I really dare not think about this topic, but it is out of tune with my life! But I often meet! ! ! Really annoying! ! Many people call me stupid, including my family. Am I really out of place with everyone? Now sum up my shortcomings: 1. Kindness: always take what others say as true. When you see a beggar, you have to pay. Is considered stupid! ! "I dare to stop, that beggar is richer than you!" I trust my friends most and often play with them. God, this is the last thing I want to admit. Careless friends! I am still thinking that my stupidity is kindness, and I don't want to admit that I am really stupid. Once I have no job, no mountain and no money, my influential friends are certainly far away from me now. I didn't accept this fact until today. You are useless to these people! Don't treat yourself like an onion, no one will treat your friendship as a meal! I'd better ignore such people in the future. Or spend more time with real friends. Or educate your son not to influence others! 2. Speak straight, which is a 100% disadvantage! But I'm over 30 years old, and I can't change it ~ ~ ~ I get angry when I look at the way people in good units talk and do things. On the surface, I am very kind to you, and there are a lot of shady things. All these people you want to mess with are finished. Make sure that no one in the whole city speaks well of you, even if you jump into the Yellow River, you can't wash it off ~ ~ ~ ~, so it's hard to live. Relax, don't mess with them. When you meet such people, try to beat around the bush, and it's best not to talk, because straight people will have flaws. Some people specialize in catching people's braids, so she can do something for you if it's okay. The same sentence, if you think it is a good word, people will give you publicity for nothing. So the best way is to be yourself. Try not to speak your mind to others, especially to speak ill of others, let alone to anyone. If you feel really uncomfortable, come and blog. This is where you really belong. Or you are really sick! ! Stupid people always look at the new world with a bunch of outdated things. Now I feel that my morality is "behind the times", as if everyone treats me as a different kind. Also, try not to tell the truth to your family, it will hurt people. After a long time, it will affect the feelings of family members and even get worse. Let others say whatever they like to hear. Because you are not the perfect marriage partner. Don't think that you will pay more for your family if you don't work. Don't make this your home. Speak loudly. It's ok at first, but it won't work after a long time. When your husband's wings are hard and he knows more, he will despise you, so you should reflect on yourself and be your own little woman. If you want to "go out" at this time, your husband will catch you "restless" Of course, these are only for bad men, and good men don't do this to their beloved women. But no matter how good a man is, he has an influential eye. Our women should also add some diplomatic means to themselves. It is impossible to just look after the children. Men have great needs, especially when they think they are capable, beyond your ordinary ability. It is difficult to control my emotions when I am angry, which I will never change in my life. Maybe it has something to do with my lack of time in society. I've never really been angry. The most unbearable thing is anger. It belongs to the kind that ten cows can't pull back, so after a long time, people who love me no longer love me. I know that day is my death ~ ~ ~ Now I dare not quarrel with others, because no matter who I am angry with, the only one who gets hurt in the end is myself ~ ~ I am the most incompetent person. I write this because I just had a fight with my husband, and the day when he dares to hit me will be the beginning of separation ~ ~ ~ I swear! ! What's so great about men!