But everyone has the right to choose. Your meeting and becoming friends are beautiful memories in your eyes, but they may not be unique to her. She may be so kind to everyone, just because you met her for the first time, so you think she is special. You like singing, dancing and playing the piano very much. You want to make friends with her. You think that if you spend so much time with her, she should pay attention to you, but from this point of view, you are too self-centered.
A friend needs constant care, and you need to understand her feelings, which is almost considerate.
Don't you think you are too close to her? If you don't have any problems, you will only chat with new friends. Of course, I think your idea is too arbitrary, because no one will be particularly kind to a person except for special reasons. With the decrease of meeting times, she met new people and things in her spare time. She is as kind to the people she wants to make good friends as she is to you, isn't she?
Friends need their own time. Even if you are her friend, you can't occupy all her time. Maybe you think that abortion didn't really get in touch with her, but it was your friend's choice. She has the freedom to choose, you need to give her your own rights. Because you are not her, you have no right to choose for her, do you?
If you are going to save her, please increase communication with her, distribute food in peacetime through some things, try to enter her circle of friends, chat more, and try to make yourself better. If you can have more topics with her, then she will gradually take the initiative to come to you and your circle of friends will become wider, so that you can gradually become close friends.