1, Gu Cun doesn't feel sorry for himself, but still wants to defend his country. (Lu You's November 4th storm)
2, why don't you take Wu Gou, Guanshan fifty states. (Li He's "South Garden")
3. If you live in a high temple, you will worry about the people, and if you are far away, you will worry about your husband. Worry about the world first, and enjoy it later. (Fan Zhongyan's "Yueyang Tower")
4, but make Longcheng fly, don't teach Huma to spend Yinshan. (Wang Changling's "Out of the Plug")
5, if you want to eliminate disasters for saints, you must be willing to decline and cherish your old age. (Han Yu's "Moving Left to Qing Guan Xian Grandnephew")
Basic introduction:
Meaning of self-esteem: self-esteem means self-respect, that is, neither bowing to others nor allowing others to discriminate or insult. It is a healthy and good mental state.
The meaning of self-reliance: self-reliance is to do your own thing well.
Significance of self-improvement: A person who constantly strives for self-improvement must be full of hope for the future. Self-improvement is a spirit and a beautiful moral quality, which plays a great role in a person's growth.
2. The famous saying about self-care 1, learning everything must be determined first. Said by: quotations from Zhu.
For a century-long plan, we must put our determination first.
2. Nothing ventured, nothing gained? From: The Book of the Later Han Dynasty
Nothing ventured, nothing gained?
3, unruly, no square garden. From: Mencius
You can't be square without compasses and square rulers.
4. Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road. From: Liu Yi's Essays on Painting Zen Rooms, Volume II.
Reading thousands of books is like taking Wan Li Road.
5. if you do more injustice, you will hang yourself. From: Zuo Zhuan
If you do many unfriendly things, you will be punished.
6. Everything is prepared (pre-planned), and it is useless without preparation (pre-planned). From The Book of Rites
Planning in advance is bound to succeed, and not preparing in advance is bound to fail.
7. If a worker wants to do a good job, he must sharpen his tools first. Excerpt from The Analects of Confucius
If you want tools to do a good job, you must sharpen them first.
8, the difference is one millimeter, and the difference is a thousand miles. the Book of the Han Dynasty
If you miss a dime, you will miss a thousand miles.
9. I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I am only on this mountain. Song and Su Shi's "Title of Xilin Wall"
I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but I am on this mountain.
10, a gentleman would rather die than surrender. From Beiqi Book
A gentleman would rather die than die.
Extended data
People's ability to take care of themselves. Generally, it includes: being able to handle daily chores by yourself, such as cooking, eating, sanitation, shopping, learning and so on. In interpersonal relationships, I can handle personnel relations well and handle some affairs independently. Mentally, I can bear all kinds of pressures alone. Be able to think independently and understand independently in learning.
Let children establish self-care consciousness. This is the starting point of cultivating children's ideological self-care. To cultivate children's self-care ability, we must first let children establish self-care consciousness, let them know that it is disgraceful to do their own things and let others do it for themselves. With this awareness of self-care, children can be motivated to act consciously.
The famous saying about self-care must be confirmed first.
(Zhu) The sword is sharpened, and the plum blossom is bitter and cold. Put pen to paper shocks the wind and rain, and poetry becomes tears.
(Du Fu) Don't cut the illusory body and be elegant, but learn from it. (Du Fu) He has a broad vision and makes good appointments with people, but he has accumulated a lot.
(Su Shi) erudite, interrogative, thoughtful, discerning and persistent. (Book of Rites) You don't know the height of the sky unless you climb the mountain. Don't face the deep stream, I don't know the thickness of the ground.
("Xunzi") If you don't fly, you will fly to heaven; If you don't sing, it will be a blockbuster. (Sima Qian) Don't worry about people who don't know themselves, but don't know people.
(Confucius) Nothing ventured, nothing gained? (Han Shu) If you don't stop, you can't stop. (Han Yu) I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but toward which corner of the mountain.
(Su Shi) Not afraid of clouds covering his eyes, he reached the peak. (Wang Anshi) If you don't obey the rules, you won't be Fiona Fang.
(Mencius) After C picked flowers and melted honey, he worked hard for whom and was sweet for whom. (Luoyin) Actually, the granary knows the etiquette, but you don't know the honor or disgrace until you have enough to eat and wear warm clothes.
("Pipe") Fuck a thousand songs and then sound, watch a thousand swords and then recognize the device. (Liu Xie) Look at yourself and you can know people; If you look at today, you can know the past.
