Rely on your parents at home and rely on your friends when you go out. Friends are a part of life. There is a saying that goes well: "A person without friends is only half a person." So what kind of person can be regarded as a true friend? Asens once came to the foot of the Alps and met several gods. The gods said: "Asia "Son, have you ever had a friend?" Yasun said, "Yes, he loves me more than he loves himself." This sentence angered the gods, and they decided to kill Yasun's friend, so they asked him. Who is the friend? Asens saw the god's intention and kept it secret. The gods took out their treasures to seduce Asens, promising that he would have an extremely beautiful wife, become an extremely majestic king, and so on. All this failed to impress Yassens. But the gods with incomparable supernatural powers still caught the friend of Asens, but they did not kill him immediately. They did not quite believe what Asens said, so they used the same method to seduce Asens's friend, as long as he betrayed Asens. Sunsi, he will get everything he wants: beauty, wealth, power. Like Asens, this friend was not moved at all. The gods were both envious and ashamed. None of the gods tried to kill them and quietly lowered them down the mountain. Yassens said: "We are loyal and trust each other, and nothing is more important than our friendship."
Environment and friends have a great impact on our lives. It can be said that no matter what kind of friends we make, Friends, what fate will there be. Therefore, you must be careful when choosing friends, and do not make friends who are harmful to you, so as not to be dragged into muddy waters by them. Make friends with people like Asia and his friends. Their kind of loyal friendship is a real friendship, their kind of loyal friends are a real friend.
Sailing sometimes requires abandoning ship, and life sometimes requires abandoning friends. Both are extraordinary actions. If you make a wrong choice when making friends, or if your friend's personality changes, then there will be a problem of how to change from a friend to a non-friend, and abandoning a friend will not be possible. Therefore, you need to be careful when making friends and put more thought into it.
A louse lived in the rich man's bed all year round. Because it sucked blood slowly and gently, the rich man never noticed it. One day, a flea visited the tick. The louse is completely indifferent to the flea's temperament, the purpose of its visit, and whether it may be harmful to itself. It simply welcomes the flea. It also took the initiative to introduce to the flea: "This rich man's blood is sweet, the bed is soft, and you can have a good meal tonight!" The flea was drooling, wishing it would get dark soon.
When the rich man fell asleep, the impatient flea immediately jumped on him and bit him hard. The rich man woke up from his dream and ordered his servants to search him angrily. The clever flea jumped away, and the slowly crawling louse became the scapegoat for the uninvited guest. The lice will die without knowing the source of this disaster.
Therefore, when choosing friends, you should strive to associate with those who are optimistic, enterprising, noble and talented, so as to ensure that you have a good living environment and get good results. Food for thought and sincere help from friends. This is what Confucius meant when he said, "He who has no friends is worse than himself."
On the contrary, if you choose your friends carelessly and make friends with people who have negative thoughts, low character, and bad behavior, you will fall into such a bad environment and be unable to extricate yourself, and you may even be implicated by "evil friends" , becoming an innocent suffering "lice".
Making friends is still difficult, especially after entering the society, when all kinds of different people gather together, it is not as simple as imagined. Therefore, you must be careful when making friends, watch them with a cold eye, and make deep friends only after confirming your character.
We must know our choices when making friends. Especially when we want to make real friends, we should narrow the circle. Mr. Lu Xun once said: "One confidant is enough in life." We Don't just treat everyone as your confidant without any choice.