Everything must be done in a proper way. How about making friends? First light and then thick, first sparse and then close. Arrive first and get closer later, this is the way to make friends. To make friends, first be light and then strong, first be distant and then get close, first be in contact and then get to know each other. This is the correct way to make friends.
It is human nature that if the taste is light at first and then strong, it will feel good and tasty. If it is strong first and then light, it will feel that it is not as good as before and tasteless. When interacting with people, they are very close at first, but often as time goes by, the relationship will gradually fade away and the relationship will gradually become distant. It is better to be more distant at the beginning, and as the understanding gradually deepens, the relationship gradually warms up, and the relationship becomes closer. The most important thing about friends is knowing each other. Some people are naturally familiar with each other and are naturally good at dancing. As soon as they meet a stranger, they talk heart-to-heart about everything. Only after full contact can people have a deeper understanding and establish an unbreakable friendship. Trying to reach a level of intimacy all at once will often backfire.
Knowing to stop can then be able to calm down, and after being calm, one can be at peace. When doing anything, it is very important to grasp the degree and grasp it. Not knowing how to advance or retreat, not knowing where to go, not knowing when to slow down, when to stop, and when to slow down the pace is a very dangerous thing. It doesn’t mean just rushing forward blindly, it means being 100% correct. The famous poet Mu Xin once sang in a low voice: In the past, cars and horses were slow. In fact, sometimes slowing down is also a kind of enjoyment of life. If you want to get the gifts of nature, you have to slow down appropriately, go to the mountain stream to listen to the sound of running water, go to the pine forest to listen to the bursts of pine waves, go to the top of the mountain to appreciate the mountains and small mountains, and go to the beach by the sea to feel the fine details. The sand caresses the soles of your feet, and you can watch the ebb and flow of the sea, the rolling waves, and the majestic force of the waves emptying. Only when your mind is calm can you truly enjoy the love and blessings of nature.
?The order in which things are done is very important. If the order is shifted, the timing and steps are misaligned or reversed, things will often go wrong. Doing the right thing determines that we will not deviate from the right direction. Doing things correctly is the bridge and ship that guarantees whether we can successfully achieve our preset goals. If you don't pay attention to the way you do things, your hard work will be in vain, and you will spend a lot of effort but not achieve good results. Pay attention to the temporal and spatial order of things, analyze and judge in detail, and decide the steps and order of doing things. What to do first, what to do next, and what to do last must be orderly and orderly. It must be considered, planned, planned, and arranged in advance, and it must be adjusted in a timely manner based on the specific circumstances during the advancement process. Instead of not planning in advance before things happen, and then improvising when things happen, causing confusion, confusion, and an extremely passive dilemma.