I will give you an unequivocal answer to your question: you can definitely make friends with boys, and you can make friends with confidence.

1, human beings are social animals, isolated and helpless, and it is difficult to sing with one hand.

2, opposites attract, human natural law, eternal natural law, heaven! You must uphold justice for God! Hey hey!

3. In society, human beings face two kinds of friends, same-sex friends and opposite-sex friends. Both are indispensable, both are indispensable!

4, men and women working together is not tired, not just work, in many ways, men and women are a perfect match. This is the law of nature.

To sum up, it is reasonable and legal for men and women to be together, which is natural, a person's right and an obligation. Is an indispensable part of life. So, feel free to make friends with the opposite sex.

Your above questions reveal your concerns:

In the final analysis, your concern is because of your concern about the views of outsiders. You are always afraid of others gossiping, pointing and gossiping.

It is estimated that you are now in adolescence, or in the prime of life, or in the seed stage of love. In short, the fire of youth. At your age, you are very sensitive, strong, fresh, confused, contradictory, fragile and suspicious about the feelings of both sexes. This is a completely normal phenomenon at this age. Don't worry, I've had it before, and I've had all the troubles, worries and entanglements of my age (including you). This is a normal phenomenon.

Let's take a look at the situation behind your concern:

1, peer's psychological state of your interaction with boys:

TA's finger-pointing, gossiping, mental state, first, envy. Second, jealousy. Third, be tough. Fourth, curiosity. Five, boring booing.

First, envy.

These people see you dating boys, and boys treat you well. TA people are all envious. They thought: why don't they have such a good life as you! I am ashamed of myself. I probably silently regard you as the goal of struggle in my heart. Inadvertently, you also have a lot of fans. You see how good it is to associate with boys. You are happy, and you also bring life ideals and motivation to others. I salute you for saving a part of the world. You have accumulated great virtue! So, get on well with boys!

Second, jealousy.

These people see you dating boys, and boys are very kind to you. TA people are very jealous. If they can't eat grapes, they say they are sour. I don't want others to get what I can't get. These people are jealous of your beauty, your charm and your ability to attract boys to be nice to you. Jealous that you can mingle with boys. This is a sign of incompetence. You have the ability, but those people don't. Survival of the fittest is a natural law, a natural law. We are poor, we are incompetent, we are frustrated, and we will eventually be eliminated naturally. At least, we can't get the rich fun brought by heterosexual communication! And endless benefits! You are contributing to natural selection, a natural paradise! I salute you, your merits are boundless!

Third, be tough.

These people are separated from a small group of jealous people, and they have collapsed. TA people should be your perverted fans. A person's greatness, to some extent, is to make some people crazy about TA and some people crazy about TA. But don't worry, there is no danger to your life. It's just an emotional state. Never mind. Let TA die. Congratulations, you have been a great man since you were a child.

Fourth, curiosity.

These people are curious. These people are just spectators, who will only look silly, say silently and point fingers. You are the real protagonist, and the stage belongs to you. It can also be said that you are a pioneer, and ta is still uncivilized and nobody. When TAs realize the importance and necessity of heterosexual communication, you become their textbooks and guides.

Five, boring booing.

These people are heartless people. Walking dead, without soul, it is even more impossible to expect TAs to do anything meaningful. When a person quarrels with a rude person, in the end, they can't tell which one is the good one. So, ignore these people. When the Woods are big, there are all kinds of birds. Go your own way and let others talk.

2. Older people's psychological state of your interaction with boys:

Ta are experienced people who have experienced it personally and are familiar with the true meaning and essence of heterosexual communication. First, worry. Second, appreciate. Second, envy young people.

First, worry.

Many people who have experienced it when they are young and ignorant deal with heterosexual relationships. Some went with the wind, singing triumphant songs, and some were black and blue, out of their wits. Children learn to walk, and adults must be afraid that TA will fall and get hurt. So there will be more or less interference. Or pressure from public opinion. Please understand the hearts of people who have experienced it. However, if you don't have too much scruples and make mistakes, you are not a young man. For adult arguments, you learn from the wisdom of others. At that time, only by going your own way could you have a foundation and background and be in an invincible position.

Second, appreciate.

The first admirer was me. Young, precious time. Every minute is priceless. I won't say anything else here. As far as heterosexual communication is concerned, it is necessary and powerful to endow youth with vitality.

Third, envy young people.

These people are poor. Those peers who are jealous of you now will join this pathetic and hateful revolutionary team in the future. Although TAs talk big, they often teach you platitudes. It's better to let the wind and waves beat you than to walk around. Take out the courage of young people and "I" will be young. Who am I afraid of? Dare to act and take responsibility.

Finally, the principle of heterosexual communication:

1, "To master a subject, God must concentrate and spare no effort, but he can control it." We should learn the truth from it. People's energy and time are limited. You should be a student now, mainly studying. If you can finish your studies first, you can flourish in other fields. Remember priorities, priorities, priorities.

2, heterosexual communication is absolutely inevitable. Love. Haha, but it doesn't matter, human beings are animals with high IQ and have strong self-control and self-regulation ability. Always remind yourself. Don't fall in love early.

3. Girls should learn to protect themselves. In heterosexual communication, if the gun accidentally goes off, in the end, it is the woman who suffers. No way, this is caused by the physiological characteristics given to women by nature. Remember, don't give some bad boys a chance. Hey hey.

Distinguishing between good and bad is also a compulsory course for you to come into this world (remember: what human beings have to learn is definitely not just things in school classrooms and textbooks). See the good and bad of boys clearly. Through their own knowledge and experience. If you are not smart enough, you can ask your friends and teachers for help, and of course you can ask me for help. I cannot solve the problem of world peace. The abacus of several smelly boys is still very clear.

Ok, now, you can strut on the bright road of heterosexual communication. The trend of the world, those who follow it prosper, and those who go against it die. Become a play. The world belongs after all, and the road is at your feet.

Waiting for your good news.

I wish you good health, academic success and marriage.