First, the sacrifice of love
Regret teaching her husband to seek the title. This poem is from Wang Changling's in my heart forever. This poem expresses a woman's deep guilt and helplessness to her husband. Because of herself, she prevented her husband from pursuing fame and fortune and made him unable to make a difference in officialdom.
Second, the bondage of marriage.
This poem also reflects the social restrictions on women at that time. Women are often bound by their families and cannot pursue their ideals as freely as men. They can only wait silently at home and pay for their husbands and families.
Third, the choice of love and career.
This poem can also be understood as a woman's reflection on choosing love and giving up her career. She may have had her own dreams and ambitions, but she had to give them up for love and family. She regretted her choice, but there was nothing she could do.
Fourth, the helplessness of fate.
This poem also expresses a helpless sigh for fate. Life is always full of choices and compromises. We can't predict the future, nor can we change the past. Sometimes, we have to make some difficult decisions, although these decisions may make us regret.
Historical allusions and their application to exterminating teachers and asking for Hou.
I. Historical allusions
In the ancient history of China, there are many stories about killing husbands and seeking titles. The most famous is the story of Wang Zhaojun. Wang Zhaojun was the favorite concubine of Emperor Wu of Han Dynasty, but she didn't like court life and longed for freedom and independence. She chose to marry Hun Khan in exchange for peace with the Han Dynasty.
Although this decision made her lose the favor of the emperor, through her own efforts and wisdom, she became a sage of the Huns and made great contributions to the peace between the two countries.
Second, modern applications.
In modern society, it is no longer widely accepted for husbands who destroy the church to find a title. The status of women has been improved, and they have more opportunities to pursue their dreams and careers. But there are still some women who choose to give up the opportunity to marry into a rich family and pursue their own ideals.
They may choose to pursue a career they love, or pursue their own entrepreneurial dreams. This behavior of destroying husbands and seeking fame reflects women's courage and independent spirit, and also shows women's ability and value.