The first "good guy": good guy.
A good person is an easy-going, kind and gentle person who is unwilling to offend others, will not refuse others and lacks principles. There are many such people around us. They are gentle and do not like to show off. Such a person looks worthy of our association, but he is actually a swing, and it is difficult to fall to which side. Especially when it comes to principles, such a good person won't have his own opinions.
Moreover, the tougher the Lord is, the more afraid they are and lose the bottom line of their lives and work. Such people are unwilling to offend others at best; The worst case is to help others abuse and become a hidden accomplice. Making friends with such people, we can't get sincerity, even if there are difficulties in the future, we can't get any help, and some even have to help them deal with difficulties. In that case, we will have a hard time.
The second "good guy": a loyal but reckless person.
Around us, we will see some straightforward and seemingly upright people, especially on the wine table. They like to clap their chests and want to be brothers with us. When we are in trouble, they often jump out to support us. But such people often have a personality characteristic, that is, they are too tough and reckless, so they are easy to make trouble.
Lao Tzu said: if a strong beam never dies, there will be hatred for belligerence. It is about a person who is too strong and will eventually encounter unexpected blows. Therefore, making friends with these loyal but reckless people seems to be helpful and supportive, but in fact we are looking for trouble. Because, once we ask them for help, they will get into trouble because they are too reckless. In the end, they will not only fail to help, but also bring us more and more troubles. In this case, we will have nothing to say.
The third "good guy": a affectionate person.
There is an intriguing sentence in Chen Jiru's book Little Window in the Ming Dynasty: love is the hardest, so many lovers will be widowed; Sex has its own nature, so wayward people will never lose it. This sentence means that a person's love is the most difficult to maintain for a long time, so people with rich feelings will eventually become shallow and heartless. But human nature has some common sense, so people who act spontaneously will never lose their nature. Similarly, such affection can also be used to make friends.
If a person is too affectionate, then it is easy for this person to squander each other's feelings in peacetime, that is, to be friends with us, especially the boyfriend and girlfriend who become lovers with us. Affectionate people are likely to succeed in emotional problems. If one day, there are some contradictions between two people's emotions, then the affectionate person will inevitably become a heartless person and leave us categorically. The rest, perhaps, is the emotional damage we have suffered.
Of course, in our life, there are still many people worthy of our association. They are kind and honest, clean and tidy, and don't know how to be petty, and so on. Making friends with such people, we can not only feel at ease, but also get along with "a friendship between gentlemen is as light as water" and get rid of pressure, burden and distress in our lives. So, these people, like a cup of aromatic alcohol? Friend's wine? We should cherish it, communicate well and savor it.