, advantages and disadvantages with the team, so that the team leaders know how to locate your position.
When accepting a task, you can express your views and opinions, because although you are not good at words, you also have your own ideas, which you can talk about, and then you choose to accept or help change the task.
Finally, finish your task seriously.
How to associate with people who are not good at words, you should be cheerful, talk, and know some psychology to guide you.
However, if people are not interested in you, no matter how cheerful you are, it is useless to talk more.
Chatting and interacting is originally a matter for two people. People are not interested in you, so they chat there by themselves.
What if you are introverted and can't express yourself? Why do you like me? My dad later told me that there are two kinds of people when chatting, one is talking and the other is listening. That's what people do. No big deal.
Bad words are clumsy,
Silence,
Incoherent,
Talk less,
With a clumsy heart and a clumsy mouth,
Words are not as good as words,
Stunned,
With a mouth but no tongue,
Park, northeast city,
The period towards ...,
Stunned,
Be speechless,
Off-topic Wan Li,
I don't know what to say,
Words can't convey meaning,
Random talk,
shuffle responsibility onto others
People who are not good at words are often simple and careless, always thinking of others, but it is always themselves who get hurt in the end. In fact, just be yourself, and someone will understand you. When he understands you, he will cherish you. On the contrary, you lose this feature and ask yourself how you are. Others will think you are hypocritical and you are tired. Be your best self.