"Autumn is cool in September, white flowers bloom, and one liter of flowers is exposed." Teacher Zhu expounded his understanding of beauty, life and philosophy in a tone of chatting with friends. When reading, I seem to be sitting on the same coffee table with him, drinking and listening. People like them may never have a chance to have tea with them. Only by reading can you hear their voices.
Mr. Zhu is a famous aesthete, philosopher and writer ... After reading the book, I think he is a life scientist, a life expert who knows the true meaning of a happy life, peace and mentality. In the final analysis, aesthetics, philosophy and literature are all for people to live a higher quality life.
"Washing people's hearts begins with caring for nature; To purify people's minds, we must first beautify our lives. If a person wants to have good cultivation, he can cultivate his interest in the beauty industry: painting, flower arrangement, calligraphy, dance, musical instruments and tourism. These seemingly useless things are just useful. " Most parents will let their children participate in various interest classes, but most children can't become various "homes" because of this. In fact, we don't need to train children to become various professionals, we can make these experiences a small seed in their hearts. When they feel that their dull life is really boring in the future, this little seed will sprout and make them have more fun. When I was a child, my mother asked me to learn dance, Chinese painting and flute. Without exception, I didn't make it. However, as an adult, these have become the colors and notes in my life, which bring me a lot of happiness.
"Games are for children, giving them imagination and creativity." "Adults, don't lose their childlike innocence." Teacher Zhu seldom talks about the word success, but more about satisfaction. However, nowadays, most people are more concerned about how much we have achieved, but few people care about how satisfied we were. Small achievements may be achieved by pushing yourself, but great achievements must be supported by heartfelt satisfaction. People who keep a pure heart are immersed in satisfying their own ideals and interests, regardless of gains and losses, and regard their knowledge and career as works of art, in fact, it is easier to make great achievements. Therefore, teachers prefer well-behaved children, but always feel that naughty children are more "promising" when they grow up. Therefore, children, don't be mature beyond their age, and don't be naive below their age.
Two articles by Tan Dong and TanJing touched me deeply. Mr. Zhu said: "Worry is indifference. People should be active, not depressed. Who is more worried? Idle people. Therefore, trouble is also called leisure trouble. If a person's body and mind are not idle and full, how can they be troubled? " Mr. Zhu not only provided the world outlook, but also provided the methodology. "The happiness of life lies partly in exercise and partly in quietness." Exercise is activity and quietness is feeling. First of all, the body should move to relieve depression, such as going out on a date and exercising. Silence is the reflection of the soul, such as being in the beauty industry and feeling the art. Compared with myself, I move too little.
Teacher Zhu said in the article "Talking about Making Friends": "Sometimes, we are always complaining about how others hurt us. We might as well think more about whether we are sincere to others. If you feel that you have a clear conscience and others are still the same, it can only prove that different ways do not work together. A kind person who is hurt by others will only choose to stay away and will not go back to hurt each other. " Aesop's Fables has the same story: the snake killed the farmer's son, and the farmer chased the snake for revenge and broke the snake's tail with a hoe. From then on, you fought for each other, making it restless and neglecting farming. The farmer suddenly figured it out one day. He went to the snake for reconciliation, and the snake said, "It is impossible to really reconcile. When you see me, you will only think of your son's grave, and when I see you, I will only think of my broken tail. " Some injuries, now that they have been caused, may be the best way to stay away. I think, even if the farmer didn't break the snake's tail, Aesop might have written a worse ending for the snake than breaking the tail. However, the values in the recently popular Story of Yan Xi Palace are not undesirable, and fighting and winning are not impossible. Let's master the scale by ourselves.
About reading. "Mathematics is applied to calculate numbers and is specially used for learning. It is the universality of learning to become a thoughtful, harmonious and world-oriented person by studying mathematics. As far as wisdom is concerned, learning is a tool to train the mind. As far as personality is concerned, learning is the way for people to improve their moral cultivation. "
"Instead of reading ten unimportant books, it is better to spend time and energy on reading ten books and reading a book that is really worth reading. The so-called good books are never tired of reading. If you don't read it thoroughly, you can develop a good habit of deliberation. "
"Can't pass, can't design. If you can't blog, you can't date Reading is not only an interest, but also a kind of training. Some interesting books have to be sacrificed. Some books are boring at first glance, so you must bite the bullet. Chewing for a long time will naturally taste. Reading literary works, with emphasis on writers. Read historical works and take the times as the center. When reading a novel, you should put yourself in your imagination, enter the hearts of the characters, and have the same thoughts, feelings and inner life with them. " It suddenly occurred to me that when I was reading Fortress Besieged, I felt that I could understand every decision of Fang Hung-chien, as if I were Fang Hung-chien, and I was embarrassed.
"In the hustle and bustle of the world, you accidentally left everything behind and daydreamed leisurely. Suddenly, there seems to be a flash of light in your heart, and a steady stream of witticisms will come. This is the quiet interest in your busy schedule. "