(1) Hello. A bad relationship isn't necessarily your problem. Even if it is not your problem, it is recommended that you learn to look for your own shortcomings. I am forty-two years old, and I have experienced some of these things when getting along with my roommates and colleagues.
(2) I heard that people who can play with anyone are the big winners.
(3) You want to be popular, or you want to improve your relationship with your roommates. It is recommended to start with the following points:
(4) The first point: have a kind heart. In everything, only look at the good of the other person. Only say good things about the other person. Even if it is behind your back, you must only say good things and not bad things.
(5) The second point: treat others with sincerity. Don't lie. Never lie to those around you. This way your integrity is established.
(6) The third point: Be able to tolerate small losses and not suffer big losses. If financial conditions permit, you can treat the other party to a meal, chat, or buy a few magazines. I lent it to my roommate intentionally or unintentionally. It won't cost a lot of money, but it will be effective.
(7) Point 4: Help others more. Not just help your roommates, but also other people you know or don't know. Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand.
If you continue to follow the above points, your reputation and popularity will definitely improve within a year.
I hope this helps.
I wish you success. Good luck to you. May all your wishes come true. I wish you make progress every day. I wish you many friends and a bright future.