("Lu Chunqiu") A tiny difference is a thousand miles away. (Hanshu) One day, I will ride the wind and waves, sail straight up and cross the deep sea.
(Li Bai) Just because I have a magnet in my heart doesn't mean that the South won't rest. (Wen Tianxiang) By the shipwreck, Qian Fan crossed, before the diseased tree, Wan Muchun crossed.
(Liu Yuxi) Once you eat it, you gain wisdom. (Old proverb) Short feet, long inches.
But before he conquered, he died (Qu Yuan) and made the hero cry. (Du Fu) Silkworms in spring have to spin until they die, and candles have to drain the wick every night.
(Li Shangyin) The spring breeze is full of horseshoe diseases, and you can see all the Chang 'an flowers in one day. (Meng Jiao) Spring can't close the garden, but an almond goes out of the wall.
(Ye Shaoweng) A spring night is worth a thousand dollars. (Su Shi) Good is like Deng, and evil is like collapse.
(Mandarin) D A gentleman would rather die than surrender. If you are straightforward, if you are smart, if you are clumsy, if you are argumentative.
Be loyal to your art, you don't know your age, and let wealth and fame drift like clouds. (Du Fu) I wish people a long life.
(Su Shi) When it is interrupted, it will be chaotic. ("Hanshu") The authorities are confused, but the bystanders are clear.
(The Book of the New Tang Dynasty) Those who gain the Tao help more, while those who lose it help less. (Mencius) Mountaineering is full of emotion, while watching the sea is full of meaning.
(Liu Xie sunrise in the east and rain in the west, the road is sunny but sunny. (Liu Yuxi) Never tired of reading, revealing its meaning.
("The History of the Three Kingdoms") Reading has broken thousands of volumes, and writing is like a god. (Du Fu) The method of reading is step by step, and practice makes perfect.
(Zhu) Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road. (Liu Yi) If you do more injustice, you will hang yourself.
(Zuo zhuan) Ercao's name is destroyed and he does not waste rivers and mountains. (Du Fu) F Everything is prepared (planned in advance) to be established, and everything is prepared (planned in advance) to be abolished.
(Book of Rites) It's better to defend against people's mouths than against Sichuan. (Putonghua) Without learning and skills, without learning and skills, nothing can be achieved.
(Zhuge Liang) The wind blows and the water cools, and the strong men are gone forever. ("Warring States Policy") Wealth can't be lewd, poverty can't be moved, and powerful people can't be bent.
(Mencius) G felt that he wanted to serve his country, so he drew his sword and opened Artemisia. (Chen Ziang) When the mountain rose, the scenery stopped.
(The Book of Songs) If a worker wants to do a good job, he must sharpen his tools first. (Confucius) In ancient times, people who achieved great things not only had talent, but also had persistent determination.
(Su Shi) The audience is a good craftsman and the audience is a good doctor. Time flies, the sun and the moon fly like a shuttle.
(Ming's "Augmented Xianwen") The Yangtze River flows eastward, and the waves wash away the heroes. (Romance of the Three Kingdoms) H The sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high and birds fly.
However, as long as China keeps our friendship, heaven will remain our neighbor. (Wang Bo) The moon is in the sky, and the horizon is * * * at this time.
(Zhang Jiuling) Like the strong wind in spring, it blows at night and blows away the petals of ten thousand pear trees. (Cen Can) Once you climb to the top of the mountain, you will see that all the other mountains look small under the sky. ..
(Du Fu) Misfortune is a blessing; Happiness is in the pot. ("Laozi") J Don't do to others what you don't want.
(The Analects of Confucius) Listening is clear, but favoritism is dark. It's never too late to see a rabbit love a dog. It is never too late to mend.
(Warring States Policy) Being brave is not brave. ("The Analects of Confucius") Jiangshan has produced talents, each leading the way for hundreds of years.
(Zhao Yi) Nothing but gold and jade is defeat. (Liu Ji) You get the moon first when you are near the water tower, and flowers and trees are easy to turn in spring.
(Surin) The people near Zhu Zhechi are black. (Fu Xuan) A broken mirror does not change its luster, and a dead orchid does not change its fragrance.
(Meng Jiao) Kyushu's anger depends on the wind and thunder, and a thousand horses are sad. I advise God to cheer up and not stick to certain norms to belittle more people.
