We understand that parents want their children to get high marks and get the first place.
But what is more important than grades is to let children learn to be human first.
Cai Yuanpei, former president of Peking University, said: Education is the cause of cultivating personality.
Just instilling knowledge and practicing skills will not turn children into learning machines. We must let them learn everything, touch everything, go out and see more and try more.
There is more than one wonderful life. Some people climbed to the top, and some people applauded by the roadside.
Every child has his own bright spot and track that suits him.
I hope parents and teachers can work together to find a suitable path for children with different personalities.
A good family is a hotbed for cultivating schoolmasters.
The level of children's grades, the role of the family far exceeds that of the school.
Why do you say that? Because the role of school is to remold children, and family is the background of children's life.
A good family makes children positive and optimistic, and a family with problems will bring many negative effects to children.
Schoolmasters are not born. Behind every schoolmaster, there is a powerful family. Parents' help and family support are too important for children.
The formation of good habits, the initial shaping of thinking logic and the establishment of personality are the basic operating systems gradually formed under the subtle influence of the family after the child is born. School education is important, so is family education.
Severity is love, forgiveness is harm, and connivance is destruction.
Tao Xingzhi said: Teach people from an early age. Children are like seedlings, they can germinate and grow well, but they are doomed to die if they are not raised well.
In these critical years, parents must not indulge their children and cannot delay their growth in the name of love.
It is parents' nature to love children. But this kind of love should not only include reason and love, but also be flexible, draw a clear line between "can" and "can't" for children, and let children's behavior have laws to follow.
The softer parents are to their children, the harder they will be in the future.
"If the son does not teach, the father has passed; The teaching is not strict and the teacher is lazy. " Poor education is the fault of parents, lax requirements and lazy teachers.
Education must be strict, so please be kind to those teachers who are strict with their children. They must be the most sincere to their children's hearts.
You never know how good a child is unless you "force" him.
The child is a blank sheet of paper. If you don't force him, nothing will ever grow on him. Children who are gifted in both aspects are forced to learn piano and dance from an early age; Children with top grades are forced to study hard and practice hard from an early age.
Behind every excellent child are "cruel" parents.
The potential of children is "forced". When children are confused, what parents should do most is to stimulate their potential and force them to work hard appropriately.
Parents let their children suffer for a period of time and let them enjoy the benefits of hard work in the early stage of life.
Although hard work and study are very painful, it is in these painful moments that children are actually going uphill and getting closer to success step by step. Education is a very serious matter. All parents and teachers should be responsible for their children's future.
Sorry, I can't satisfy all parents.
Teachers have to manage a class or even several classes by themselves, and they really can't take care of all the students, let alone take care of the children like parents.
Teachers are not omnipotent, but they will try their best.