If a woman is not cruel, a man will not love her.

The "ruthlessness" mentioned here is a kind of self-requirement and restraint. Some women will feel that if they already have a boyfriend or are married, they do not need to be self-disciplined or have requirements for themselves. , this idea is wrong.

If you want to continue to attract a man, you must first become a high-quality woman. Only by becoming a better yourself can you make him never forget you and be fascinated by you. This requires you to be cruel to yourself, no matter it is You have to maintain your own unique charm both on the outside and on the inside, and he will naturally be unable to live without you.

In a relationship, if you want a man to be fascinated by you, you need to be "cruel".

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In terms of appearance, be strict with yourself

Some women always say: "I'm married anyway, I already have a boyfriend. He doesn’t dislike me, so why should I dress up?”

But is this really the case? After a woman gets married and has a partner, doesn’t she no longer need to dress herself up? No, being particular about appearance is not necessarily to please others, but more to please yourself.

When you put on your favorite clothes and put on makeup carefully every day, you will feel refreshed and happy when you see it. When a man sees you as beautiful as you, he will naturally feel happy. It will be fine.

Don’t always think that anyway, he sees me like this every day. I don’t need to dress up. He also knows what I really look like. What I say is true, but I know how to be strict with myself and dress up beautifully. , will definitely fascinate a man even more. Such a woman will also give the other person a sense of freshness, making him always feel surprised.

Some people find it troublesome when they think about dressing up. What I mean by being strict with yourself in terms of appearance is to make you pay attention to dressing and be clean and fresh, rather than to put on heavy makeup and spend a lot of time every day. On the outside.

On the outside, be kind to yourself. Don’t give up on dressing yourself up because you are lazy. No matter how tight the time is, remember to change clothes every day, put on light makeup for yourself, and walk in front of him refreshingly.

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In life, ask yourself to be independent

Everyone is lazy and likes to rely on others, especially when you have a husband or boyfriend, It is more legitimate to rely on him.

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Emotionally, stay dedicated

Some women may also be in love with other men while being in love with you. Ambiguous, such a woman will naturally not be loved.

Perhaps the relationship between the two people is very good when the other party does not find out. Once the other party finds out, he will naturally not tolerate your ambiguity. If you continue to break off the relationship with other members of the opposite sex, he will not Will continue to be with you.

Don’t think that because a man loves you, you can do whatever you want. In fact, everyone needs to be responsible for their own feelings. If you really love him, don’t do this, but stay in this relationship. Only good to him.

In this regard, you must be ruthless. Since you have chosen this person, you should pay attention to this relationship, rather than one mountain being higher than the other. In the end, both parties may not be able to get it. good.

If a woman can remain exclusive in her relationship, she can be sure that she really loves you, so she will refuse contact with other members of the opposite sex for you. She only hopes that in this relationship, you will be together. They are each other's only ones.

If a woman values ??feelings and cherishes your encounter, then you should also cherish her.

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A woman who can fascinate a man usually has some excellent qualities, such as she has requirements for herself in appearance, she is independent in her career, and she is strong in relationships. Very dedicated.

If you also want to be cherished, then be cruel to yourself and be strict with yourself instead of being inactive and indifferent to everything. You will not be loved like this. of.

Don’t always complain about why no one loves you. First think about whether you are good enough. Good partners are attracted. If you are good, the other person will naturally be more inseparable from you.

There is a saying: "Good love will bring positive energy to oneself, not only to change the other person, but more importantly, to become a better self, so work hard and strive.

Even if love disappears one day, you will be grateful to the person who made you a better person. ”

Before loving others, learn to love yourself first. Be more cruel and self-disciplined, and what you can get will definitely exceed your imagination.