The world is colorful, and people's personalities are varied. Students have some contact with their parents, classmates, teachers, family members and even strangers every day. How do they get along with others? This is an important thing in our daily life. If you want to learn to get along with others, you should be kind to others.
Being kind to others contains many contents, including learning to understand, respect, tolerate, care for and help others. Today, I will focus on understanding and tolerating others. Other teachers have talked a lot, so I won't talk about it.
1. Understanding is love.
Everyone has his own emotional world, and wants to be understood by others, and also wants to understand others. If you sincerely understand others, you will be surprised to find that you get much more understanding than in the past. Those who only want others to understand themselves and don't want others to understand themselves will never get what they want. Because understanding is love, love is sincere and mutual.
However, in daily life, the phenomenon of incomprehension is everywhere, and understanding is very heavy. Children's understanding of their parents' sincere love can bring infinite warmth and endless family happiness to the family, and students can also understand each other and bring it to the collective.
To be full of vitality, to enhance the cohesion of the collective, and to understand each other between teachers and students, there will be no generation gap. . . . . . It can be seen that understanding is a bridge and stone soil to fill the gap between people. Therefore, in interpersonal communication, we should learn to understand and be kind to others. Here, I will tell you two true stories.
First: A mother is thinking about her son's birthday. As soon as she got off work, she bought a cake and hurried home. On the way, she knew that the car hit a stone, the cake was dumped, and people were injured. The son couldn't see the cake, crying and shouting, blaming his mother for embarrassing him in front of his classmates. Mom cried, too. Why? Think about it.
Second: a middle school student saw that her mother was old and in poor health, thinking that this was the price she paid for her growth. She wants to send a gift to her mother on the coming March 8th. Send what? Inadvertently, she opened the photo album and saw the beautiful and moving image of her mother when she was young. She cried. She quietly enlarged the photo and put it in a beautiful frame. On March 8, she put the photo frame in the most conspicuous place at home. My mother cried when she came back. My daughter threw herself into her arms and felt her tears sweet.
Both mothers cried, but the tears in their eyes were sour and sweet. It is clear to the students that the second story shows the true meaning of understanding.
2. Tolerance. Tolerance is a basic virtue in life. Interpersonal communication is inseparable from you, me and him, and even more inseparable from tolerance.
The French writer Hugo once said: "The ocean is the vastest in the world, the sky is the vastest than the ocean, and the human mind is the vastest than the sky. Interpersonal communication; When dealing with people, there is no friendship without tolerance, and there is no kindness without tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue, a cultivation and a standard to measure a person's level.
As we all know, there was a great educator named Confucius in ancient China. He has a favorite student named Yan Hui.
On one occasion, Yan Hui saw a book seller quarreling with a cloth buyer. The man who bought the cloth said, "March 13th, why did you charge me twenty-four dollars"! Yan Jia stopped fighting and said, "This is 3824. You have miscalculated. Don't argue. " The cloth buyer pointed to Hui's nose and said, "Who are you? I only listen to Confucius's "Let's go and reason with him." Yan Hui asked, "What if you are wrong? The man who bought the cloth said, "I will give you my head." "Are you wrong?" Yan Hui said, "I lost my hat to you." Two men found Confucius. Confucius asked about the situation, smiled at Yan Hui and said, "March 8th is 23rd. Yan Hui, you lost. Give the hat to someone else. " Yan Hui thought; 3824, right? The teacher must be senile. He had to give his hat to the man who bought the cloth. The man picked up his hat and left happily. At this moment, Confucius said to Yan Hui, "If you say you lose, you lose a hat. If you say he loses, that's a life! Do you think hat is more important or life is more important? " Yan Hui knelt in front of Confucius and said, "The teacher is righteous but small in right and wrong, and the students are extremely ashamed!"
We say "take a step back and broaden the horizon", tolerance makes things simple, and harshness makes things complicated. There is a classmate named Zhou in our school. He is an open-minded person and many students like to associate with him. I remember that he was bullied by his classmates once in the first grade. But he didn't fight back, and the classmate continued to hit him. He had no choice but to say, "If you hit him again, I'll tell the teacher." Walking and chatting, I didn't go to the middle of the corridor and folded back, still smiling on my face. With his size. Strength, it's easy to fight back, but he didn't do it, but used "tell the teacher" to scare his classmates. This is a kind of tolerance, and it is also a tolerance that a boy should have. His tolerance avoided a fist fight.