(Gong Zizhen) Do your best and die. (Zhuge Liang's "Model") When the country was in trouble, he died suddenly.
(Cao Zhi) A gentleman's adult beauty is not an adult's evil. (The Analects of Confucius) an upright man is open and poised, the villain is worried.
(Confucius) A gentleman cares about Tao but not poverty. (The Analects of Confucius) A friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, but a friendship between villains is as sweet as water.
("Zhuangzi") L is old and strong, and I would rather know the heart of a white head; Poverty is strong, not falling into the sky. (Wang Bo) The old man crouches tiger, hides dragon, and aims at a thousand miles.
The martyrs were full of courage in their later years. (Cao Cao) The Pear Flower Garden melts the moon, and the catkin pond is breezy.
(Yan Shu) A flowing water does not rot, and a family does not fly. (Lv Chunqiu) Today, Xiu Yuan has a long road, and I will go up and down to find it.
(Qu Yuan) Lu Yao knows horsepower and sees people's hearts for a long time. (Yuanqu asks for gratitude) Falling red is not heartless, but turning into spring mud protects flowers more.
(Gong Zizhen) Sunset and lonely Qi Fei, autumn waters and sky are the same color. (Wang Bo) M is full of losses and meager gains.
(Shangshu) The snow in Mei Xu Xun is white, but the snow has lost a piece of Mei Xiang. (Luo Meipo) Decadence has no beginning, but fresh talents have an end.
(The Book of Songs) Sensitive and studious, not ashamed to ask questions. (Confucius) There is no confidant before Mo Chou, and everyone knows you.
(Gao Shi) It's late in Sang Yu, and the twilight is still full of sky. (rachel) Don't be idle, don't be sad! (Yue Fei) The forest is beautiful, and the wind will be destroyed.
(Old Tang Book) n A little green and a little red, not much touching spring scenery. (Wang Anshi) If P skin doesn't exist, how can hair be attached? (Zuozhuan) Mayflies shake trees, which is ridiculous.
(Han Yu) q Its Lego is harmonious and sparse. (Song Yu) Just don't make it; His body is not straight, although he disobeys.
(The Analects of Confucius) Appreciation, doubt and analysis of strange essays. (Tao Yuanming) There are countless ups and downs throughout the ages.
(Xin Qiji) A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. (Lao Tzu) Before me, where was the past era? Behind me, where are the future generations? .
Only the boundless universe, boundless, can't stop the tears full of sadness. (Chen Ziang) The lessons of the past are the lessons of the future.
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4. The famous saying about self-care 0 1 If you make a mistake, you must honestly admit it-sophistry and blame will only harm yourself.
Keep friends at arm's length-only in this way can friendship last. 03. Money pursues people, and people pursue health-with health, are you still afraid of not making money? 04. Don't change careers easily-it's risky to change careers, so it's best not to act rashly.
05. Moderately improve social status-in the job market, people are also a commodity. Turn dedication into a habit-for yourself in the long run.
07. Expand assets by accumulation-not fast, not too much, not intermittently. 08. Be patient for a while and fight for the future. When you are better than others, you must be patient.
09. Life is worse than death, which is a win-win situation and healthy competition. 10. Manage interpersonal relationships with the mentality of "sowing"-the earlier seeds are sown, the tougher they are.
1 1. Don't act rashly-acting rashly will only harm yourself. 12. When you meet a devil-type supervisor-accepting his training can make your character more and more tough.
13. Don't argue with the supervisor in public-it will leave you no choice but to leave. 14. Learn new knowledge from people in different industries-remember, ask questions.
15. All difficulties are good-this is God tempering you, with the aim of giving you the heavy responsibility. 16. Do things with the mentality that losing is taking advantage-then you can grow rapidly.
17.0 don't talk about your pride in front of frustrated people-it will hurt your interpersonal relationship. 18. Don't underestimate punctuality-punctuality is a respect for others.
19. judge people by time-time is the master of inspection. 20. Look at people by asking questions-you can get to know that person by summarizing the information you get.
2 1. Create a friend file-lest others use it and hate it less. 22. Expand your circle of friends-take the initiative and don't wait for others to come to you.
23. Be flexible in making friends-enemies can also become friends. 24. Call a friend who likes to "fix" you-such a friend is your life coach.
