When you are 18 years old, you need to know some social skills
Chapter 1: Learn the "rules" first, then make friends - the social laws that you must know after the age of 18.
1. The law of reciprocity, the favors you exchange with me
2. The law of appropriate exchanges: Don’t be too sweet brother”, “sweet sister”
3. Communication The Law of Successful Communication Atmosphere: It is beneficial to create a communication atmosphere
4. The Law of the Opposite Sex: Men and women match each other, and the work is not tiring
5. The Law of Suppression before Promoting: Negate first and then affirm, and say good things after
6. The Law of Neighborhood: People nearby will have an impact on us
7. The Law of Empathy: Understanding others’ shoes can make people feel good 8. The Law of Emotional Conquest: Emotions are sometimes more powerful than others Interests can move people's hearts more. 9. The law of similarity says that those who are different will not seek each other.
Chapter 2: Network is the lifeblood, friends are benefits - after the age of 18, you should start building connections and making friends
1. Network is an intangible asset
2. Network is your ticket to wealth and success
3. Network can provide you with effective information
4. Network can help you improve your own quality
5. Networking helps with career development
6. Networking is a mirror that allows you to see yourself clearly
Chapter 3: Charm attracts people and makes friends all over the world—— After the age of 18, you must play the card of charisma.
1. Be a human being before doing things
2. Good quality is the foundation of a person's life
3. Respect the people around you
4. Be kind to others and treat others well
5. Humble people are popular in social circles
6. Cultivate your own temperament
7. Start from the first place every day Start with a smile
Chapter 5: Become friends with strangers in 5 minutes - learn to interact with strangers after the age of 18
1. Strangers are potential friends
2. Learn to observe strangers in details
3. Choose a good topic to bring us closer
4. Use body language to open the hearts of strangers
5. Win-win: Give strangers some benefits
6. Be honest with strangers
7. Make strangers feel recognized
Chapter 6: Guess people's hearts and take control of communication - after the age of 18, you need to know how to read social minds.
1. Take the initiative to start a conversation
2. Learn to cater to others
3. Learn to ask questions and let others talk more
4. Use psychological suggestions to make him act according to your wishes
5. Learn to "change his face" in social interactions
Chapter 7: Decipher body language and identify people well The right way to make friends - after the age of 18, you need to know how to socialize and recognize people
1. Understand each other by observing their social circle
2. Eyes are the windows to the soul
3. Recognize people by observing their expressions
4. See through the secrets of their personality through their clothes
5. Find out what kind of person they are by their gait
6. Determine personality through reading preferences
7. Understand people’s hearts through topic content
6. Different people use different communication strategies
Chapter 7: Decipher body language, how to identify people and make friends - after the age of 18, you need to know how to socialize and recognize people
1. Understand each other by observing their social circle
2. Eyes are the windows to the soul
3. Recognize people by observing their expressions
4. See through the secrets of each other’s personality through their clothes
5. Judging from his gait what kind of person he is
6. Judging his personality from his preference for reading
7. Understand people's hearts through topic content