No matter before or now, when two people get married, they will pay attention to the right match. If the family situation of the two people is similar, the life after marriage will certainly be good. If there is a big gap between the two families, it is not right to be married, even if they were married at that time, there will definitely be many contradictions in the future. Therefore, even if rural girls are considerate or beautiful, many urban boys are unwilling to marry these girls.

one: different living habits.

People who live in the city and those who live in the countryside are very different from each other in terms of thoughts and living habits, so when two people are together, all kinds of contradictions will arise. Especially when the woman's parents want to live in the city for a period of time, you can't stand the habit of going to the countryside, but it's hard to say anything because of the in-laws relationship, so you can only hold it by yourself. After a long time, this will greatly affect the relationship between them.

two: I will often ask you to do things in the future.

It often happens in life that when a person marries in the city, people in the village will want to get some light. Whether begging you to find a job or wanting to stay in your house for a few days, many relatives will always come to your door. Even if you can't do something yourself, he feels that you should help them naturally. No matter how good the woman is, she will certainly help her relatives, even if it hurts her own interests. This will slowly break this family.

three: the issue of interests.

When getting married, both families don't want to suffer for themselves, so everything can be as fair as possible. However, it is impossible to be fair in one city and one country, so there are bound to be many contradictions and conflicts of interest. If one party can forget these things, then it is ok for two people to be together. If you mind in your heart, don't be together again as soon as possible, because there will be problems in the future.

So, because the gap between them is too big, many urban boys are reluctant to marry rural girls.