The first thing I saw was the girl version, and I was deeply moved after reading it. When I saw the boys' edition again, I really thought, is this answering the same question?
The original question is: Do you have anything to say to the boys/girls in love?
Let's take a look at the comments and induction of netizens (three hot comments were selected)
Netizen A: Most of the advice given by men is about women not being too material, but in fact, most of the advice given by girls to boys is to want psychological respect and companionship. At the age of 46, except for the problem of money, the advice given by any other girl did not mention material things.
Netizen b: boy version: advice to women girl version: advice to love
Netizen C: The most common thing among boys is to ask girls not to love money too much, and girls stay away from me.
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4-5 years old: I didn't speak (boys may not understand love at this time, hahaha, lovely love)
6 years old: Love means giving him a big hug.
7 years old: I won't tell you.
8 years old: I want to live alone.
9 years old: Girls should stop snitching.
14 years old: There is no love bean in real life.
16 years old: The first girl a boy sees after scoring is the girl he likes.
17 years old: Tell me quickly that I will never see him again after graduation.
18 years old: Love is the communication between two people, not your talk show alone.
20-year-old: It is normal for girls to confess first, and there is nothing shameful.
2 1 year old: If he doesn't stop you from buying a bag, don't stop her from buying shoes.
22-year-old: Say what you want as a gift, and don't overdo it.
23 years old: My mobile phone is none of your business.
24 years old: Don't expect him to do anything for you just because you are in love.
25 years old: outspoken. Don't think that our hearts are connected.
27 years old: I wish you could say I love you yourself (sign language)
28 years old: Girls can like boys who are better than themselves. Does it mean that boys like girls who are better than themselves?
29 years old: you can buy online, but five a day. Isn't that a little exaggerated?
30 years old: respect his profession.
3 1 year old: Do you look down on people with high academic qualifications?
33 years old: Whether a boy is good or not has nothing to do with the amount of hair.
34 years old: Love should not be mixed with too many purposes, such as getting married.
36 years old: If a boy always finds fault with you, he may not want to be with you for a long time.
37 years old: A serial phone call won't make him want to talk to you more.
38 years old: If you can only fall in love with one lover, you should be the same age if your mental age is the same.
4 1 year-old: small works delight feelings, while big works hurt feelings.
42 years old: I don't like rural people, and I don't see that you don't like the rice we grow.
44 years old: Don't pursue Gao Fushuai, find someone who really likes you and understands you.
45 years old: Your best friend is not your mother. Don't look for him.
46-year-old: I care too much, not falling in love, but doing business.
47 years old: Before getting old together, get ready to face the crisis of middle age together.
50 years old: The Cold War won't really calm you down.
5 1 year-old: Usually you ask the man to take the initiative, and you ask the man to shut up when quarreling, so you take all the reasons.
53 years old: Stop nagging, he didn't mean it.
54 years old: Be sure to stay with the boy you love, because in 20 years, you will have money, a car and a house.
55-year-old: turn over old scores, add new injuries and old injuries, and both lose.
57 years old: If you love a house, your life will be so short.
58-year-old: People who admit their mistakes first are braver.
6 1 year-old: Emotional failure is not life failure.
62-year-old: listing so many standards is empty, and it is a good man who doesn't make you sad.
63 years old: Girls should not be too practical.
64 years old: In real life, there are no perfect people.
65 years old: I think it's best to deal with this matter mainly with girls.
66-year-old: Love is that you are still willing to be with you when you are old.
68-year-old: It's better to accompany my wife to the hospital than anything else.
69 years old: Get down when there are steps.
7 1 year old: cherish this person around you, otherwise you don't know when he will leave.
72 years old: If you really think it's appropriate, you don't have to listen to your parents.
76 years old: In fact, love will still let you down.
78 years old: The bravest thing in my life was being with her when I was 27 years old.
I believe many people, like me, feel that there is a big difference between men and women, and boys' suggestions seem to be more conflicting. Let's go back to the original question: I asked for advice to boys and girls in love. Some people may think that the contents of "suggestions" may only be things that we seldom realize or are difficult to realize in our current life, so we may have to reflect on the essence behind these suggestions. Why do boys' suggestions have so much impact and care about material things?
This video actually caused a lot of discussion. Boys think boys are right, and girls think girls are right. But I still think this contrast video is actually quite meaningful. I know that each has its own problems, but I still have the courage to love!
Which sentence do you like best? I like "when you look at her figure, she is also looking at your personality" "in fact, love will still let you down"; But what moved me was "I still want to receive a flower when I am 78 years old" and "Love is that you are willing to keep your company when you are old"