During the Warring States period, there were seven great powers, namely Qi, Chu, Yan, Han, Zhao, Wei and Qin. Seven Heroes of the Warring States Period? . Of these seven countries, Qin is the most powerful. Qin often bullies Zhao On one occasion, the Prince of Zhao sent Lin Xiangru, the servant of the minister, to the State of Qin to negotiate. When Lin Xiangru met the King of Qin, with his wit and courage, he won a lot of face for Zhao. The king of Qin saw that Zhao had such talents and dared not look down upon Zhao again. The prince of Zhao saw that Lin Xiangru was so capable. Give him a name first? Doctor? Later, he was named Shang Qing (equivalent to the later prime minister).
The prince of Zhao valued Lin Xiangru very much and was furious with General Zhao Lian Po. He thought: I worked hard for Zhao and earned as much money as Lin Xiangru, didn't I? Lin Xiangru with his mouth open, what's the great skill, status is higher than me! The more he thought about it, the more unconvinced he became. He said angrily, If I meet Lin Xiangru, I will embarrass him face to face and see what he can do to me! ?
Lian Po's words reached Lin Xiangru's ears. Lin Xiangru immediately ordered his men to meet Lian Po's men in the future, so they must make way and not quarrel with them. Later, he went out by car. As soon as I hear that Lian Po is ahead, let the coachman drive into the alley and wait for Lian Po to pass.
People in Lian Po were even more carried away when they saw Shangqing let his master go like this. When they saw Lin Xiangru's people, they laughed at them. Lin Xiangru's men couldn't stand this anger, so they told Lin Xiangru. Your position is higher than that of General Lian. He scolds you, you avoid him and let him, and he will never take you seriously again! We can't stand this. ?
Lin Xiangru asked them calmly:? Compared with the king of Qin, who is better? Everyone said: of course, the king of Qin is awesome. ? Lin Xiangru said? Yes! I'm not afraid of the king of Qin, so am I afraid of even the general? You know, the state of Qin now dares not fight Zhao, because the domestic civil servants and military commanders are United. We are like two tigers. If two tigers fight, one of them will be injured or even killed, which gives a good opportunity to attack Zhao. Think about it, what matters is the face of the country or the individual.
Lin Xiangru's men were very moved. When they saw Lian Po's men, they were very cautious and always let them go.
Lin Xiangru's remarks later reached the ears of Lian Po. Lian Po was extremely ashamed. He took off his sleeves, bared his shoulders, carried a thorn, and went straight to Lin Xiangru's house. Lin Xiangru hurriedly came out to meet Lian Po. Lian Po knelt down to Lin Xiangru, holding Vitex negundo in his hands, and asked Lin Xiangru to whip himself. Lin Xiangru threw Vitex negundo on the ground, hurriedly lifted Lian Po up with both hands, dressed him, and held his hand to let him sit down.
Lin Xiangru and Lian Po became good friends from then on. These two men are skilled in writing, fighting for their country, and Qin is even more afraid to bully Zhao. ? Offer a humble apology? It has become an idiom, meaning to apologize to others and admit one's mistakes.
The story of daring to take responsibility has a cat, always looking for excuses to cover up his mistakes.
The mouse escaped. It said, I think he is too thin. It's not too late to eat when you gain weight. ?
When I went to the river to catch fish, I was hit by the tail of a carp. It said, I don't want to catch it-it's not easy to catch it? I just want to wash my face with its tail. ?
Later, he fell into the river and his companions tried to save him. He said: You think I'm in danger? No, I'm swimming.
The words sank before they were finished.
? Shall we go? The companions said:? It is performing diving again. ?
This is a poor poor cat. What do you think of this little story? I believe that everyone will have different inspirations!
In fact, many people in real life are similar to this cat. I always make excuses for unfinished things, and I also make excuses for my mistakes when I am wrong. As a result, I always get hurt by shooting myself in the foot.
You know, when everyone comes to this society, it takes a lot of effort to become an excellent person, but it really doesn't take much effort if you just find an excuse to explain why you don't go all out.
So if you want to succeed, you must understand? Excuse me? Is a stumbling block to your career and life. Please look at the following example:
Subordinate? Excuse me? The boring manager put up this sign in the office: This is an area without excuses. ?
He announced that September is? No excuse month? And tell everyone:? We will only solve the problem this month, without making excuses. ? At this time, a customer called to complain about the late delivery, and the logistics manager said: Indeed, the goods were late. It won't happen again ?
Then he appeased the customer and promised to pay compensation. After hanging up the phone, he said he was going to explain to the client why he was late, but he thought September was? No excuse month? , there is no reason,
Later, the customer wrote a letter to the president of the company, evaluating the excellent service he received when solving the problem.
He said:? To his surprise and novelty, he didn't hear the same excuse. He praised the company? Sports without excuses? This is a great sport.
Through this example, I believe everyone will understand:
Excuses are related to responsibility, and a high degree of responsibility can produce excellent results.
The famous saying of taking responsibility is 1. Doing everything well is the responsibility. Wang Aizhen
2. The first meaning of freedom is to be responsible for yourself. Alai Mountains (located in Kyrgyzstan)
3. Responsibility is an ordinary and perfect mentality needed to do anything. Gong Jingyun
4. Responsibility means caring for others and the whole society. With a sense of responsibility, life has real meaning and soul. This is a test of civilization and sincerity. It shows concern for the whole and the individual. This is love and initiative. Munir Nasu
5. Responsibility is innate and cannot be shirked. Zhang Lili
6. Responsibility means being responsible for others and yourself. Li zengyang
7. Responsibility and rights are twins. If you want to enjoy your rights, you must be brave enough to take responsibility. flood
8, there are many things, as long as we turn a blind eye to them, lack of consciousness, it may become our burden, become our burden. Mao Zedong
9. When a person does things, a man must take responsibility. bright red
10, the more a person dares to take on a big responsibility, the more vigorous his spirit will be. Bansten？ Half liter