Zhuge jiaxun
Not cold, not awake, not quiet, not far away. -Zhuge Liang's Ten Commandments
During the Three Kingdoms period, Zhuge Liang, the official to the prime minister, was named the marquis of Wuxiang, and after his death, he was posthumously named the loyal marquis of Wuhou. Despite being such a high official, Zhuge Liang still demanded himself and his family with "indifference" and "tranquility". Perhaps it is because of Zhuge Liang's indifferent heart and quiet feelings that Zhuge Liang can "do his best until he dies." Let Zhuge Liang's fame spread all over the world
Zhu Shi Family Guide
It is not easy to think about a porridge and a meal; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. -Zhu Bailu's Zhu Jiaxun
This well-known famous sentence must be familiar to everyone. Diligent housekeeping is the most widely spread knowledge, and it is also a symbol of China's traditional literati cultivation and reading culture.
Zhu Bolu's motto of managing the family has always been praised by the world: a porridge and a meal are hard to come by; It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources. It is wise to plan ahead; Digging wells is not thirsty. Self-help must be frugal; Don't stay at the banquet ... just a few hundred words of family instructions, from food, clothing, housing and transportation to being human, are recorded in detail in Zhu Jiaxun. Zhu Jiaxun not only standardized the living habits of the people, but also met the requirements of ideology and morality.
Liang jiaxun
If there is a good home, there must be Qing Yu; If you accumulate a bad house, there will be more disasters. -Liang Tao's "Family Instructions"
A family that can inherit the ancestral business and remain immortal from generation to generation must be a family with good deeds. Liang Dao was an official all his life, worried about the king and the people, and did his duty as an official. Although he was eventually demoted because he was involved in the "faction dispute", he was demoted again and again, and finally died on the way to relegation, but Liang's family instructions made this unfortunate minister immortal. Liang Dao wrote a tragic history of loyal ministers and sages with his life.
Shi Li Jia Xun
It is my teacher who does not obey me, and it is my thief who obeys me. -Emperor Taizong's "Royal Family" by Li Shimin
It is the same meaning as "good medicine tastes bitter and is good for illness, but advice that is hard to listen to is good for action", warning future generations to listen to different opinions. Emperor Taizong himself was very open-minded and set an example for the Li family.
After Li Shimin proclaimed himself emperor, he actively listened to the opinions of ministers, governed the country with courtesy at home, was modest in coachable at abroad, practiced economy, advised farmers and mulberry workers to recuperate, and made the country rich and the people strong, thus creating a famous chastity rule in the history of China.
Sima Jia Jia Xun
Everyone is proud of luxury, and my heart is only beautiful if it is frugal. -Sima Guang's "Training with Diligence and Health"
Don't be attracted by the wave of showing off your wealth, but stick to your sense of independence in a materialistic society. Sima Guang believes that people with virtue are all cultivated by simplicity, and simplicity will reduce desire. A gentleman wants less, is not enslaved by foreign things, and can go straight on the right path. Little people want less, they can be self-disciplined, save money, stay away from evil, and be rich.
Throughout history, the richer the big family, the more it has been passed down for a hundred years, the more it knows how to keep flowing, how to be frugal, how to be independent, and how to be low-key and simple.
Ouyang jiaxun
The best diamonds must be cut. People don't learn or know. -Ouyang Xiu's "Xiuzi"
Emphasize the importance of family education, after all, China people attach the most importance to education. Ouyang Xiu believes that jade can't be made into utensils without polishing; If you don't study, you won't understand the truth. However, jade has its eternal characteristics. Even if it is not polished or made into an object, it is still jade, and its characteristics will not be destroyed. Human nature will change under the influence of external things. Therefore, people who don't study will lose the noble character of a gentleman and become parallel imports and bad villains.
Zeng jiaxun
On the one hand, cautious independence means peace of mind; On the other hand, being respected means being strong; On the other hand, kindness means being likable; On the other hand, diligence means respect. -Zeng Guofan's "Letter from Home"
Zeng Guofan's family letters are the most family instructions, which can be compared with saints. Zheng Guofan is a controversial figure in modern history, but his education for his children has left many lessons for future generations. The descendants of the Zeng family have always inherited the family style of diligence, diligence and pragmatism. Zeng Guofan once left a 16-character proverb: "frugality is prosperous; If you are diligent, you will be healthy; " Thrift, never be poor. "
Liu's family instructions
Don't do it with little evil, and don't do it with little good. -Liu Bei's "The Last Word"
If Liu Bei admonishes his son, good things should start from a young age, and small things will also have great achievements; Bad things should also be prevented from childhood. This proverb is not only the motto of the Liu family, but also regarded as a standard by other families.
"Accumulate goodness into virtue" is the motto pursued by many families from generation to generation, and so is Liu's family motto.
Gaoshi family guide
Determined to be a gentleman, you can be an official or not, and people respect you, so I want you to stand up first. -"Gao Jiaxun"
In sharp contrast to the worship of "official standard" in Ming and Qing Dynasties, ambition is the first essence of housekeeping.
