With the increasing number of infertility patients, many "post-80s" couples have accidentally become "bedding". Some strange phenomena began to appear among the DINK tribe, and more and more infertile couples in the city flooded them. Now, when someone whispers that he is a "DINK", the meaning behind it begins to become complicated: DINK family, are you a real DINK or a "DINK"? Let’s take a look at the editor!

Dink just for a nice day?

"If you hate children, you won't bring them into this world." This is the reason given by many "iron-hard" ones. Although the words seemed crude, they were excusable and reasonable.

The "ear" is colorful and colorful, and it is difficult to tell the story of this era. So "hating kids" really isn't the current rebellious mindset. They can't guarantee that they will focus on a child for more than 10 seconds. Those non-stop crying, endless diaper washing, and head-scratching discipline are enough to make people nervous, let alone deal with them with "live ammunition" .

"Iron" people are obsessed with a high-quality world between two people, and firmly regard "letting themselves live a happy and prosperous life" as their goal. "Fighting for themselves in the first half of their lives and fighting for their children in the second half of their lives" is their nightmare.

There is a classic saying on the Tianya Forum: "People who have children actually only have half of their lives. The first half of their lives is their own, and the second half of their lives is just watching their offspring repeat the first half of their lives."

This has a huge impact on people’s fertility drive.

Confessions of a double-income childless person

Accidentally turned into a "pseudo-DINK"

The 33-year-old Lily feels like a traditional A family-oriented beauty. Compared to the fashionable, avant-garde and a bit rebellious she was in previous years, even she felt like she was a different person. "A few years ago, of course I was a DINK!" She said with a smile. How many young people in this era would obediently enter the siege of marriage? How many people can be so "hot-headed" that they have a child and "cause trouble for themselves"?

At the age of 30, when she and her husband began to seriously consider having a child, she sadly discovered that the initiative was no longer in her hands. She has been suffering from chronic pelvic inflammatory disease for many years, and her teacher has asthenozoospermia. "Infertility" sneaks up on them. "Hey, it turns out that I am a very authentic DINK. Unexpectedly, in the end, I accidentally became a pseudo-DINK." The joke was full of Lily's helplessness.

"DINK" is just a premeditation

Unlike Lily, Sarah's initial declaration that she was a "DINK" was actually premeditated. This was mainly due to her doubts about whether she could be a "DINK". Deep concerns about fertility. In the past few years, as she became more and more realistic, she began to plan a "man-creation plan", but nothing happened. Sarah knew the key to the matter: due to three improper abortions and one medical abortion, her uterine cavity environment had become extremely bad! In order to become a mother as soon as possible, she is seeking medical treatment. Now, as a face-saving person, she always calls herself "DINK" when asked "Why don't you have children?" Just, very helpless.

Numbers

One in eight couples of childbearing age is infertile.

Data show that among the entire DINK families, infertile "pseudo-DINKs" account for 25.6% of those with two incomes and no children, while those with two incomes and no children are still growing at an annual rate of 10%-15%. The speed increases. With the rapid increase in infertility, "pseudo-DINK" is also increasing year by year. It is understood that 20 years ago, the infertility rate among people of childbearing age in my country was only 3%. Today, the infertility rate among people of childbearing age in China has climbed to 12.5% ??to 15%, which is close to the 15% to 20% rate in developed countries. The number of infertile people aged 25 to 30 is the largest in China. This figure means that one in eight couples of childbearing age is infertile. And in terms of age distribution, the majority of couples born in the 1980s are in their teens.

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Infertility caused by improper abortion has accounted for 30%

With the changes in modern lifestyles, the common phenomenon of late marriage, late childbearing and unhealthy modern lifestyles have caused the infertility rate to rise rapidly main reason.

According to experts, today’s infertility shows such a characteristic: the proportion of infertility caused by repeated inappropriate abortions in women is on the rise, accounting for 1/3 of infertility, while obesity The proportion has declined.

This has a lot to do with people's lifestyle: the opening up of some human concepts has increased the proportion of abortions; with the improvement of the quality of life and people's increasing understanding of scientific life, the proportion of obesity has declined.

For this reason, experts recommend that female friends take necessary protective measures to prevent unwanted pregnancy. After all, any artificial termination of pregnancy may have an adverse impact on women's health; once a pregnancy has to be terminated, you must "keep your eyes open" and be smart about the method of abortion and the choice of hospital, because many improper abortions often cause There will be various irreversible sequelae.