In fact, in life, there will inevitably be collisions between people. Friction just depends on how you handle it. Young people are more aggressive. I often blush and have a thick neck for a little thing. If you do something wrong, don't focus on yourself, but try to find fault with others. What I lack is a kind of understanding and tolerance. Teenagers are eager to be understood, tolerant and open-minded. A little more self-criticism and self-sacrifice will make you "the best in the world" selfish and narrow-minded.
In short, people need respect, understanding, tolerance, care and help. In daily life, a "thank you", a greeting, an apology and a smile will bring warmth and hope to you and others, make life full of friendship and sunshine, learn to be kind to parents, brothers and sisters, elders, teachers and classmates, and interpersonal relationships will be more harmonious.
Be kind to yourself and care for others.
There is a good saying: "Happiness does not depend on wealth, power and appearance, but on how you get along with the people around you." Do you want to be a happy and successful person? Then start by being kind to yourself and caring for others!
/kloc-One winter in the middle of 0/9th century, a teenager wandered to Walson Town, Southern California, and the kind mayor Jackson took him in.
In winter, it rained and snowed in the town, and the path next to Mayor Jackson's garden became muddy, and pedestrians diverted through the garden, making a mess. Seeing this, the young man left by the mayor felt very sorry, so he braved the rain and snow to take care of the flower beds and let pedestrians still walk through the muddy path. At this point, the mayor picked a car full of dregs, paved the path, and pedestrians stopped walking in the flower bed. The mayor said to the boy, "Taking care of others means taking care of yourself!" "
"Caring for others means being kind to yourself!" Although this is an ordinary sentence, it has greatly shocked and enlightened the hearts of teenagers. He realized that caring for others, although it takes effort, can also be rewarded. The mayor's words became a great treasure that the boy could enjoy all his life. He later became an oil magnate, and he was Hammer.
In a mountainous county in southern Anhui, there was a young farmer. He planted good varieties of rice with high yield. He always gives his excellent rice varieties to the villagers for free. The villagers asked him, "Aren't you afraid that we will catch up with you?" The young farmer replied, "I actually helped myself and gave you good seeds." He knows that people around him have improved their rice varieties, which can prevent their rice varieties from changing and lead to reduced production.
Life is often like this: understanding and tolerating others is actually supporting and helping yourself, and caring for others is being kind to yourself. There is an old saying in China: Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand.
It can be seen that caring for others is a basic principle that people should abide by in the process of seeking success. In today's society that needs cooperation, people are more interactive. Only by caring for others first and sincerely helping others can we handle interpersonal relationships and get happy cooperation from others.
Mencius once said, "A gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others." Those who give generously and ask for nothing in return are often easy to succeed; Those who are selfish, stingy and haggle over every ounce can not only find a partner, but may even become lonely. Some friends will ask: how to be kind to others? Being kind to others is easy to say, but not easy to do. It covers a wide range of contents. Such as: caring for others and extending a hand of friendship when friends are in trouble; Respect others, don't explore their privacy, and don't talk about others behind their backs; Good at communicating and communicating with people, good at interacting with people with different interests and personalities; Admit the value of others and be responsible for yourself ... Generally speaking, the most important principle of being kind to others is "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you". Everything should be considered from each other's point of view. If you follow this principle, you will get many good friends and partners.
Some people say that good interpersonal relationships are not only made by actions, but also "flowing" from the bottom of my heart. This sentence is very philosophical, it tells us; Interpersonal communication should treat people with sincerity and communicate with people with "heart". Some people are eager for friendship, but refuse to open their hearts to each other. A female classmate of a key university in Shanghai once wrote to me and told me that she was troubled by the lack of friends. She said: "After going to college, it may be because everyone has grown up, and everyone has become intrigued and used each other." I hate this situation, so I become deep and indifferent, and I am determined to wrap myself in loneliness and temper myself in inner pain. I am indifferent to the team's affairs and take' going my own way' as my motto. Don't talk to classmates after class, don't joke, don't talk in class ... "This classmate's practice is not appropriate. She is eager for friendship, but she doesn't want to open her heart to communicate with her classmates first. Instead of liberating yourself, it is easier to add pain and loneliness to yourself. I often encountered this situation in a large number of consultation letters I received in the past. Some college students often treat people with the psychology of "I won't talk to you if you don't talk to me" and "I don't want to make friends with you if you don't make friends with me". How can you get the friendship and help of others?