Gao Panlong didn't cling to the dragon, leaving an iron gaos thought for later generations.
What can really be passed down is not the wealth of high officials, not the wealth of family, but the truth of being a man.
Yanshi family instructions
Father is unkind, son is unfilial, brother is not a friend, brother is disrespectful, husband is unjust, and wife is unhappy. -Yan Zhitui's Yan Jiaxun
It explains the interaction between family members well. If you want to have a harmonious family environment, you must first meet the expectations of your loved ones. Yan Jiaxun is a scientific concept of family relationship development.
Yan Zhitui believes that educating children is a serious and important issue for parents. Taking Confucianism as the guiding ideology, he advocated starting with prenatal education.
Yuan jiaxun
Determined to speak out for this, cultivation is the first. -Yuan Cai's "Yuan Fanshi"
Yuan Fan Shi is divided into three volumes: pro-family, governance and family. The content mostly involves reading, self-cultivation, dedication, respect for morality, respect for the old and love for the young, managing the family and managing finances, the way of human relations, the way of dealing with the world and so on. The purpose is to create a harmonious and peaceful family atmosphere and social atmosphere. Although this book is based on Confucianism, it is also open-minded and full of philosophy.
Yao's family instructions
Bite the root of a vegetable and you can do anything. Too arrogant, beautiful and useless. -Yao Shunmu's medicine words
The theoretical source of raising children in poverty is that children have a higher chance to exercise patience and sharpen their progress when they are young. Yao pays attention to the summary of daily life and secular human experience, so family instructions also require simplicity, simplicity and practicality.
Family instructions of Fang family
Those who are poor and indispensable are also virtuous; People who have money but can't get it are full of enthusiasm. -Fang Xiaoru Family Proverbs
The poor have integrity, and the rich have modesty. Fang Xiaoru, who is upright and upright, perfectly interprets this family motto. Fang's family prose has cultivated countless people with lofty ideals and celebrity heroes in history, and today, it has also made beneficial contributions to cultivating a new generation.
Wu jiaxun
You must have a broad mind and measure. A careless idea will ruin a person's wealth. -Wu's Family Instructions
The Wu family pays attention to realm and pattern, but pays more attention to details. Sometimes details can determine success or failure. Wu, a famous minister in the late Ming Dynasty, summed up many life experiences of being a man, studying, cultivating oneself, managing the family, managing the world and helping the country from his personal political experience, social experience and time observation.
Lujiaxun
The word "heirloom" means reading and ploughing. The word "prosperity" means thrift and diligence. The word "settle down" means laissez-faire and forbearance. -Lv Kun's "Family Instructions on Filial Piety"
Lu has two words, and so does family precepts. If you can do this, you are really a good housekeeper.
Zhang's family instructions
No matter rich or poor, diligent at home and abroad, respectful of ceremony and law, modest and honest, they are all good people-Xun Yuzi by Zhang Lufu
A good family is not rich or expensive, but stable and harmonious, enjoying old age. Zhang Lvxiang lived in the Ming and Qing Dynasties, the country changed hands, the nation was in peril, natural and man-made disasters continued, and the profound social crisis shocked his soul, which led Zhang to attach great importance to a stable and harmonious environment.
Sun Shi Family Guide
The husband's family is so neat, the father says grace, the son says filial piety, the brother says friendship, the younger brother says courtesy, the husband says health, and the woman says obedience —— Family Rules of Xiaoyoutang by Sun Qifeng
It proves once again that family rights and obligations are equal, and everyone should play multiple roles in the family. The Sun family pays attention to the education of family members. Only a good family environment and cultivation from childhood can make a family last forever.
Ai Xin Jue Luo Shi Jia Xun
The trend of ambition is far-reaching; Whatever you want, you are invincible. -Michelle Ye's "Sage Court Motto"
Difficulties are like springs, depending on whether you are strong or not. You are strong, it is weak. You are weak, it is strong. "Ambition is ambitious, which directly affects a person's pursuit and future. Ai Xinjue Roche discovered the importance of this aspect very early, which is of great benefit to cultivating the ambition and perseverance of future generations, so that future generations will not easily shrink back when encountering difficulties.
He jiaxun
My studies are mine, and my wealth is mine. We can't help it if people are here, but we can wait if people are here. -He Geng's Poem Ci
Tell future generations to study with peace of mind and not be keen on getting rich. Any family will develop sooner or later anyway. Family precepts focus on learning, cultivation and conduct. Of course, nothing is an exception. Studies are with me, and wealth is with me, which makes future generations pay more attention to the inside.
Lin jiaxun
"Living in an American house, marrying a Japanese wife and hiring a China cook" is the happiest life in life. -Lin Yutang
The Lins don't directly tell future generations what is the truth, but tell them the truth of life in a very relaxed tone, just relax.