1. Don’t be too impatient, don’t be too anxious, everything flows in its own order. Many times, as long as we wait, we will be safe, let go and it will pass, endure and endure, and we will be harmonious. You will understand by looking at it, you will know by tasting it, and you will understand by asking. Think about it Just thinking about it made me realize it. If you have trouble with things, those things will definitely have trouble with you. Only a harmonious mentality can lead to a harmonious state of affairs.

2. When you meet the person you truly love: strive for the opportunity to be with him for a lifetime, because when he leaves, it will be too late; when you meet a friend you can trust: be good Keep getting along with him, because in a person's life, it is really not easy to meet a close friend; when you meet someone you have loved before: remember to smile, because he is the person who makes you understand love better.

3. Believe that there are good people in the world, but beware of bad ones; believe that you are strong, but don’t refuse tears; believe that money can bring happiness, but don’t spend your life; believe in sincerity, but don’t accuse hypocrisy ; Believe in success, but don’t run away from failure; Believe in fate, but don’t wait blindly; Believe in love, but don’t demand full blame.

4. Buddha said: You must be smart in dealing with things and confused in dealing with others. If you are blessed but not arrogant, there will be no disaster; if you are not afraid of disaster, you will be blessed. Things are judged by responsibility, adversity is judged by mind, joy and anger are judged by self-cultivation, behavior is judged by courage. It's a blessing to be a little busy, lest you get bored; it's also a blessing to be a little slandered, lest you become proud. Friendships should be light first and then strong, first loose and then close. Friendships between poverty and poverty can last long, but friendships between interests will only hurt both sides.

5. Don’t blame your fate, face life with a grateful attitude, life will be beautiful everywhere. The background of life is endlessly desolate, but after seeing through this desolation, and moving forward step by step, life will become warmer little by little. It's like listening to the sound of the flute in the distance in the middle of the night. What he is playing is the love of spring, and what I am listening to is the awakening of life. ——Master Hengyu

6. No one can enjoy happiness all his life. It is impossible to ensure that you are always happy throughout your life. Only by experiencing it can you understand; only by suffering can you know how happy the happy moments are; only by loving can you know the feeling of heartache; only by giving can you get rewards; only by working hard can you know how difficult it is to be happy. ; Only when you have failed can you know how difficult it is to succeed.

7. Human desires are endless. This is how people are. The more they have, the more they want to ask for more; the more they have, the more they degenerate. People have desires, but they cannot be greedy. Only by learning to be content can you gain true happiness in the world.

8. When someone keeps scolding you, complimenting them instead will surprise the people around you and make them at a loss. When others continue to praise you, you will say a few words of disparagement to yourself, which will make others admire you and reduce your own pressure. When everyone is targeting one person, saying a few fair words will make everyone secretly admire you and make you a rare friend.

9. Your life is very limited, so don’t waste it on repeating other people’s lives; don’t be bound by dogma, don’t let other people’s noisy voices cover your heart; you must have the courage to listen to your heart and mind. Intuitive guidance, your heart knows what you want to be. Everything else is secondary.

10. There are no obstacles in life that cannot be overcome, only people who cannot overcome them. Only when people can let go of life can they lift it up. Letting go is unrestrained, beautiful and wise. Only when you are happy can you face life calmly and meet the challenges of life calmly. People who live in confusion are likely to be happy; people who live too soberly are likely to be troubled. Don't search too hard, the best things often appear inadvertently.

11. Learn to smile, the clouds disperse and the wind disappears, and the sky is high; learn to adapt, live in peace with the situation, and worries are invisible; learn to understand, there are flowers and full moons, all kinds of harmony; learn to be tolerant, let your imagination run wild, and be self-indulgent ; Learn to be kind, have both sides, and do whatever you want; learn to appreciate, have long-term interests, and have fragrant virtue; learn to be patient, happiness will bloom, and life will be heroic.

12. People can live truly, but don’t take it too seriously. When the water is extremely clear, there are no fish; when people observe it, there are no disciples. The greatest tragedy of perfectionists is that they live unreally. In the real world, there is bitterness and joy, sourness and sweetness. The greatest joy in life is to find happiness from pain. Pursuing the best in everything is a positive thought, but it is not the best way to live. If you are easy-going, life will be easy-going.

13. Life, youth, middle age, and old age are like the three stages of drinking tea.

Feeling bitter for the first time is just like the ups and downs when entering society for the first time. The second time the tongue produces fluid, you will gain wealth, stability and confidence after hard work. The third time the tea has gradually faded away, just like getting older, the ears are smoother and the mind is calmer. After time, the heart is clear, just like the taste of tea is light, the tea water becomes more and more transparent.

14. It is better to live up to expectations than to be angry. Stupid people only get angry, smart people know how to fight for it. In life, there is "qi" everywhere, and there is "qi" in everything. Life without "qi" is not life, it is a "utopia" in fantasy. Nine times out of ten things in life will be unsatisfactory. Learning not to be angry is a different realm of life. Being angry hurts the body and hurts the body, hurts others and hurts oneself. Learning not to be angry and being less angry is a kind of maturity and a kind of wisdom.

15. Life is a journey, and life is the process. Whether you go over mountains and ridges, or wade through water and take a boat, everything depends on you. When walking on the road of life, you don't have to carry too much burden on yourself. Only by listening to the wind will you be able to walk easily. Some gains may not last long; some losses may not happen again. The important thing is: let the heart learn to dance in the sunshine; let the soul learn to smile in the ordinary; be among the clouds and water, intoxicated and never know how to return.

16. If you have a free heart, you will be more free and easy; if you have a normal heart, you will be more calm; if you have a compassionate heart, you will accumulate more kindness; if you have a grateful heart, you will be happier; if you have a grateful heart, you will be happier. With a heart of cause and effect, you will be more sensible; with a heart of tolerance, you will be happier; with a heart of detachment, you will be more indifferent; with a heart of practice, you will be wiser; with a heart of simplicity, you will be purer; with a heart of simplicity, you will be more pure. With a self-aware mind, you will be more awake.

17. When you have no money, if you give up your hard work, the money will come. This is called God rewarding hard work. When you have money, give it away and people will come. This is called gathering people with light wealth. When there are people, if you give up your love, your career will come. This is called virtue and wealth. When you succeed in your career, you will let go of your wisdom and joy will come. This is called virtuous conduct in the world. Without giving up, there is no gain.

18. Everything is round and everything follows fate. The sky is round, the earth is round, all things cycle, and everything is connected with cause and effect. Everything is inexplicable, the starting point is the end, and the end is a new starting point. Without the original starting point, where would we be today's end point? The old will not go, and the new will not come. Destiny is cause and effect, and cause and effect is a circle. Don't be complacent, complacency is evil and will eventually lead to bad consequences; don't be disappointed, loss is hurt, and the hurt is hard to heal. Be calm in your heart, let everything take its course, and that is perfection.

19. Life is like tea, extremely bitter but sweet at the same time. Good tea cannot be brewed in warm water, and good children cannot be raised in a greenhouse. No matter how good the quality of the tea is, the flavor will not come out if the water temperature is not high enough. Life, like tea leaves, is repeatedly tossed and soaked in boiling water, in order to bring out the inner potential and create long-term and stable happiness for yourself. Every trauma is a kind of maturity; every kind of maturity is a harbinger of happiness.

20. The best way to behave is to be neither humble nor arrogant. Caring too much about other people's opinions and evaluations will only make you unable to do things freely, make you hesitate, lose yourself, lose your personality, and lose your own value. Sticking to what you choose and believing in what you insist on is the right path for you. It doesn't matter what others think of you. What matters is that you be yourself and do what you think is right.