For another example, people spent a year or two preparing for the 9H prize for American mathematical modeling, and finally won the H prize successfully. I am very happy. You will also bless, but the goal you set for yourself can't be the H prize. You will think that I must win the O prize and the F prize, or at least the M. What do you think this is? This is not contempt. I feel more like ignoring it. There is nothing to despise, because the goal is completely different. Maybe I will smile in my heart. "It turns out that they will be satisfied with 7 points. It would be a shame if I got 7 points in the exam. My classmates are all 8. "
Ask yourself, have those people who say they never despise them ever thought about these ideas? After all, a 985 student sets his goals the same as ordinary students, and you are too lacking in your own requirements. Many people always say that they will not despise, although they do not show contempt in their actions. But there is no denying that they have not put themselves on the same level as them, and their grades may not be as good as yours. I think there is nothing to deny this inner pride, and I don't know why many people don't want to admit it. There is no need to ridicule people who are not as good as themselves, and there is no need to look down on people with low goals, but don't always think that modesty means that people are not proud.