This is a collection of letters between Fu Lei, a famous translator, and his son, which is full of deep and enthusiastic love from his father for his son. In every letter from home, Fu Lei patiently taught his son how to improve his study and discussed music, Chinese studies, art and history with his son. ...
Besides caring about his study, he also taught his son how to be a gentleman. For example, it is impolite to visit other people's homes, wear scarves and put your hands in your pockets. It is these meticulous teachings that make Fu Cong, the eldest son, an elegant pianist. And compared with traditional parents who are not good at expressing, Fu Lei is not stingy to express his thoughts on children:
"Dear child, the day after you left, you wanted to write a letter for fear that you would get bored, that's all, but not a day goes by without missing you ..." This beloved son is affectionate and strong as a dog, and moved by it!
2. Liang Qichao's letters.
Some people say that Liang Qichao's family can be regarded as a model of family education in China, because their family "has three academicians in one class and all nine talents". With such a great achievement in family education, does the book list dog think that Liang Qichao must be a super strict father? It was not until he finished reading his letters from home that the puppy discovered that Liang Qichao was actually a super loving father!
He called the child "baby" and said to the child, "You know, your father is the most emotional person, and his love for you is extremely enthusiastic." He paid attention to children's physical and mental health and comforted his son Liang Sicheng, who dropped out of school because of a car accident: Life is long, not just one and a half months, so don't worry. He encouraged children to develop in an all-round way: regardless of the size of the cause in the world, it is the same for a scholar-bureaucrat to help the world and a farmer to farm.
He carefully understands the characteristics of each child and teaches students in accordance with their aptitude, so all his children have become talents and beautiful talks.
3. A letter from Zeng Guofan.
There are "two and a half" saints in China history, two are Confucius and Wang Yangming, and the other half is Zeng Guofan. Why "half"? Because Zeng Guofan's qualifications were average since he was a child, he achieved a life counterattack with the help of Chinese people.
How did he do it? The answer lies in Zeng Guofan's letters. It contains Zeng Guofan's great wisdom of self-cultivation, family planning, governing the country and leveling the world.
Talk about self-cultivation, pay attention to diligence and housekeeping, and "save three provinces in one day" and "harvest in Mo Wen, but seek hard work"; Talking about managing the family, he advocates managing the family diligently and educating his children. As long as he is knowledgeable, he won't worry about not having food.
When it comes to governing the country, he thinks that employing people is more important than doing things. It is necessary to "not live alone if there are merits, and not shirk if there are merits." This book at home is like Zeng Guofan's "Manual of Internal Strength Training".
4. 38 letters left by Rockefeller to his son.
Rockefeller is a famous "oil king" in history and the first billionaire in the world. The Rockefeller family lasted for six generations and is still one of the richest families in the world. This makes the booklist dog wonder how strong their family education concept is.
Finally, in this family book, the puppy found one or two things. In the letter, Rockefeller not only shared the secret of making money with his son, but also gave many valuable suggestions on knowledge, personality, interpersonal relationship, career and life. For example,
Regarding making friends, he said: "Refuse to associate with two kinds of people, the first is those who completely succumb to the status quo, and the second is those who can't carry out the challenge to the end." Regarding work, he said: "If you regard work as fun, life is heaven;" If you take work as an obligation, life is hell. "Dogs believe in these pertinent suggestions, which are also very useful for young people today.
5. Naipaul's Letter.
Finally, this book is a bit special. It is the only one of the five books recommended by the dog today. The author himself is just an ordinary father. He is the undisputed Nobel Prize in Literature winner-Naipaul Sr, the father of V.S. Naipaul, is a frustrated young journalist with literary dreams, but he was frustrated and poor all his life.