0 1 restart work
After being married for a long time, the first problem is your financial problems. Follow the man to his city, then you have to start looking for a job again, and women are in a weak position in the workplace, and it is even more difficult to find a job after marriage. The problem of work is the first hidden trouble after a long marriage.
02 social new running-in
The second hidden danger of being married for a long time is social problems. Just like a child who changes schools and has been married for a long time, in the face of a strange environment, it is necessary to carry out a new round of running-in for people, things and things around him.
Maybe in a short time, you will face a life circle of your own. Most of your best friends are in other places. Even if the internet is developed again, entertainment activities can only be left with their own carnival. Even with the passage of time, the feelings between the original friends will gradually fade away, and with the reduction of the same topic, everyone will only drift away.
The helplessness of family background.
We have a client, and the contradiction between husband and wife is not serious, but we can always quarrel over some trivial things every once in a while. The man said that the woman was too concerned about her mother's family, and the woman felt that the man was stingy and searching, and the two held their own words. The man is from Shandong and the woman is from Hubei. After more than seven years of marriage, the number of times the woman went back to her mother's house can be counted. When it comes to her long marriage, she gushes.
"For those girls far away, I really have something to say. It takes 6-7 hours to drive home once. Parents are in good health. Once something happens, you will really regret it. There is also the mother-in-law's good, and the husband can't give it. Please think it over. Because after marriage, once there is a contradiction, no one in the husband's family will think of you. "