And the following, not doomed to nothing. But people who accomplish nothing often have the following problems.
Let's talk about core competitiveness first.
I don't think it's a bad thing to start worrying at the age of 30. At this age, I realized my own shortcomings, earlier than many people.
If a teenager succeeds, he will die, and if he succeeds late, his life will be more brilliant.
How many people have spent most of their lives in a daze because they got a comfortable job early.
But it is not enough to be aware of the problem. We need to start planning and preparation at once to cope with the stormy waves in the workplace and life.
Many people say that 35 years old is a watershed in the workplace, and it is true.
Many companies require ordinary applicants to be 35 years old. Moreover, people who change jobs after the age of 35 often hold the core competitiveness and are poached by headhunters.
Therefore, if you are not very competitive in the company, you will face the risk of being laid off in the case of financial turmoil or economic recession. For example, this global COVID-19 epidemic.
At the age of 30, you should make a five-year plan for your career to ensure that you are competitive or successful at the age of 35.
Personal core competitiveness is not found, but cultivated. Horizontal or vertical.
To put it bluntly, personal vertical development is to strive for promotion and salary increase in the company, then promotion and salary increase, and finally step into the management, and then strive for it.
Of course, if you are a technical post in an enterprise, such as software development, then settle down and deepen your field. Once you become an expert, it means that it is difficult to be replaced. This is the core competitiveness and sense of security.
If not, then you can only work hard in management positions.
In this process, information is very important. Industry information, enterprise information and internal information will probably affect you.
Ability improvement, including work ability and interpersonal skills. You can also cultivate a job-related ability, that is, give yourself extra points and show your learning ability.
However, with the rise of the company's management level, there will only be fewer and fewer posts, and the rising channel is relatively narrow, which also determines that vertical development cannot be the main type of employee development. At least for most employees, vertical development is a development route with high elimination rate.
Individuals develop horizontally as slash youth and develop a sideline after work.
Now there is a saying that the main business is survival and the sideline is development. It is precisely because of the increasing difficulty of vertical development that more and more people choose to open up another world.
Regarding the choice of sideline business, it is obviously particular. Everyone says to choose what they are interested in, but most people think that what they are interested in can't bring benefits.
So just can have this kind of situation:
Some people say that when online celebrities make money, you will shoot Tik Tok. I shot two videos, and if there is no traffic, I won't shoot.
Some people say that writing articles can make money, and you went again. You wrote a few articles, and no one read them, so you stopped writing.
Some people say that there are many ways to make money online, but you went anyway. As a result, you paid a deposit of 2000 yuan, and you lost all your money.
If there is a simple sideline that can make money, who will tell you so kindly? Most online transactions that ask you to pay the deposit first and then pay it back in a few days are deceptive.
Choosing a sideline is nothing more than two points. One is that the sideline should be growing, and the other is that you should stick to it.
The second industry you choose has a higher ceiling. In this way, you can work hard in it for several years before you can gain and grow. If you do well, you can even replace your own work.
So I suggest not to touch things like online brushes.
One exception is that you have few resources, so you can accumulate a lot of wealth through one repetitive thing.
To know how to delay satisfaction, it is basically impossible to get positive feedback immediately when you first enter an industry, especially in a high-growth industry. If you only work for a few months or even a few days, you have no say at all.
We can have a proper rest and indulge in laziness. After all, people are not machines, but the overall direction and plan cannot be changed.
While working hard, don't forget to make a timely resumption, and find your own shortcomings in each resumption to correct them, so as to make faster progress.
You should remember why you sacrificed your rest time to do it.
I wrote so much unconsciously, let's sum it up.
30-year-old confusion and anxiety will not make people accomplish nothing. Not even at the age of 35 or 40.
At the age of 74, Chu Shi Jian started his business again and sold his oranges all over the country.
Struggle, you may not succeed, but you will not regret it.
1, over 30 years old, still living on his laurels, and his economy is not independent.
2, addicted to games, eating, drinking, having fun and other short-term happiness, unable to extricate themselves.
3. Habitually make excuses, pass the buck, and blame others for your incompetence.
4. Waste time and pay attention to meaningless people and things.
5. I can hardly eat, and I wonder why beautiful women don't like me every day.
6. I know everything, but I'm too lazy to act. Tomorrow is tomorrow.
7, clean face in my pocket, that is, look down on the bottom workers, thinking about getting something for nothing every day and getting rich overnight.
8. Work for three minutes without concentration and perseverance.
9. I don't have any skills, but I still want everything.
10, when people are in middle age, they are still habitually asking for help and are too lazy to think about it.
1 1. When people reach middle age, they still want to be opportunistic, worship michel platini and kneel down to the rich.
I am an accomplished person. When I was young, I learned quotations from Chairman Mao every day. Just as we were inspiring, we went to the countryside to receive re-education from poor and middle peasants. Our generation is the delayed generation. Fortunately, when Deng Xiaoping came out to take charge of the work, he was admitted to a technical secondary school. He has a job, barely finds a job, and can support his family. After working for more than 30 years, he can get a pension after retirement. It's not much, but he can still get it every month. I have always been satisfied in my life and accomplished nothing in my career. However, following * * to make a party is my lifelong hope. I will never change this ideal if I am sure.