So why are some children very vulnerable to school bullying in their lives? Why do some children just bully others? In fact, this has little to do with the children themselves and a lot to do with the parents. Some children have such a character, which is entirely caused by their parents.
If we want to protect our children from school bullying, the most important thing is to improve parents' education methods for their children. Most of these children's personalities are caused by their parents.
introverted
Some children are introverted and unwilling to communicate with others. They always live in their own world and always feel that the outside world is dangerous and outsiders will bully them. The more they think like this, in fact, outsiders will bully them, because they are out of tune with the world and the class and other children, so they will be bullied by others.
So how did this child's character come about? It is very important for parents to educate their children in a repressive way. No matter what their children do, whether right or wrong, parents will criticize them.
For such parents, they never encourage their children. They always feel that if they encourage or praise their children, they will go with the flow and find their own direction, but if they are suppressed, they will make them healthier.
Even some parents have a mental illness, which is to suppress their children for fun. If their children have a bad life or don't have enough trust in themselves, they will feel very proud. Most of these parents are in real life, life is not very satisfactory, they don't earn much money and have no right to be outside. They always look at other people's glances, so they take pleasure in suppressing their children at home and hope that they will bow to themselves.
So if we don't want our children to become like this, then parents should learn one thing, that is, to make friends with their children, so that they can be confident and cheerful in life, encourage more and suppress less.
Kindness in heart and low emotional intelligence.
Some children are bullied because they are kind. Others bully them, they won't resist, and then their emotional intelligence is very low. They are always stupid when they do something wrong.
We can't deny that in real life, some children are slower than others' children, that is, slower than others' children, but this is not terrible. The terrible thing is that parents always attack their children. When children do something wrong, they will impose terrible punishment on them, such as closing a small dark room and kneeling and flogging. When the child's psychology causes a certain panic, others will bully him again, so he will not dare to resist, so he will be bullied.
Therefore, in the process of educating children, don't use violence, educate children in some written forms and ways as much as possible, and children will be able to correct their mistakes when they know it. Who wants not to make mistakes when he is young? If you always use violence, then children will be influenced by you and use violence, or they will be bullied by others and dare not resist.
Inner inferiority
In fact, some children are bullied by others because they are different from other children. For example, if there are any physical defects, some children will be bullied by other children if they can't hear or see.
Often these children feel inferior in their hearts and feel that they should not live in this world without being bullied by God. So they are always afraid of being bullied by others, never dare to resist, and always please others.
For children, they simply don't know how to tell right from wrong in this world, so when they meet a person who is always bullying others but dare not resist, they will become bolder and bully the child more.
So when your children are children with physical defects, you should take care of them more. Physical defects are not important for children's growth, the most important thing is psychological defects. When a child's psychology is not perfect, it will produce psychological distortion and even endanger society.
Even if you are in poor health, you can still be a great writer and rich man, but if you are mentally unhealthy, then you will not be recognized by everyone.
In short, in the process of educating children, parents must set an example and strive to show their perfect self in front of their children. When we do these things, even if our children are affected by school bullying, they will lend us a helping hand. To deal with the school bullying incident, we must first discover the school bullying incident. Because the bullied person is physically and mentally threatened by the bully, bullying incidents often occur in forgotten or neglected corners, and it is not easy for teachers and parents to find the school bullying incident. Some bullied people even defend their bullies for fear of retaliation, which makes it more difficult for those who find school bullying. And often at this time, the bullied person has been deeply hurt.