25. Self-recommendation has many advantages-let others see you, know your existence and know your ability. 26. Beware of the sudden warming of friendship-the correct attitude towards this friendship is: don't push and say hello, but reciprocate.
27. Be the second child, not the boss-the boss is not good, and it is easy to become the third child and the fourth child. 28. Be a suitable person-the purpose is to win the respect and trust of others.
29. Exchange "material benefits" for "human benefits"-"material benefits" are temporary and "human benefits" are long-term. 30. Don't monopolize glory-if you monopolize glory today, you may monopolize the bitter fruit tomorrow.
3 1. Find a "food and clothing parent"-that person can reduce your groping time. 32. Find an opponent to follow-follow him and eventually surpass him.
33. Sit patiently on the bench-you are already sitting on the bench. What is there to be afraid of? 34. Apply other people's successful models-other people's successful models can be a guide and give you a direction to follow. 35. secretly think of yourself as a boss or supervisor-gradually cultivate your ability to become a boss or supervisor.
36. Don't be satisfied with the small achievements in front of you-ask yourself: Is this my life? 37. Make yourself an expert in your field as soon as possible-just work hard and grind it into a needle. 38. Don't have ideas that don't meet your talents-you don't meet your talents mostly because of yourself.
39. If you fall, you must get up-if you don't get up, others will look down on you and you will lose the opportunity. 40. Don't make excuses for failure-you should face the failure directly and find out the reason quickly.
4 1. Change the environment or change yourself-it is better to change yourself than to change the environment. 42. Don't fight uncertain battles-life can't afford to be wasted again and again.
43. Think of yourself as your daily homework-because you are not perfect, you will say the wrong thing and do the wrong thing. 44. When keeping a low profile, encourage yourself-don't beg or expect others to encourage you.
45. Rely on other people's intelligence to do things-a person's ability is limited. 46. Always have a sense of crisis-don't feel that your life is good and lucky.
47. The leading role and supporting role can be played, and both the stage and the stage are comfortable-in the face of life, you should practice flexible personality. Learn to control your emotions-this is one of the most important signs of maturity.
49. Be a tortoise, not a rabbit-people with rabbit qualifications are prone to pride, and pride will become a stumbling block on the road to success. 50. Do small things first, make small money first-accumulate experience for making big money.
5 1. Don't let past failures tie your hands and feet, otherwise you will never achieve great things. 52. Live like a cockroach-if people have the same resilience as cockroaches, what life can't be lived? 53. Depend on strength, not faction-faction is not forever, and strength is what you can rely on for a lifetime.
54. shine by yourself, don't wait for others to polish you-who has the time and mood to "polish" you seriously? 55. Open the road on the mountain and bridge the bridge when encountering water-learn to do what you like. 56. Always run ahead of subordinates-both power-based leaders and friendship-based leaders are not as good as ability-based leaders.
57. "The new official takes office with three fires"-tell others loudly: I am coming. 58. It's only 50 cents, not 1 dollar-you can only get a dollar once.
59. Put down the shelf, the road will get wider and wider-the shelf will only bind your hands and feet. 60. Don't speak too well-the purpose is to leave room for accidents to avoid failure.
6 1. Praise others more-you can make people happy without spending money. Why not? 62. Respect the territorial scope of others-don't cause unnecessary trouble because of negligence. Don't show your frustration easily-lest people think you are weak.
64. The principle of interpersonal relationship is: what you give up, what you get-you satisfy the other person, and the other person will satisfy you. 65. Don't ignore that the problem of losing face is the most likely to cause right and wrong.
66. Properly handle the relationship with the villain-don't cling to him or offend him. 67. It's best not to block other people's money-it's best not to block other people's money.
68. Keep a low profile to resolve others' jealousy-jealousy is a fire that will burn a person to death. You don't have to do everything yourself-there will always be people who are dissatisfied with you.
70. Know and use selfishness in human nature-try to use the selfishness of others to make profits for yourself. 7 1. Follow Mao and he will listen to you-even a person with a big temper, a deep talent and a strong personality can't afford it.
72. It's too late to push with positive actions-stick to it.
5. Take care of yourself.
(Zhu) The sword is sharpened, and the plum blossom is bitter and cold. Put pen to paper shocks the wind and rain, and poetry becomes tears.
(Du Fu) Don't cut the illusory body and be elegant, but learn from it. (Du Fu) He has a broad vision and makes good appointments with people, but he has accumulated a lot.