In the pursuit of success, no one can do without the cooperation of others. Especially in modern society, if you want to succeed, you should try your best to get the support and help from people around you. Only when you treat others sincerely will others cooperate with you sincerely. Please remember this sentence: caring for others means being kind to yourself! Cute 123 new 2009-02-17 20: 48: 28 219.134.246. * Learn to be kind to others.
The world is colorful, and people's personalities are varied. Students have some contact with their parents, classmates, teachers, family members and even strangers every day. How do they get along with others? This is an important thing in our daily life. If you want to learn to get along with others, you should be kind to others.
Being kind to others contains many contents, including learning to understand, respect, tolerate, care for and help others. Today, I will focus on understanding and tolerating others. Other teachers have talked a lot, so I won't talk about it.
1. Understanding is love.
Everyone has his own emotional world, and wants to be understood by others, and also wants to understand others. If you sincerely understand others, you will be surprised to find that you get much more understanding than in the past. Those who only want others to understand themselves and don't want others to understand themselves will never get what they want. Because understanding is love, love is sincere and mutual.
However, in daily life, the phenomenon of incomprehension is everywhere, and understanding is very heavy. Children's understanding of their parents' sincere love can bring infinite warmth and endless family happiness to the family, and students can also understand each other and bring it to the collective.
To be full of vitality, to enhance the cohesion of the collective, and to understand each other between teachers and students, there will be no generation gap. . . . . . It can be seen that understanding is a bridge and stone soil to fill the gap between people. Therefore, in interpersonal communication, we should learn to understand and be kind to others. Here, I will tell you two true stories.
First: A mother is thinking about her son's birthday. As soon as she got off work, she bought a cake and hurried home. On the way, she knew that the car hit a stone, the cake was dumped, and people were injured. The son couldn't see the cake, crying and shouting, blaming his mother for embarrassing him in front of his classmates. Mom cried, too. Why? Think about it.
Second: a middle school student saw that her mother was old and in poor health, thinking that this was the price she paid for her growth. She wants to send a gift to her mother on the coming March 8th. Send what? Inadvertently, she opened the photo album and saw the beautiful and moving image of her mother when she was young. She cried. She quietly enlarged the photo and put it in a beautiful frame. On March 8, she put the photo frame in the most conspicuous place at home. My mother cried when she came back. My daughter threw herself into her arms and felt her tears sweet.
Both mothers cried, but the tears in their eyes were sour and sweet. It is clear to the students that the second story shows the true meaning of understanding.
2. Tolerance. Tolerance is a basic virtue in life. Interpersonal communication is inseparable from you, me and him, and even more inseparable from tolerance.
The French writer Hugo once said: "The ocean is the vastest in the world, the sky is the vastest than the ocean, and the human mind is the vastest than the sky. Interpersonal communication; When dealing with people, there is no friendship without tolerance, and there is no kindness without tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue, a cultivation and a standard to measure a person's level.
As we all know, there was a great educator named Confucius in ancient China. He has a favorite student named Yan Hui.
On one occasion, Yan Hui saw a book seller quarreling with a cloth buyer. The man who bought the cloth said, "March 13th, why did you charge me twenty-four dollars"! Yan Jia stopped fighting and said, "This is 3824. You have miscalculated. Don't argue. " The cloth buyer pointed to Hui's nose and said, "Who are you? I only listen to Confucius's "Let's go and reason with him." Yan Hui asked, "What if you are wrong? The man who bought the cloth said, "I will give you my head." "Are you wrong?" Yan Hui said, "I lost my hat to you." Two men found Confucius. Confucius asked about the situation, smiled at Yan Hui and said, "March 8th is 23rd. Yan Hui, you lost. Give the hat to someone else. " Yan Hui thought; 3824, right? The teacher must be senile. He had to give his hat to the man who bought the cloth. The man picked up his hat and left happily. At this moment, Confucius said to Yan Hui, "If you say you lose, you lose a hat. If you say he loses, that's a life! Do you think hat is more important or life is more important? " Yan Hui knelt in front of Confucius and said, "The teacher is righteous but small in right and wrong, and the students are extremely ashamed!"
