The characteristics of college students’ interpersonal communication include but are not limited to:

1. Strong autonomy and wide scope:

Interpersonal communication is a need for college students’ physical and mental development. As their physical and mental development matures, college students' self-awareness has developed rapidly. In interpersonal interactions, they are unwilling to obey others, want to be independent, and like to show their unique insights and unique personality. With the expansion of living space, college students' interpersonal interactions have more extensive characteristics.

2. Focus on content and form:

College students have rich and colorful lives and practices inside and outside the school, their club activities have their own characteristics, and the content of their interpersonal interactions is even richer. With the continuous emergence of new media, the means of interpersonal communication are becoming increasingly diversified. There are more and more forms of phone calls, text messages, QQ, WeChat, email, and communication, with more openness and interaction.

3. Distrust:

Making friends requires trust, just like people need air and water. Trust is the key to opening the heart. Whether people are harmonious or not depends entirely on whether there is a sense of trust. If you don't trust your friends, it will be difficult to treat others sincerely.

Methods to deal with college students’ interpersonal confusion:

Interpersonal communication is a basic psychological need of human beings, which helps to shape an individual’s personality and is beneficial to the individual’s physical and mental health and socialization. The methods to deal with the confusion in interpersonal communication of college students are as follows:

(1) Overcome shyness:

You can start from the following three aspects: first, cultivate self-confidence, eliminate negative self-suggestions, and learn to Be sure of yourself; secondly, don’t think too much about other people’s opinions of you and worry about gains and losses; finally, you must learn necessary communication skills, carry out psychological training and practical exercises, and improve your own abilities.

(2) Overcome suspicion:

First of all, we must cultivate the ability to deal with problems rationally. Secondly, we must learn to understand other people and objective things objectively and comprehensively, do not draw conclusions based on short-term interaction experience, and avoid generalizations. Thirdly, we must broaden our minds. Misunderstandings and estrangements in interpersonal communication are normal phenomena, and we must learn to take the initiative to communicate with others.

(3) Overcome inferiority complex:

First of all, we must respect ourselves and love ourselves, treat ourselves correctly, evaluate ourselves, appreciate ourselves, constantly improve ourselves, and enhance interpersonal attraction; second, seek others Help, such as talking to a psychological counselor for help. The third is to learn self-regulation, actively participate in activities and sports, and gradually develop self-confidence.

(4) Overcoming jealousy:

The first is to correctly understand the universality of jealousy and believe that this emotion can be overcome; the second is to change the cognition, think of others when seeing talents, Let your mind gradually become more open-minded; third, divert your attention, turn jealousy into motivation, and strive to improve yourself; fourth, learn to vent yourself and find others to enlighten you.

(5) Overcome pride:

First of all, learn to discover the advantages of others and respect others. Everyone desires to be affirmed and respected; secondly, have empathy and respect yourself. Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you. In interpersonal interactions, be constantly self-aware and self-reflective. Thirdly, cultivate group consciousness. In collective activities and interactions with others, constantly integrate, constantly adapt, and overcome pride. psychology.

Reference for the above content: Baidu Encyclopedia-Campus Interpersonal Communication