(Su Shi) erudite, interrogative, thoughtful, discerning and persistent. (Book of Rites) You don't know the height of the sky unless you climb the mountain. Don't face the deep stream, I don't know the thickness of the ground.
("Xunzi") If you don't fly, you will fly to heaven; If you don't sing, it will be a blockbuster. (Sima Qian) Don't worry about people who don't know themselves, but don't know people.
(Confucius) Nothing ventured, nothing gained? (Han Shu) If you don't stop, you can't stop. (Han Yu) I don't know the true face of Lushan Mountain, but toward which corner of the mountain.
(Su Shi) Not afraid of clouds covering his eyes, he reached the peak. (Wang Anshi) If you don't obey the rules, you won't be Fiona Fang.
(Mencius) After a hundred flowers blossom into honey, work hard for whoever you are sweet for. (Luoyin) Actually, the granary knows the etiquette, but you don't know the honor or disgrace until you have enough to eat and wear warm clothes.
("Pipe") Fuck a thousand songs and then sound, watch a thousand swords and then recognize the device. (Liu Xie) Look at yourself and you can know people; If you look at today, you can know the past.
("Lu Chunqiu") A tiny difference is a thousand miles away. (Hanshu) One day, I will ride the wind and waves, sail straight up and cross the deep sea.
(Li Bai) Just because I have a magnet in my heart doesn't mean that the South won't rest. (Wen Tianxiang) By the shipwreck, Qian Fan crossed, before the diseased tree, Wan Muchun crossed.
(Liu Yuxi) Once you eat it, you gain wisdom. (Old proverb) Short feet, long inches.
But before he conquered, he died (Qu Yuan) and made the hero cry. (Du Fu) Silkworms in spring have to spin until they die, and candles have to drain the wick every night.
(Li Shangyin) The spring breeze is full of horseshoe diseases, and you can see all the Chang 'an flowers in one day. (Meng Jiao) Spring can't close the garden, but an almond goes out of the wall.
(Ye Shaoweng) A spring night is worth a thousand dollars. (Su Shi) Good is like Deng, and evil is like collapse.
(Mandarin) A gentleman strives for self-improvement every day. Drop your own sweat and eat your own food. Do your own thing, rely on people and ancestors, not heroes. "
-Tao Xingzhi. When will all rivers enter the sea and return to the west? A lazy youth, a lousy age. (Han Yuefu's "Long Songs") Gao Ming: Generals have no seeds, and men should be self-reliant.
Don: A man must stand on his own feet in order to gain a firm foothold. Zhouyi: A gentleman is always striving for self-improvement.
Qing Jinying: The starting point is self-improvement, and the achievement is sincere and interest-free. Qing Kang Youwei: Self-improvement is the health of the world, and Zhi Gang is the great Wang Zhidao.
Liang Qichao in Qing Dynasty: Self-improvement today, enlightening people's wisdom is the first meaning. Zeng Guofan in Qing Dynasty: Shipbuilding guns is the foundation of China's self-improvement.
Qing Li Hongzhang: The creation of machines is the foundation of resistance and self-improvement today.
6. Self-care of poetry, if good, add if life deceives you.
If life deceives you,
Don't be sad, don't be discouraged!
Be calm when you are upset;
Believe it, a happy day will come.
My heart yearns for the future;
Although very depressed now:
Everything is instantaneous, and everything will pass;
And the past will also become amiable.
-Pushkin
I think I can do it.
If you think you are defeated, you are defeated;
If you don't think you dare, then you retreat;
If you want to win but think you can't;
Then there is no doubt that you will lose.
If you think you lost, you lost;
Because we found that in this world
Success begins with a person's will;
Success is a state of mind.
In the battle of life,
Victory does not always belong to stronger and faster people.
The winner is after all
Someone who thinks he can do it.
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responsible
If the responsibility of the mountain is to keep green.
If the responsibility of the road is to extend the line of sight
Then the responsibility of the family is to warm each other.
Then the responsibility of life is to carry hope.
Responsibility empowers people.
Responsibility has withstood collapse and despair.
Responsibility tells you
There is no threshold to cross for the time being.
So we bleed and sweat.
Just because the responsibility is on the shoulder.
Everything is no longer difficult.
Even occasionally, I am very distressed and sad.
As long as there is responsibility
We are still moving forward calmly.
-Sister Fan Fuyi