The first one is the perfect girl that everyone envies and longs to be. I think it should be an all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, as the teacher said in the novel.
I think the most perfect girl with good personal conduct, education and respect for others is generally only available in novels. The kind of woman in ancient times, a woman who is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, a gentle and virtuous lady. The second type is girls who are unilaterally better. It may be multifaceted, but it is not perfect. For example, the most typical example is Mulan.
At a very young age, I met this legendary woman by watching anime Mulan. Her persistence and filial piety make me feel that she is an excellent woman. In addition, she was able to make many achievements in the military camp, which showed her military talent and Excellence.
In such a chaotic war era, as a woman, she can survive on the battlefield for a long time and make great achievements. Let's talk about the more common ones now. I heard a teacher say which girl's subject is very good. Every girl has something she is good at.
She is excellent in that respect. The third one is my favorite. A girl with good personal qualities and respect for others has good conduct. She is also an excellent girl. Work hard and have goals in life. Excellent girls do everything very seriously. For example, in college, when others feel that they don't want to study and have no goals.
A girl with temperament will set goals for herself from the beginning of college, strive to be a team leader during military training, actively run for class cadres in the class, and then try to participate in the interview organized by the community. In short, her life and study always have goals, and she is constantly striving to achieve them.
Be strong and never admit defeat. Excellent girls can always learn to face many difficulties by themselves and have the spirit of not letting men be women. For example, military training, when other girls complain about the hardships of military training all day, some will find excuses to avoid military training. Of course, she will be tired, but she will use persistence to prove that she can do it. She thinks it is a rare opportunity to exercise herself, have fun in suffering, refuse to admit defeat, and make her life more colorful.
Generally speaking, it has the following characteristics:
Be independent, have your own ideas, face one thing, don't follow others' advice, and have your own opinions. Even in the face of others' doubts, you know how to stick to your correct views and dare to express your ideas. This is also a feature of excellent girls. Be careful, have confidence in yourself and know how to work as a team. If a girl can cooperate with others, have confidence in herself, take care of others' feelings, do things meticulously and complete team projects in an orderly way, she is undoubtedly excellent. Girls who know how to share with others are also excellent. Imagine that a person is selfish and lets others do everything. Will anyone like it?
Generally, excellent girls are good-natured people. Because they learn a lot of excellent qualities from many places, or excellent character and temper. They know how to treat many people and things in ancient and modern China and abroad. Learn from books and learn from life. Every excellent girl will have her own personality, but they must have a good temper.
Many people who complain about others, or those who complain about others all day, will not reach such a high level of Excellence. I'm not saying that every girl with a good temper is excellent, but an excellent girl must have her specific personality. It is good to treat things and people with temper.
Self-discipline is an essential feature that I think both girls and boys are excellent. Because only one person knows how to restrain himself, manage himself and manage himself, can he be truly excellent. A person who doesn't even arrange his own time well, doesn't even have a good life, and doesn't even know how to teach himself, can't achieve Excellence. It is difficult to live according to your own rules every day for a long time. But for excellent people, self-discipline is the premise, and it is difficult for a person who is not self-disciplined to be excellent. Some people say that excellent people are always independent. I hope we can all live our own lives, become self-disciplined, live the life we like and live the life we want.
I saw this sentence on the internet: there are two kinds of people in the world of contemporary young people, one is mature and the other is "old". Most people live to be the latter. I am young, but I live a lifeless life all day. While worrying about the embarrassment of life, I still can't stop playing mobile phones until late at night and wandering in virtual social networks. It always takes three minutes to do things, and everything promises to start tomorrow. When laziness becomes a habit and self-discipline becomes an abandoned creed in life, many people will become more and more empty, anxious, numb and inferior. Procrastination and lack of self-discipline will gradually make you feel more and more tired and less free to live.
Search online for "what is the experience of undisciplined life?" One answer impressed me deeply: I was repeatedly humiliated by fate and had no strength to fight back. I have a friend who often chats with me and says that his life is extremely boring and empty. He listed his daily life: going to work during the day, ordering takeout at home at night, and then playing games with his roommate.
After a few rounds, I felt boring, but there was nothing else to do. I suggested that he read books to enrich himself or ask his friends to play basketball and run with him, but he said that his work during the day had exhausted him and he couldn't lift his spirits to exercise. I finally understood his question: "It's not that I have nothing to do, but I want to play games." what can I do? My roommate, colleagues, everyone plays games to kill time. Is this my problem alone?
He is always reluctant to admit that indulging in games is his own problem, and thinks that the interference and influence from outside is the culprit. He has no way to solve it, so he has to react passively, so his life is terrible.