How do experts chat? Can you talk about it in detail?

I don't know if you have carefully observed how two experts usually chat, and what do they talk about?

First, it must be purposeful, because as a master, he can't spend his time in a communication without purpose. Therefore, under normal circumstances, the master is willing to chat with you, and his purpose is generally to enhance the relationship, because whether he wants to make friends with you, fall in love or talk about cooperation, it is based on the trust after the relationship is improved.

second, the chat content that can enhance the relationship must be your hobbies, such as your attitude towards fishing. For example, if you talk about the influence of a certain job on your outlook on life and values, you can talk about these contents. As for whether your hobbies are the same, and where to buy a car and house in the future, this can only make the other party think that you are a suitable person to make friends, but it is not about the sublimation of your feelings or your love and trust.

Third, if you want the other person to have feelings for you, and if you want to increase trust after the relationship is improved, you must talk about something that can arouse people's emotions. Do you know why it is difficult for older single men and women to like a person? The reason is that they have more life experience, and their emotions are relatively stable, and there will be no big ups and downs. However, those children who have just entered the society and just graduated can easily be mobilized, and their emotions will easily dominate their own thoughts, so it is easy for them to like a person and break up with a person.

Fourth, something that can arouse your emotions, which can be to express your own feelings, to output your values, or to make fun of each other. Only these can make the two sides closer psychologically and trust each other more. After that, you will do something, whether it's dating or business cooperation, which will generally get twice the result with half the effort.