We say "take a step back and broaden the horizon", tolerance makes things simple, and harshness makes things complicated. There is a classmate named Zhou in our school. He is an open-minded person and many students like to associate with him. I remember that he was bullied by his classmates once in the first grade. But he didn't fight back, and the classmate continued to hit him. He had no choice but to say, "If you hit him again, I'll tell the teacher." Walking and chatting, I didn't go to the middle of the corridor and folded back, still smiling on my face. With his size. Strength, it's easy to fight back, but he didn't do it, but used "tell the teacher" to scare his classmates. This is a kind of tolerance, and it is also a tolerance that a boy should have. His tolerance avoided a fist fight.
In fact, in life, there will inevitably be collisions between people. Friction just depends on how you handle it. Young people are more aggressive. I often blush and have a thick neck for a little thing. If you do something wrong, don't focus on yourself, but try to find fault with others. What I lack is a kind of understanding and tolerance. Teenagers are eager to be understood, tolerant and open-minded. A little more self-criticism and self-sacrifice will make you "the best in the world" selfish and narrow-minded.
In short, people need respect, understanding, tolerance, care and help. In daily life, a "thank you", a greeting, an apology and a smile will bring warmth and hope to you and others, make life full of friendship and sunshine, learn to be kind to parents, brothers and sisters, elders, teachers and classmates, and interpersonal relationships will be more harmonious. NK 0205 2009-09-0 1 10:29:38 22 1.202+0 18。 * Be kind to others.
Kindness, as the best quality of human beings, always shines with the brilliance of human nature! A person who is kind to others and listens to good advice is always praised and respected by people. Although Hugo, the world's great writer, once said that in the animal kingdom, a born white dove will not become a raptor, this kind of thing will only happen between humans. But if the society is full of people who choose good and follow, how civilized and beautiful the world will become! May what Hugo pointed out never happen again.
Yuan's kindness and enthusiasm for helping others are well-known among familiar people. She asked her neighbors and other relatives and friends to come to her house to serve tea and cigarettes, to be a guide for foreigners, and so on. Wipe tables, docks, floors, take out garbage, pour boiling water for colleagues, etc. These are almost all done at work as duties. Yuan's explanation for helping others is that it is a kind of calmness to be kind to others without asking for anything in return. Seeing others happy will increase your good mood.
Before his adoptive father died, he was ill in bed and hospitalized. Yuan ran between the unit and the hospital, feeding water, food and medicine, cleaning up excrement, and gently massaging the limbs of the elderly. Everything was meticulous and comprehensive. What is commendable is her invaluable help to others. One day, an elderly patient who shared a ward with his adoptive father wanted to "make it convenient", but unfortunately, the accompanying children were not around when he went out to work. The old patient was impatient and reluctantly insisted on going to the toilet. As a result, his will failed to overcome his old and frail body, and the dirt was excreted on the bed and the ground. Yuan, who returned to the ward to fetch water, faced the helplessness and embarrassment of elderly patients. Without hesitation, she quickly began to clean up the mess. This kind of help is within everyone's reach! The old man's tears reflect her kindness ...
Many years ago, a financial cashier in the company retired. When the personnel department informed Yuan to take up this position, many eyes that had already peeped at this position naturally scanned her with suspicion, dissatisfaction and even jealousy. Several characters who have been moved by this position are very angry, and one of them is very angry.
Especially for those young secondary school students who think they have some advantages in this job, it is even more difficult to get rid of resentment and hatred. Being kind and honest by nature, she never put the cashier position together with herself, let alone accidentally offended her colleagues.
