I feel your disappointment in life, your parents' handling style, your friends' disappointment, and you are surrounded by negative energy. If you want to struggle out, you can't find a way. Here, I will ask for your opinions on the platform and give you a compliment. I'll give you some advice, hoping to help you.

first, about good friends.

I know from your statement that you had a good friend before, but we separated because of high school. So you lost such a good friend. Here I want to say that good friends have no boundaries between time and distance. Now you are separated briefly, because you can't be together for academic reasons. When you graduate, you will still have the opportunity to work in a city. If you still regard him as your close friend, you can still communicate with her by phone or video, chat with her and share your happiness and unhappiness. Discuss and study together, and study topics together. In today's developed society, distance is not a problem.

in your statement, you mentioned that you have made a friend now, but because you think he is so kind to everyone, another classmate took her away from you, and you don't want to get her back. Here you may think that he is not unique to you, but you regard him as your best friend. So when he leaves you, you will feel a little lost. Friends care about each other, grow and learn from each other. It's not possession, so it's the key to do happy things and meaningful things together, and we can't take one person for ourselves.

So when you lose him here, I suggest that you learn to adjust your emotions. Don't be unkind to you, indifferent to you or careless about you just because he is kind to others. Because everyone is more than just a friend, especially at your age, he will have many friends, but only one or two best friends. You may not be his best friend, but you are also one of her good friends. Besides, you can also make other friends. You can't give all your love to one person, or you will find yourself in such a situation, easily injured, easily lost and easily isolated.

Friends are just a part of our life. You can't put all your hopes on friends, and he can't put all his time and energy on one person. Therefore, you should understand more, make more friends for yourself, and let yourself do more things, so that you won't focus on one person.

second, about parents.

Every parent loves their children. Parents will try their best to meet your requirements, but sometimes it is beyond their ability. They need to spend more time and energy to deal with the problems you are facing. When their ability reaches the limit, they will also be helpless and complain a little. We usually work very hard, and they have to take time to take care of you. We have grown up and need to understand more.

Sometimes, the closer we are to people, the more contradictions we have. If we change, we can get along well with people close to us and communicate more. Don't reject your parents just because they are not satisfied with one thing. Now you can communicate with them more about the problems you encounter at school. Maybe their handling methods are not perfect, but their starting point is for your better.

third, about your own emotions.

Now is high school, and it is also a stage that we are eager for knowledge. Making friends is a compulsory course in our life growth, but not all courses. You have only met one of the small plates now, and there will be many similar things in the future. We can't go through this hurdle! You said you didn't have any friends to share with you. Think about it. If you want to share or talk, you don't necessarily need friends. Even if a friend is willing to listen to you, can you guarantee that she can keep your secret?

So, we can talk in another way, such as keeping a diary, reading small animals, and exercising ... These are all ways to talk, vent, decompress and discharge inner anguish. High school is the key point to decide whether you can get into a good university. You should learn to focus on your studies, no matter how unhappy you are now, it is a catalyst to help you study hard.