1, making friends is not flattery, making friends is not blasphemy-I ching

Analysis: associate with people with high status, not flattering; Associate with people with low status, don't be proud and neglect. This is a rule in interpersonal communication. No matter how a person develops, he must first maintain self-independence, and an independent person must be humble and maintain a polite and confident manner in interpersonal communication. However, for thousands of years, how many people can be unappreciative and arrogant?

2, if you get it, you will have three friends, and if you lose it, you will have three friends. Friends are frank, friends forgive and friends listen more, which is beneficial. Friends make friends, friendly and gentle, and friends make friends, which is harmful and useless-The Analects of Confucius

Analysis: There are three kinds of beneficial friends and three kinds of harmful friends. It is beneficial to make honest friends, honest friends and knowledgeable friends. It is harmful to make friends with flatterers, people who flatter but hurt others behind their backs, and people who are good at rhetoric. Choosing friends is a science. Stay away from bad friends and walk with good friends, and your life will be more exciting.

3. Once you die, you will know friendship; A poor and rich, even a state of intercourse; One is expensive and the other is cheap, but friendship is visible-Historical Records

Analysis: Only in do or die can we see the depth of friendship; Only when the rich and the poor are different and their status is very different can the authenticity of friendship be tested. A pair of friends, one is faced with a dilemma between life and death, and the other has a stable life. The attitude of the latter towards the former reflects their true friendship. One is rich and generous, the other is poor and sad, and the relationship between them can show the authenticity of friendship; One is noble and the other is lowly. The contact between them can show the innocence of friendship.

4. People who pay with money will pay for it; Be friends with color, China fall, love Chongqing-Warring States policy

Analysis: friends who make money, when the money is used up, the friendship will come to an end; Friends made by beautiful women will become sour when they get older. This sentence warns people not to make friends with money and color. "A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water", and true friendship cannot be measured by money and beauty.

5. There is no distinction between old and young in life. Why do you have to get along first? -Du Fu

Analysis: When you are alive, you don't have to care about your age to make friends, and you don't have to ask for the same interests from the beginning. There is a saying that knowing each other is more important, and knowing each other is more important than knowing each other. Age is not an obstacle to communicating with close friends, and interest can be cultivated slowly. Besides, why should we pay attention to other secular things?