"good-looking"
The so-called "good-looking" is the first impression you get when you meet a stranger for the first time. We all know that first impressions are important. Make a good impression on each other, especially let them remember you in the shortest time. Then our own appearance and behavior are very important; We should pay attention to our own connotation, self-cultivation and so on, which can not be cultivated overnight, and we need to develop good habits in our daily life.
"two sets of clothes"
The so-called "two sets of clothes" means what kind of clothes you should wear on any occasion, and your clothes should be suitable for the environment at that time. "Two sets of clothes" also tells us to be easy-going, to improvise and not to copy mechanically.
"Three glasses of wine"
The so-called "three glasses of wine" means that a person can't drink, and interpersonal relationships are not easy to handle. A person should be able to drink, but not too much; Moderate amount can shorten the distance between people, but excessive amount will lead to "drunkenness"; Moderate drinking is good for health and interpersonal relationships.
"Four rounds of mahjong"
The so-called "four rounds of mahjong" means that a person's hobbies should be extensive, and you should be able to play whatever he says and does. You must know what he likes, but you don't have to be proficient. For example, if people talk to you about the latest sports news, you just don't like sports and you don't understand. Others say that you can only be a monk. This is also called "fishing for big fish with a long line".
"five parties make friends"
The so-called "five parties make friends" means "five parties in the southeast and northwest". You can't exclude making friends. You never know what kind of friends you need, what kind of people you associate with and to what extent. You must have a sense of proportion, but you can't exclude making friends with him.
"Six out of Qishan"
We all know that "six trips out of Qishan" means that Zhuge Liang went out of Qishan to attack Wei, knowing that he could not do it. The so-called "six out of Qishan" means that one of us promised others and promised others. Although you can't do it, you should try your best. We are asked to ask only if it is possible, and less if it is possible, knowing that nothing in the world is impossible.
"Seven Skills to Beat a Horse"
"Skill": magic, different ways: "Beating a horse": flattery. "Beat the horse seven skills" is to praise your boss's decision in front of people, but tell him what is not desirable behind his back alone; In other words, 70% is flattery and 30% is sincere advice.
"Eight boasts"
The so-called "eight bragging" means that if a person doesn't brag, then others won't know what you have done; If one person exaggerates too much, everyone will have no trust in you; So it is ok to exaggerate your contribution a little, but it is not good to exaggerate your ability too much. When a person talks about others, exaggerating others appropriately means exaggerating himself; Two people go out to do business and report to their superiors. I praise him as soon as I say it, and he praises me as soon as he says it, so we are both magnified, so people have to praise us. After some ex-relationships, people need to be praised, and credit is pushed around.
The so-called "nine-point effort" means that we should work hard, be diligent, study hard and improve our ability.
"Very patient"
The so-called "great patience" requires a person to have endurance and endurance. If a person has no patience, then the first nine are equal to zero.
I think everything has two sides. People can't make everyone like themselves, and friends should choose what they like. So people who like you will think that you are a straightforward person and naturally understand that you are out of control occasionally. As for people who don't like you, no matter what you do, you can still find out the "thorn". Anyway, don't care too much. Of course, it's best to control it a little. Well, it's better to laugh more.
Social interpersonal relationship is very important now. If others think you are easy to get along with, you have to have your own attitude, that is, smile. Of course, when encountering problems of principle, we must have our own persistence. Smiling doesn't mean compromise. Smiling is a coping style.