Taking up a new post, Yuan did not dare to slack off and was even less proud. While doing her job conscientiously, she is still friendly and enthusiastic to others. Especially for those who are jealous for no reason because of job adjustment, it is more polite to repay evil with good. In less than a year, a resentful colleague took maternity leave because she passed the cashier's post.
I go to my colleagues' home on Sunday or even after work, either cooking and carrying water, or washing diapers and holding children. My colleagues were deeply moved, and later they became bosom friends who helped each other and talked about everything.
For many years, Yuan has been pursuing the philosophy of kindness, patience and modesty. She said that everyone has an innate good nature, but it also needs to be cultivated over time. As long as it doesn't hurt dignity and personality, what can't be kind and patient? Yes, being kind to others, being kind to others, adds a calmness, a joy and a good mood. So, being kind to others is not being kind to yourself?
Being kind to others is being kind to yourself.
There is a good saying: "Happiness does not depend on wealth, power and appearance, but on how you get along with the people around you." Do you want to be a happy and successful person/start by being kind to others!
/kloc-One winter in the middle of 0/9th century, a teenager wandered to Walson Town, Southern California, and the kind mayor Jackson took him in.
In winter, it rains and snows in the town, and the path next to Mayor Jackson's garden becomes muddy, and pedestrians have diverted through the garden, making it a mess. Seeing this, the young man left by the mayor felt very sorry, so he braved the rain and snow to take care of the flower beds and let pedestrians still walk through the muddy path. At this point, the mayor picked a car full of dregs, paved the path, and pedestrians stopped walking in the flower bed. The mayor said to the boy, "Taking care of others means taking care of yourself!" "
"Taking care of others is taking care of yourself!" Although this is an ordinary sentence, it has greatly shocked and enlightened the hearts of teenagers. He realized that caring for others, although it takes effort, can also be rewarded. The mayor's words became a great treasure that the boy could enjoy all his life. He later became an oil magnate, and he was Hammer.
In a mountainous county in southern Anhui, there was a young farmer. He planted good varieties of rice with high yield. He always gives his excellent rice varieties to the villagers for free. The villagers asked him, "Aren't you afraid that we will catch up with you?" The young farmer replied, "I actually helped myself and gave you good seeds." He knows that people around him have improved their rice varieties, which can prevent their rice varieties from changing and lead to reduced production.
Life is often like this: understanding and tolerating others is actually supporting and helping yourself, and being kind to others is being kind to yourself. There is an old saying in China: Give someone a rose and leave a lingering fragrance in your hand.
It can be seen that being kind to others is a basic principle that people should follow in the process of seeking success. In today's society that needs cooperation, people are more interactive. Only by being kind to others and sincerely helping others can we handle interpersonal relationships and get happy cooperation from others.
Mencius once said, "A gentleman is nothing more than being kind to others." Those who give generously and ask for nothing in return are often easy to succeed; Those who are selfish, stingy and haggle over every ounce can not only find a partner, but may even become lonely. Some friends will ask: how to be kind to others? Being kind to others is easy to say, but not easy to do. It covers a wide range of contents. Such as: caring for others and extending a hand of friendship when friends are in trouble; Respect others, don't explore their privacy, and don't talk about others behind their backs; Good at communicating and communicating with people, good at interacting with people with different interests and personalities; Admit the value of others and be responsible for yourself ... Generally speaking, the most important principle of being kind to others is "don't do to others what you don't want them to do to you". Everything should be considered from each other's point of view. If you follow this principle, you will get many good friends and partners.
In the pursuit of success, no one can do without the cooperation of others. Especially in modern society, if you want to succeed, you should try your best to get the support and help from people around you. Only when you treat others sincerely will others cooperate with you sincerely. Please remember this sentence: to be kind to others is to be kind to yourself!
There is a saying: "Gold is not full of red, and no one is perfect." Each of us will inevitably have such a collision in our daily life. When there are differences of opinion and conflicts of interest, we tend to haggle over every ounce and argue with each other, thus breeding contradictions. We must learn to be kind to others.
