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Why is it so difficult to have a girlfriend?

1. It is very appropriate for us to compare finding a girlfriend with Yu Cheng fishing. Fishing requires patience. And good bait. The same goes for finding a girlfriend. You can't be too direct at the beginning, otherwise women will feel disgusted. A good bait is your own conditions, house, car, and money. There are three magic weapons for victory in today's society. It doesn't matter if the three magic weapons are not complete. You can operate according to my method below. If one fishing rod is not enough, we can put 10 or 100 fishing rods, so that we can always catch fish. What's more important is to believe in yourself and have confidence. All things come true.

2. An important part of everyone’s life experience is going to school, so we must start socializing and making more friends from elementary school. Elementary school, middle school, high school, and university, you can get to know many classmates at each stage, so this is your abundant resource. I am not advocating puppy love here. You have graduated and become an adult. Once you enter the society, maybe your classmates will become your lovers and your wives.

3. Men should pay attention to their image and dress appropriately, not slovenly. Image is important. Sometimes I don’t have a girlfriend to blame, and others can only blame myself. I play with my mobile phone every day, and then play on the computer after playing with my mobile phone. How could I have a girlfriend when I was always immersed in my own world? So reject these bad habits. Go towards the sunshine. Let girls discover that you are very charming. Don't let people think you are a low-key person.

4. You can use the dating website to make friends. Now that the Internet is so developed, you can take advantage of this aspect. You can also ask relatives and friends to go on a blind date. I personally think the latter is more reliable. Men need to take the initiative, but if they are shyer than women, it's over.

5. Use major social software to take the initiative, add friends, and say hello. Men should not be afraid of being tired. All social software is installed on your mobile phone. You can ask girls to watch movies, KTV, or go to dinner. Go play. There are always women who will want to meet you. As long as you are not lazy, you will definitely have a girlfriend. Men should not be too stingy.