How to understand the meaning of friends? In life, friends are something we all have. There are many kinds of friends, and the meaning of friends cannot be generalized. Many friends are difficult to associate with. Let's see how to understand the meaning of friends.

How to understand the meaning of friend 1 First of all, friends are "useful"

The abuse of the word "friend" is probably second only to "love". It is precisely because of its frequent misuse that people naturally misunderstand it, and the word "friend" is widely used in Falling Prices.

A sincere friend is a close friend.

They are not playmates, drinkers, comforters when they are lonely, spiritual shelters, "contacts" based on interests or practical effects, and they are not casual rhetoric or social rhetoric on the spot.

"friends" are often not a group of people who are coaxed around, nor are they a circle that appears together;

A "friend" is not a person who agrees with and caters to all your thoughts or opinions, nor is it a person who compromises everything and blindly follows you;

"Friends" are not followers, vassals and foil, but people who are equal in personality and spirit;

"Friends" rarely hit it off at first sight, because the closeness of the soul and the harmony of the spirit often need to be "as deep as a knife, as sharp as a knife" in time.

If we think that "friends" are our spiritual refuge, we can vent our helpless sadness to him without thinking, regardless of whether he likes it or not and what his living conditions are, then I am afraid we are too selfish as "friends".

What we do is not good for our friends.

Maybe we should realize that at this time, in the name of "friend", we regard him as our emotional vent object and language trash can, and let innocent people bear the grievances that should be digested by themselves without restraint-this is an abuse of friendship and a loss to friends. In fact, we waste precious time with friends in such endless complaints.

Friends share "bitterness" but not "resentment", because "bitterness" is the suffering of the soul and "resentment" is the poison gas of emotions; The suffering of friends is often our suffering, and a person will never have the heart to cover his friends' lives with the poisonous fog of his emotions and pollute them.

Second, friends are "useless".

The reason why we make friends, need friends and love friends is not because they are "useful".

Friends should not "use", find a safe channel to vent their emotions, seek comfort, set off their sense of superiority, and don't have an extra "helper" or "accomplice" ......

Friends give us love and care, share the richness of our hearts and the beauty of life, give us the tacit understanding brought by mutual understanding, and give us the air-like sense of existence and trust that "I don't always think of it, but it is everywhere".

When we are with friends, we don't expect anything, but our inner relaxation and unintentional fluency without mutual excuses have satisfied us.

One of my same-sex friends describes the empathy between friends like this: "Holding hands is speechless, but the mind is clear".

Indeed, her casual sentence "I don't know you yet" often makes me feel moved and lucky-you know me just like I know you know me, and you don't need much explanation, because you do.

I remember graduation season many years ago. A friend of the opposite sex is about to leave school to work in a distant place, and I will stay at school to continue my studies. The day before we left, we walked and chatted on campus. Graduation was originally a happy thing, but saying goodbye was a little sad.

He said to me, "You are my best friend. Can I give you a hug before you leave? "

Before I could answer, he was a little embarrassed and explained falteringly: "Actually, I didn't mean anything special ... Of course, I didn't have any rude thoughts ... In fact, it's okay if I don't hold it ..."

How to understand the meaning of Friends 2 1 Friends are independent of each other. The most important thing for friends is to respect each other and seek common ground while reserving differences. Both sides have the independence of personality. If the two sides are close enough to make each other feel bound, it is difficult to maintain friendship.

2. Friends are not specific. Your friends also have the right to choose other friends, and they may not choose according to your preferences.

3. Friends have stages. In a certain period of time, the two may be very speculative. Over time, many changes will take place both subjectively and objectively, and friendship may be diluted or dissolved. This is normal. As long as he doesn't intentionally hurt you, there is no betrayal. Of course, it is very necessary to cherish every friendship and cultivate and maintain it with your heart.

What is a true friend? Different people have different ideas. I think: a friend is someone who points you in the direction on your way forward. A friend is a person who solves your difficulties, a friend who knows you, and a friend who cares about you. A friend is someone who gets along with you day and night, and won't talk about it everywhere just because you have some trivial shortcomings. Because no one is perfect! Besides, your friend is not perfect!

Friends are gold, friends are silver, friends are sunshine, and friends are the moon. Friends are stars. A friend is someone who lights a lamp for you when you are on the Black Coast. Friends won't leave you because you are in difficult times. Friends will not abandon you because you are at the bottom of your life.

A true friend won't talk like others, and won't sprinkle a handful of salt on your injured wound. A friend won't stay away from your people because the villain planted it on you, but at this time, he will lend a helping hand and care about you and your people.

A true friend never forgets profits. They don't follow the trend, flatter useful people and kick useless people away. True friends don't abandon friendship because of a little self-interest.

True friends are not selfish. He will be desperate for the people you care about when you need help. He will always be the most loyal person to you. He will promise what you have said and done before, and he will not forget you because you are temporarily unhappy.

True friends are moral. When you are in trouble, he will not give you any pressure, nor will he do anything that makes you breathless. A true friend will be rational and wise. At this time, he will not see your troubles, nor will he watch. He will advise you behind your back, he will communicate with you privately, and he will never tell others directly what he thinks of you. That is to say,

A true friend can do anything for a friend, make decisions for a friend, feel sunny and take care of you everywhere.

How to understand the meaning of a friend 3 How to explain the word "friend"

The so-called friends can't be together every month.

Sometimes it's most important that the heart can be with you.

How to explain the word friend?

Everyone has friends, but few people have the best friendship in the world.

It's a long way to go. Xiu Yuan knows the horsepower, and people will see it for a long time. True friends should stand the test of time and brew in the difficulties of time setting.

From small to large, you have been friends through thick and thin. Your laughter is what your friends want most. When you smile, they will try their best to know why you are like this and try their best to help you untie your heart.

Difficulties should be faced bravely. As a friend, I will be the first to follow you regardless of my life.

We share joys and sorrows. It may sound good at first, but when we really enjoy it, as friends, we won't argue with you. When you are down and out, as a friend, I will definitely leave you something delicious in case you are hungry.

To be a friend, the most important thing is to see the word friend clearly and understand its meaning. Don't go beyond the concept of friends. For example, there is something wrong with the company, your friend is getting married, and you are in a dilemma. You are your own job and your best friend. If you think about it carefully, you will definitely choose a job. Because friends are internal, not posturing.

How to understand the word friend?

Friends say that people who have a certain relationship can be divided into many kinds of friends, including bad friends and good friends, so be careful before making friends.

How to write the word friend?

There is a story in Arabic legend: two friends are traveling in the desert. During the trip, they quarreled, and one slapped the other. Feeling ashamed of being beaten, he wrote in the sand with a cane without saying anything: "My best friend slapped me today." They walked on, ignoring each other. Until they reached Woye, they had to wade again. The one who was beaten almost drowned, but fortunately he was saved by his friend. After being rescued, he picked up a small sword and wrote on a stone: "My best friend saved my life today." A curious friend asked: Why did you write it in the sand after I hit you, but you carved it on a stone after I saved you? The other replied with a smile: when you are hurt by a friend, write it in the sand and the wind will blow away; On the contrary, if we get help, we should carve it in the hardest place where no wind can erase it.