I'm twenty years old, too. I can tell you something about me. There are very few people who contact me slowly now, and the rest are heart-to-heart friends, that is, they will definitely help me when I am in trouble, so I don't think there is anything wrong. As we grow up, we will find the cruel side of this world, but you can't forget that this world has love and friendship. You should learn to judge people and learn to distinguish whether others are sincere or hypocritical to you. Learn to be a man and do things, and don't waste a minute on someone who isn't worth it. To put it bluntly, I look like you.

It is better to keep the circle simple. Personally, I prefer simple relationships. Those who are cynical or hypocritical have been kicked out of my circle and no longer contacted. You ask if this is pathetic. Actually, you have to ask yourself what you want. It seems that there are many friends every day, it seems that people are very wide, or small circles but all are high-quality friends. I know very well that I want quality, not quantity. I never feel sorry for myself. This is the life I want. But you should try to make some friends who really care about you. It's hard to believe that others are right, but if you don't want to trust anyone, it's really sad.