A truly beautiful relationship is when two people can speak freely together. You are willing to open your hearts and you will not deliberately hide your true feelings and thoughts in front of your partner.

If you are always quarreling or having cold wars when you are together, and you are not willing to carefully protect this hard-won relationship, and you are constantly suspicious or testing each other, then it will often be difficult for your relationship to grow. at last.

Emotions need to be communicated. When two people are together, they must learn to communicate and communicate attentively. You must pay attention to the way you speak. You must truly be of the same mind and share the same goals. If you neglect communication and communication, you are unwilling to maintain necessary interactions, and you ignore each other's existence for a long time, then your relationship will easily develop deep cracks.

For women, if a man really loves you, he will always remind himself to pay attention to his speaking skills and attitude. When you feel down or depressed, he will melt you with his warm words, he will find ways to encourage or inspire you to get back on your feet, and he will do his best to help you get out of trouble.

Generally speaking, the more a man loves you, the less he will talk to you like this.

1. He will not be rude to you

The more a man loves you, the less likely he will be rude to you. If a man talks to you in an arrogant manner, or is rude and rude to you, it means that he doesn't really love you.

If a man really likes and cares about you, then he will pay attention to the way he talks to you. When he talks to you, he will appear approachable, he will be extra kind and friendly to you, and he will also be full of infinite tenderness and affection for you.

If you find that a man never wants to talk to you properly, and when he talks to you, he is always arrogant and arrogant, and he always talks to you in a condescending manner, then it means that he may Don't really love you.

In the TV series "An Jia", Zhai Yunxiao and Xu Wenchang have completely different attitudes towards Fang Sijin. When Zhai Yunxiao talked to Fang Sijin, he always had a business-like attitude. He always spoke to her in a commanding tone. Fang Sijin was just a pawn in his hand. He had never had any true feelings for her. He was using her from beginning to end.

When Xu Wenchang talked to Fang Sijin, his eyes were full of affection and his speaking attitude was very gentle. When she was bullied and depressed, he would immediately take the initiative to comfort and enlighten her. When she felt sad or wronged, he would gently advise her not to suppress her emotions too much and to cry loudly if she wanted to. It is precisely because of Xu Wenchang's warm company that the smile on Fang Sijin's face becomes more and more.

It can be seen that if a man really loves you, he will not be rude to you like Zhai Yunxiao, but will be gentle to you like Xu Wenchang, and he will master how to speak. Proportion and scale.

2. He will not be perfunctory with you

The more a man loves you, the less likely he will be perfunctory with you when talking to you. To judge whether a man really loves you, it depends on whether his attitude when talking to you is sincere and attentive enough.

If you are talking to a man and he always interrupts you, he will neither listen to you nor really take what you say to heart. , what he says to you always goes in one ear and out the other, which means that he actually doesn’t love you or care about you that much. He doesn’t have you in his heart at all, and he doesn’t really love you.

In a relationship, if a man really likes and cares about you, then he will definitely pay full attention to your existence, and he will cherish every opportunity for you to chat and talk. When he talks to you, he will be fully engaged, and he will listen carefully to you.

If a man really loves you, he will take everything you do seriously, and he will remember every word you say. Even if you just accidentally mention to him that your birthday is coming soon, he will remember it secretly and prepare birthday gifts and surprises for you in advance.

If a man seems distracted and absent-minded when talking to you, and his words are particularly cold and ruthless, without any human touch or warmth, then it means that he does not really love you.

3. He will not break his promise to you

The more a man loves you, the more he will keep his word to you. If a man really cares about you, he will be particularly serious and responsible when talking to you, and he will keep his promises. As long as it is something he has promised you personally, he will not break his promise easily.

If a man never refuses to take responsibility for what he says in a relationship, he speaks very exaggeratedly, and he always talks all kinds of things to you, or makes all kinds of flattery to you, then it means that he is actually a real person. Doesn’t love you or care about you that much.

In a relationship, if a man really loves you, he will definitely do what he says to you, and he will also be careful with what he says and does to you. Because he is afraid of losing you, he will not talk nonsense to you. When he talks to you, he will think deeply and will not talk nonsense.

If a man talks to you without seriousness, and he never refuses to fulfill his promise in time, and his words are always wrong, and his words have no weight, then it means that he does not actually love you that much. Or care about you.

The more a man cares about you, the more seriously he will fulfill his commitment to you. If a man always talks glibly when talking to you, and doesn't mean anything at all, and he always throws out the things he promised you, then in all likelihood, it means that he doesn't have you in his heart, and he may have already I'll let you go.

In short, the more a man loves you, the less likely he will be aggressive or rude to you when talking to you, and he will not be perfunctory or unfaithful to you.

If a man never puts himself in your shoes when talking to you, he seems particularly cold or indifferent when speaking, he speaks without any human touch, he speaks lightly and is not reliable at all, then it means that In fact, he doesn't really love you or care about you. He may put down or stay away from you at any time.

A man who truly cares about you will always be aware of your emotions when he talks to you. When you are not interested in a certain topic, or when a certain topic makes you feel embarrassed, he will quickly change the subject. When you are in a bad mood or when you are angry, he will also know how to keep an appropriate distance from you. He will keep the necessary silence in front of you. He will wait patiently for you to calm down before talking to you. Have a heart-to-heart talk.