The French writer Hugo once said: "The ocean is the vastest in the world, the sky is the vastest than the ocean, and the human mind is the vastest than the sky. Interpersonal communication; When dealing with people, there is no friendship without tolerance, and there is no kindness without tolerance. Tolerance is a virtue, a cultivation and a standard to measure a person's level. When others offend you, when others trample on your dignity, we should stick to our principles and try our best to establish friendly friendship. "Answer blows with blows" and "tip of a needle against a wheat awn" are really not desirable! That will only lead you to a "dead end" and put you in a dilemma. Why not shake hands and take a step back?
Being kind to others is broad-minded. We should treat others with sincerity, generosity and broad-mindedness.
Armstrong set foot on the moon because of the phrase "I took a small step personally, but mankind took a big step" and took a big step. And a household name, but there was also a man named Aldrin who went to the moon together. Although it is strange to us, it also makes us admire. At the press conference to celebrate the success of landing on the moon, a reporter suddenly asked Aldrin a very sharp question: "As a colleague, Armstrong became the first person to land on the moon. Do you feel a little sorry? " The relaxed atmosphere at the scene suddenly solidified. Under the embarrassed eyes of everyone, Aldrin replied humorously: "Ladies and gentlemen, don't forget that I was the first to get out of the space capsule when I returned to Earth!" He looked around and said with a smile, "So I was the first person to come to earth from another planet." Everyone gave him the warmest applause in laughter ... from his words, we can deeply understand the meaning of being kind to others. Smart people know how to be kind to others and don't cling to their mistakes. He will tell a fruitless story in his own way. Perhaps decades later, people have long forgotten Aldrin, but they can't forget his sincere virtue of sharing happiness with friends.
Once, Yan Hui saw a book seller and a cloth buyer arguing. The man who bought the cloth said, "March 13th, why did you charge me twenty-four dollars!" " "Yan Hui stepped forward to stop the fight." It's 3824. You have miscalculated! Stop arguing. " The cloth buyer pointed to Hui's nose and said, "Who are you? "I only listen to Confucius. Let's talk to him. " Yan Hui asked, "What if it's wrong?" The man who bought the cloth said, "I will give you my head." What if you are wrong? "Yan Hui said," I lost my hat to you. "They found Confucius. Confucius asked about the situation, smiled at Yan Hui and said, "March 8th is thirteen. Yan Hui, you lost. Give your hat to someone else. " Yan Hui thought; 3824, right? The teacher must be senile. He had to give his hat to the man who bought the cloth. The man picked up his hat and left happily. At this moment, Confucius said to Yan Hui, "If you say you lose, you lose a hat. If you say he loses, that's a life! Do you think hat is more important or life is more important? Yan Hui knelt in front of Confucius and said, "The teacher is very upright, and he doesn't consider minor issues. The students are very ashamed! "We say' take a step back and broaden the horizon'. Tolerance makes things simple, while harshness makes things complicated. In fact, in life, there will inevitably be collisions between people. Friction just depends on how you handle it. More tolerance, more open-minded feelings. A little more self-criticism and self-sacrifice may have saved a life.
A wise man was traveling with a friend. When passing through a valley, the wise man accidentally slipped down, and his friends tried their best to hold him back and prevent him from being buried at the bottom of the valley. After the wise man was saved, he insisted on carving it on a stone. His friend asked: Is this really necessary? The wise man said: Of course. So, he wrote on the stone: On a certain day, a friend saved my life while passing through a valley. A moment later, they continued their journey. One day, at the seaside, two people quarreled about one thing. In a rage, my friend slapped the wise man. The wise man covered his feverish face and said, I must write this down! His friend said, whatever, I'm not afraid! The wise man then found a stick and wrote on the beach after the ebb tide: One day, on a beach, my friend slapped me. After reading it, my friend asked him inexplicably: Why not carve it on a stone? The wise man smiled and said, "What I told the stone is something I am afraid to forget."
Love, I want the stone to remember for me; I told the beach what I was afraid I wouldn't forget. I hope the beach will forget it for me. The wise man saved the friendship with a broad mind.
Only by being kind to others can we integrate into the crowd and gain friendship, trust, understanding and support; Only by being kind to others can we have a feeling full of happiness, step into a realm full of opportunities and move towards a promising future on the road of life. Let's get along with others sincerely, generously, enthusiastically and bravely!