Do you know what homosexuality is?
Do you know anything about homosexuality?
What do you think of homosexuality?
Perhaps many straight people (heterosexuals, hereinafter referred to as straight people) answer:
1. I don't know, 2. Just so-so, 3. Nausea/I don't know.
As an insider (not much explanation), Chris is not surprised by this reaction. Before writing an article, Chris looked at Baidu search results, and this feeling ... I don't know how to describe it:
The first search result is decent "Baidu Encyclopedia", followed by "pornographic videos" and "making friends with homosexuals" ... I won't spit out a certain degree here.
Although homosexuals need sex as much as heterosexuals, "sex" is just a normal need. Gay and Les are no hungrier than straight people.
Yes, you said that you once saw two men or two women hugging and kissing on the road and subway. What a scandal. ...
But don't forget, men and women are more intimate in public. ...
You only remember Gay and Les, maybe because they are different from you.
Although Chris doesn't like couples cuddling in public, his psychological activities are generally:
"Who are you showing your love to? Are you the happiest? Hungry enough? 」
But dear comrade, while I despise my feelings, I should at least add one more thing: how brave.
? Tell your own story simply, without asking others to understand. I just hope there is one less lost girl and boy in the world.
Chris thinks his orientation is innate. After all, I had a happy childhood, loved his family, and the road to study was smooth sailing.
The road to love is rugged;
I don't even understand elementary school or junior high school. When I was a sophomore, Seeds of Love suddenly fell in love with Banhua. After her success in Bai Wan, she became Chris's first love-a beautiful first love could not stop distance, time and immaturity, and broke up, and it was a serious emotional intelligence, almost self-mutilation;
In college, I fell in love with my big-eyed sister Bai Wan for three years, but it didn't last long. We broke up and got a little hurt.
After graduating from college, I fell in love with a woman who looks like an actress ... Bai Wan fell in love for three years. She got married and broke up again ... desperate and self-destructive;
The next year, I talked about two girlfriends casually before I met her now. Who is she? She's the end of my love, Coco.
Although Bai Wan has met many straight women, Chris is not an expert in love. He even asked himself: Why do you like women?
It's not entirely their fault that they and their ex-girlfriend didn't make it to the end. After all, they were still immature at that time and didn't believe in our future. What can they do?
Now, when you are mature and responsible, love will be stable.
For us, now is not the best time, but it is not the worst time.
Let's call it a day. If I could say a word to myself in high school, I would pat her on the head and say:
Don't doubt your feelings. You have many similar people. Never force yourself to love the opposite sex. In a few years, you will meet the love of your life.
Have fun.